The Perfect System; You Raise’em We Cage’em, Everybody Wins (Child Un-Protection)

A few years ago, Pennsylvania Judge Mark Ciavarella began his prison sentence for taking commissions for each child he sent into Juvenile Detention Centers.

In 2001, Minneapolis MN arrested 44% of its African American men (no duplicates) under the direction of Police Commissioner Rich Stanek (Google Rich Stanek Resigns Star Tribune).

As a Hennepin County guardian ad-Litem, I’ve become sensitive to MN Supreme Court’s Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz statements that 90% of youth in the Juvenile Justice System have come through Child Protection Services & that the “difference between that poor child & a felon, is about eight years”.

25% of our youth are charged in adult courts (200,000).  I’ve written about eleven & twelve year olds charged as adultsAbused kids that never had a chance.  Over 60% of the youth in juvenile justice suffer from mental health issues (fully half of that population suffer from multiple, chronic, and severe diagnosis).

The World Health Organization defines torture as “extended exposure to violence & deprivation”.  I witnessed this torture each time I took a new child protection case (read this blog or my book for their stories)

Michigan & Pennsylvania each have almost 400 young people sentenced to life without parole.  It was only 5 years ago that America stopped executing juveniles (and those who committed their crimes as juveniles).

Kids condemned to the adult criminal justice system are exponentially more likely to be raped & beat up.  They are also almost all children of color and poor and never have the opportunity of leading a normal life.

There is not much in the criminal justice system to protect them.  Just like there is very little in America’s child protection system to protect children from the torture that is their home-life.

From a strictly economic perspective, this system is extremely expensive.  For 30 years we have maintained a recidivism rate of 66% and today cost average about $50,000 per year per inmate (juvenile justice costs in New York and California have hit $250,000 per year per juvenile).

Calculating costs of just 30 years of institutionalization at $50,000/year is 1.5 million dollars per caged youth (way more than any successful youth treatment program at this time) plus the added costs of crime (1.6 trillion dollars per year per insurance industry estimates) & the less easy to value of safe neighborhoods.

German police fired less than one thousand shots in their entire nation last year.

America has for years maintained the highest homicide rate of all industrialized nations.  In some U.S. neighborhoods, 800 shots are fired on a single evening.

The United States now has 5% of the world’s population & 25% of the world’s prison population (2.5 million) not including parolees, juvenile justice kids, or children in child protection services (another 2 million).  Over 30% of American youth are arrested before their 23rd birthday.

I could draw your attention to the huge disparity of race in our prison population & war on drugs, or the unfairness of the King Pin laws, or that Minnesota used to have a prison with a very low rate of recidivism (29% at the Shakopee Valley Women’s Prison – but when the successful programs inside the prison were cancelled, the recidivism rate jumped to 66%) or that our small state has half a billion dollar prison budget for under 3000 inmates.

Who’s winning this battle?

Not children, not cities, not schools, healthcare, or parents – You Raise’em, We Cage’em, the American way

(speak up, it is time).

 

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Not Enough

The state has agreed to pay $2.85 million to a 21-year-old woman who allegedly endured physical and sexual abuse after a child abuse investigation conducted by the state Department of Social and Health Services.

I accept that the dollar amount sounds impressive, but I challenge the DSHS assertion that this young woman’s life will ever be made whole by the financial settlement.  I’ve spent years in child protection and never met a fully recovered victim.  Abuse lasts forever and it takes great strength and help to make a happy life.  Help is not easy to find, and very expensive.  Allot of people just suffer.

This settlement bears a resemblance to the 3.5 Million dollars that was spent to build the mental health facility in Red Lake MN after Jeff Weise murdered his grandfather and  killed and wounded 14 others  after writing and speaking  about homicide & suicide and how his mother told him how she wished he’d never been born.

Why put people through this?

In my experience as a guardian ad-Litem, it is apparent that spending a fraction of this money on the front end, making sure that the suspicions of child molestation, providing drugs to minors, and other heinous acts against his very young child were unfounded, would have been a much better investment.  For the county, for the child, and for our larger community.

But the reality was, all the charges were true, but case was closed, & the incest continued for years making a normal life for this child impossible (regardless of the money involved).

Now, just like at Red Lake, a great deal of money has been spent, terrific damage has been done, and no one is happy.

Support child protection programs, train social workers & give them reasonable caseloads & the resources that they need to conduct effective investigations.

Anything less is a waste of money and a direct assault on the weakest and most vulnerable among us.

 

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ACE Study Highlights

The ACE study over 8 years & 440,000 people proves beyond doubt, that social workers, teachers, psychologists, judges, & pediatricians can not fix the millions and millions of American children suffering from adverse childhood experience.

These youngsters will continue to fail in school & life until we as a society agree to provide resources that will end the inter-generational transmission of child abuse.  As a volunteer guardian ad-Litem, I have removed 50 children from their birth homes.

In every case, the parents suffered from serious mental health issues that caused their very young children to be molested, beaten, starved or worse.  In a country with the resources and technology we are so proud of, how is it that we can fail to implement early childhood programs to stop these abuses of the weakest and most vulnerable among us?

Failure to care for children has cost America its leading nation status in most quality of life indices and certainly, safety and trust within our communities has made living in many American cities painful and dangerous for adults as well as children.

For a real learning experience, visit the people who created the ACE study, www.avahealth.org but by all means,

Watch the short version (at the end you can view other segments).

 

 

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This Doesn’t Change What’s Wrong In Kentucky (and elsewhere) For Abused & Neglected Children

After great pressure from concerned citizens, Governor Steve Beshear of Kentucky has signed legislation that will help youth aging out of foster care to lead better lives (by one year).

This is a tiny change in a state that allows the destruction and hiding of child protection records because of the bad publicity that would arise if these things were known.

KARA believes that these stories should be told.  Please pass this article on to people that have been impacted by these laws and those that would like to see better lives for the 3 million children that are reported to child protection in the U.S. each year.  Send us your stories & we will work to bring justice and civil rights to the youngest and most vulnerable among us.

 

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Children Murdered In Kentucky, Governor Beshear Hides The Evidence

Two infant daughters murdered one year apart in Kentucky, by the same man convicted of fracturing the skull & breaking the ribs of his three month old son a few years earlier.

Kentucky Governor Steve Beshear is hiding the records of dozens of dead children (from child abuse) because life for abused children is so awful in his state he wants it hidden from the rest of the nation.

The core issue in this nightmare of crazy people killing and abusing their children is the hiding or destruction of court records. 

If you think your state doesn’t live by the same standards as Kentucky, look again.

Many states delete records of horrible abuse after three or four years.

My own state, Minnesota has the problem, Indiana, has the problem (the state known for cancelling funding promised to parents that adopt special needs children).

This is child protection in America.  It is safer to be an on duty cop in this nation than it is a child.

Kentucky has the worst child abuse record in the nation.  Someone should say something.

 

Contact Governor Steve Beshear and let him know how wrong it is to hide public records that are critical to the safety of the two year olds in his state;

 

Contact Governor Beshear 

Mailing Address

700 Capitol Avenue, Suite 100
Frankfort, Kentucky 40601

Phone/Fax

Main Line: (502) 564-2611
Fax: (502) 564-2517
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2 Videos That You Can Use To Support Abused & Neglected Children

This first 3 minute video is the medical communities powerful study of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE’s study) and establishes how child abuse lasts forever and how it shortens and diminishes human life.

The second short video, introduces the powerful Brutal Truths & Best Practices public forum Kids At Risk Action held at Century college, drawing attention to the problems our institutions are having in dealing with the overwhelming issues being faced within our communities.

These two videos provide a world of information that will open the door to the larger conversation that must be held before significant change can occur for abused and neglected children.  Please Pass Them On;

KARA public forum

ACE’s Study (short video)  ACE’s Study (longer video)

 

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Guardian Ad-Litem News From Around The Nation

From time to time I publish news from other sources that is of interest to guardian ad-Litems around the nation.

If you know a GAL please forward this to them.

We need to be informed about the child protection systems around the nation and as we just found out, how 12 million dollars can disappear from the 15 million dollar CASA budget in one year.  This is Not In The Best Interest Of The Child.

Story 1, From the Bradenton Herald;

AskTheGAL: A new weekly column for your questions about helping abused, neglected children

 

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A MN guardian ad-Litem speaks to Montana about child abuse.

Not long ago, a mother with two foster daughters drove from MN to Montana in her old beat up pickup truck to defend her parental rights for her children even though dad had molested the children in their home state of MN.

The husband (now living in Montana) had money and knew the courts very well.

This poor woman, that had stuck her neck out to adopt children, was being sued and required to drive 20 hours to defend her parenting rights against a man whose semen samples were on file in Montana in a sexual abuse investigation of their two year old and 12 year old children.

Dad was guilty, but mom knew that sticking a 2 year old and a 12 year old on the stand as witnesses has never worked.  Children are easily confused and not credible witnesses, ask any attorney.

Mom was frightened of the courts, of the man, and of the damage done to her children.  No one in the MN child protection system was able to offer any help, she was on her own.  I felt sick.

As a guardian ad-Litem, I have witnessed many unfair and disconcerting federal and state acts, but this was truly abhorrent.

Upon investigating her husband, it became clear that he had a history of sex abuse, there was proof on file that he had molested his own young children.

Dad had money to sue for custody and mom had no money.  It was an unfair fight.

The fact this mom did not give up, lose her nerve, or commit suicide has always struck me as a testament to her courage and commitment to her children.

When I wrote the book INVISIBLE CHILDREN, half of my cases involved sex abuse of children.

Child sex abuse is the most underreported crime in the nation.

The impact of child sex abuse lasts forever.
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Good-By CASA?

National CASA (Court Appoint Special Advocate) lost most of its funding this year and is now just a shell of what it was last year.  Abused and neglected children need a voice in the complicated court system that now runs their lives.  These children have no voice in their abusive homes and no one in the system speaks for them.

CASA provides that voice.   From the  National CASA Blog

The National Court-Appointed Special Advocate Association—a nationwide network of volunteer advocates changing the lives of abused and neglected children.

Is anybody paying attention as funding for one of the most vital programs for neglected and abused children is slashed to $0?

Is anybody paying attention as funding for one of the most vital programs for neglected and abused children is slashed to $0? Society has an obligation to abused and neglected children. Caring for them is our collective responsibility.

So why does the Administration’s current budget proposalend federal funding of the Victims of Child Abuse Act?

The ratio of expenses to overhead for CASA is among the best in the nonprofit world. A single dollar invested in CASA programs yields $23.40 in savings in the foster care and child welfare system.

So why would anyone allow the $12 million in funding CASA receives through the Victims of Child Abuse Act to just disappear?

Sure, $12 million sounds overwhelming when you think about your family’s budget. But in terms of the Administration’s proposed budget, $12 million amounts to about 3 ten thousandths of one percent of federal expenditures. Put another way: the elimination of funding for CASA advocacy is meaningless in terms of federal deficit reduction.

But those dollars can mean everything to the life of a child in foster care.

How can anyone justify subtracting 3 ten thousandths of one percent from government spending when it means a child could spend more time languishing in foster care… or when a youth might be forced to take psychotropic medication that was never intended for children… or when siblings who could have stayed together end up separated forever? What do we say to the child who is moved three, four or even eight times to different homes and schools?

CASA can be the difference between a life that’s full of broken dreams and a life that’s lived to the fullest potential.

So why would anybody sit by and watch this happen?

I can’t, and I am asking each of you to take action with me.

CASA allies in Congress tell us there is a chance these funds can be restored—if we act now. If we raise our voices, speak loudly and speak as one, we have a chance. But the window of opportunity is closing.

We have mobilized our network. It is vital that everyone reading these words contact their elected representatives. Urge them to restore full funding for National CASA. It will take just a few minutes. And it could change the life of a child. Thank you.

Enter your zip code here for quick, easy links to your elected officials.

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New ACE Study DVD 3 Minute Preview:

Last night KARA boardmember Bob Olson & I attended the Academy on Violence and Abuse in Bloomington & viewed the powerful information the medical community has assembled on the consequences of Adverse Childhood Experiences.  Their information is a stunning revelation of how critical and long-lasting abuse is over a persons lifetime.

The Academy on Violence & Abuse’s demonstrates the importance of preventing child abuse and the direct cost of failure in disease, dysfunction, & shortened life expectancy.

Watch this video & visit www.avahealth.org for their comprehensive and stunning research on child abuse.

 

The Adverse Childhood Experiences Study (ACE Study) is the product of collaboration between Vincent J. Felitti, MD, who founded and directed the Preventive Medicine Department at Kaiser Permanente in San Diego, CA, and Robert F. Anda, MD, MS of the National Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, who designed, analyzed the data and prepared numerous scientific publications from the ACE Study.

 

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From Child Welfare In The News

These are important stories copied from the Child Welfare Information Gateway;

Child Welfare in the News

AZ: Money for foster care in Arizona could be cut by more than half

ABC15.com      April 18, 2012

The Chandler couple doesn’t understand why state lawmakers would even consider a 60 percent cut to Child Protective Services.

Under one of the two proposed budgets, $49 million used for monthly expenses would be slashed.

The Bartos said their monthly allowance was already cut by 20 percent a year and half ago.

http://www.abc15.com/dpp/news/region_southeast_valley/chandler/money-for-foster-care-in-arizona-could-be-cut-by-more-than-half

 

AZ: Arizona CPS seeing increase in child-abuse reports

Associated Press     April 18, 2012

A record-high number of child abuse reports in Arizona has led the state’s child welfare agency to turn to a special investigative team to help with case management, officials said Wednesday.

http://www.azcentral.com/news/articles/2012/04/18/20120418arizona-cps-seeing-increase-child-abuse-reports.html

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Child Trauma Academy Newsletter

Everyone concerned with the issues of abused & neglected children needs to follow this organization & its newsletter.

Published regularly by the Child Trauma Academy, it deals in the hard facts facing America’s at risk children.  

While is geared for the medical and professional community & its format can be a little run together and hard to read at times, there are few sources as deep and thorough as the Academy On Violence & Abuse Continue reading ‘Child Trauma Academy Newsletter’

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Institutional Bullying & Suicide; Bishop Gene Robinson

The following article by Bishop Gene Robinson draws attention to youth suicide & particularly that seven students in one Minnesota school district have taken their own lives, including three teens.

GLBT issues underly most of the suicide Bishop Robinson writes about.

That life can be made so unbearable for children so young is incomprehensible unless you have been near someone living the nightmare.

A gay 14 year old boy in my guardian ad-Litem caseload was transferred to a Christian mental health facility because of his suicidal behaviors (that began when he was 7).

My young friend was physically restrained for most of his five week stay in a Christian group home (sat on, tied up, & locked up).  This organization had promised me that they would deal objectively & rationally with his sexual orientation. Instead they worked day and night to convert him to “straight”.

There was nothing rational about the abusive and humiliating treatment he received at this group home.

As a result of the terrible treatment he received from his birth family & the lack of organized resources available to him through the child protection system, his entire life has been filled with dangerous behaviors & a death wish.

I’ve followed the stories of very young children committing suicide and experienced several first hand suicide attempts as a guardian ad-Litem.

We have treatment protocol to save these children.

Support suicide & mental health programs (yes, with tax dollars – and no, there is not a religion in the world that abandons children, gay or straight - direct your religious leaders to teach tolerance and compassion and give up on those who continue to support bullying and denigrating of queer kids.

There is enough pain in this community without adding to it.

 

 

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It Can’t Happen Here

I live in Minneapolis/St Paul, and am disturbed that my community thinks that terrible things being done to children are rare here.

They are not.

3,000,000 children each year are reported to child protection in the U.S.  I have taken 50 children from their parents because of the terrible things done to them.

I’ve seen far more violence against children in my city than I believed  possible before I entered child protection services.

Told to me by a friend when I related my experience of the 7 year old girl (my guardian ad-Litem case in the March 31st  blog) who had been prostituted;

Rich lived next door to a girl of the same age (7) and he could hear her screams as she was raped (he saw multiple men entering over time) and because he was horrified and fearful of how “no one would believe him about a prostituted 7 year old” said nothing.

It’s odd to hear this sort of thing but I do know what went through my friend’s mind about the  “oh, let’s not get into this with police & disbelief”  and the fear that accompanies such charges.  Law enforcement has trouble with this too.

I know what child rape equals in the years to come, as I have friends in their 60’s & 70’s who have shared their child rape experiences with me and I am an ardent follower of the medical science at the academy against violence & abuse (the medical community) www.avahealth.org .

There can be no overstatement of the impact child rape has on the adult survivor (read this suicide note if you think otherwise).

An older lawyer friend related his story of what might have been a single sexual encounter with a priest as a young boy who 30 years later sought help after recognizing that 3 marriages, and 3 business partnerships were a sign that he had trust & mental health issues.  At 80 he still sees a therapist.   

Violated children feel dirty and guilty as if they are evil and it was somehow their fault.

As long as our friends & neighbors accept that trillions are reasonable for war & military spending while billions are too much for young families and helping at risk children, our prisons will remain full, our schools failing, and dangerous / unhappy communities will fill the media & our minds with fear.

For God’s & your own sake friends, let’s do what the KONY 2012 movement has done for Ugandan children.

Speak up.

 

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Guardian ad-Litem Training

Shana was 6 months old when her 6 year old cousin placed her in the bathtub to wash 3 day old poopy diapers & stink off of her.  This was a common parenting act for the seven year old child whose mother sat for days all cracked out along with her sister, letting the kids fend for themselves.

It would not have been a disaster had the cold water pipes of this poorly maintained tenement not frozen shut on this January day.  The landlord turned the water heater up to (161 degrees) as he thought this would compensate for the lack of cold water.

No cold water mixed with the 161 degree scalding water and the skin on this baby’s legs and bottom suffered third degree burns.  To be scarred for life with reptilian looking legs is just one more cruel event in the life of this neglected and abused girl.

My second guardian ad-Litem case was a 7 year old boy (Andy) taken from his crack using mom at birth (she had spent 90% of her life institutionalized).  He was raised by a loving foster family to the age of four & then the judge returned him to his father – even though the father had a court order to stay away from young boys because of what he did to them.

Andy was covered with bruises when he became my guardian ad-Litem case in 1996.  He had been tied to a bed, sexually abused, beaten, and starved for four years.

What’s it like to be four years old, beat up, left alone in an apartment for days at a time, no food, & no place to turn for help .  My young friend developed many troublesome behaviors, received no consistent mental health therapy and way too many psychotropic meds.

He once asked me as we play miniature golf, “when will I be normal”?

A few years later he asked me to support him in his request of the County for a sex change operation.  Guardian ad-Litem training did not prepare me for these questions.  We still talk, 16 years later; he has AIDS now & has not lived a happy life.

Another case came to me after 49 police calls to a metro home before 2 girls were removed from their mother.  Drugs, prostitution, & gunfire were these girls normal environment.

The only reason the girls were placed in protective care was that the 7 year old tried to kill the 4 year old by jumping on her neck in front of the police.

I asked the juvenile officer at the scene why these children were not removed before the 49th call to the house as violence, crime, and terrible child abuse were obvious.  The officer’s answer was painfully insufficient, but it is certain that in my county, children have to be near death to receive protective services from the County.  The oldest girl had been prostituted and suffered for life.  I don’t know how the younger girl faired.

My longest and most tortured case was to be removing 8 children over a 12 year period (in many separate cases) from a mom who had been horribly abused as a child herself.  She used her children as a shield in violent relationships with men.  The children could not be placed together in foster homes because they were sexually active when together.  One more great sadness in the lives of these terribly abused children.

The same man that sexually abused the first four children (and kicked the oldest so hard that she went into convulsions) was still abusing children in that home 12 years later when the 3 year old was found to have cocaine in his system and had been sexually abused.  That man had never been made a party to any court proceeding concerning child abuse.  He had been charged with murder in criminal court.

I accidentally sat next to him at a court hearing (he did not know that I was trying to send him to prison).  .  Guardian ad-Litem work can be challenging.

From time to  time I will submit stories from my guardian ad-Litem cases.  Please feel free to comment & submit your stories.  There are many flaws in our system & we should all work to make it better.

Please do not send diatribes against teachers, social workers, troubled parents, or any of the other people working in the field.

It is the lack of awareness, resources, training, support, & systems that have made child protection so painfully dysfunctional.

Everyone I have worked with in the system has worked extremely hard.  When they fail it is because the task is simply too great to be handled by this poorly understood & terribly under-supported institution.  The answer lies in our caring enough about these children to help troubled families, hire great people, and support the institutions doing the work.

Ps… the federal CASA program lost almost all of its funding this year. Many state programs are struggling.

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The Commonality Of Child Sex Abuse

As a long time volunteer guardian ad-Litem, I have witnessed too much child sex abuse.  About half of the children in my caseload had been victimized.  One as young as 2, several at 4 years of age, and most of the older children had been abused for over 3 years.

This is a violent crime that both stigmatizes and terrorizes the child and becomes the twisted fibers in the brain that become the adult.

Without extensive & professional guidance to help the child understand that he or she did not cause the abuse, is not guilty of anything, or even able to have prevented what happened,  lives are lived never saying a word or dealing with the violence & trauma that go on to impact every hour of every day.

This from the Founder of a site dedicated to fighting child sex abuse; http://facsafoundationvirtualexpo.ning.com/

 

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The State Of American Schools (& Stop Blaming Teachers)

Average reading level of America’s Senior High Students; 5th grade proficiency

Math questions for Georgia grade school children;

“Each tree had 56 oranges,” the first question starts. “If 8 slaves pick them equally, then how much would each slave pick?”

The next question went a step further, referencing violence.  ”If Frederick got two beatings per day, how many beatings did he get in 1 week?”

Hiding the truth about Georgia’s terrible test results (teaching teachers to lie)

Science in Tennessee public schools (soon Indiana, Oklahoma, New Hampshire, & Missouri) GOD Made It All

Not one third of Kansas City’s elementary students read at grade level.

No nation will maintain leading status in the world without a workable educational system. No educational system will succeed in meeting even essential goals if a great number of students do not have the basic skills to learn when they begin their schooling.

How bad has the situation in the United States become? Roughly 18% of children are not familiar with the basic rules of printing or writing. However, when looking at children with mothers who did not obtain their high school diplomas, this number increased drastically to 32%. In contrast, only 8% of children with mothers who have college degrees struggle with the basic rules of writing (Siegel & Welsh, 2006, p. 336).

Just like investing in the stock market or tax increment financing, putting money into early childhood programs brings solid financial and social returns back into a community.

As a negative example, just look at states and nations that have not (failing schools, filled prisons, high crime, poverty, preteen pregnancies, & unsafe communities).

The world’s most advanced technical and military power, greatest economic engine (California ranked fourth highest GDP among nations at one time) & rather than fund education & support the people doing the work, too many politicians are choosing to build prisons instead of children.  We know how that works now & we need to stop.

25% of U.S. high school grads are functionally illiterate upon graduation, our drop out rates are the worst in the industrialized world.  Our Crime rates are also the worst in the world (5% of the world’s population & 25% of the world’s prison population & growing).

Children that can’t read by the third grade have a huge chance of not graduating &  simultaneously a much greater chance of living a dysfunctional life.

Denying children what they need to succeed serves no nation, no community, no families, & there is no religion that abandons the weakest & most vulnerable.

As a long time CASA guardian ad-Litem, I have seen far too many children fall through the cracks, drop out of school, & spend a lifetime with drug, alcohol, violence, and the institutionalization that accompanies it.

It is expensive, cruel, and counterproductive for any nation to continue short changing its children.

Vote for schools, early childhood programs, libraries, & child friendly programs.  Anything less adds to prison populations and unsafe streets.

Compare the quality of life indices degradation America has experienced among the industrialized nations and see if you don’t agree.

 

 

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The Laws We Live By

George Zimmerman, if not prosecuted in Florida for killing 17 year old Trayvon Martin, has started a whole new world of hate, violence, & death for America’s children.

Similar to Brazilian police randomly murdering street children last year, American vigilantes can now murder at will the children they deem not fit to live.  The harm will fall mostly on poor Blacks & Hispanics if history is an indicator.

Now that virtually anyone can conceal and carry a gun on the street in America, the fact that a self-defense claim works in all instances (in Florida) means that murder is a much easier crime to commit.

Just be sure there are no witnesses.

Trayvon was armed with skittles and soda.

If that passes for a weapon that frightened George into killing this 14 year old boy, there is no end to how easy murder has become in our communities.

“She was carrying a string of licorice” will be an adequate defense; Click here

Please read this note from Trayvon’s parents;

Mike,

Our son Trayvon Martin was killed because he looked “suspicious.” His confessed killer is still free. Join 900,000 people to call on Florida law enforcement officials to prosecute the man who took away our son.
Sign our Petition

 

Our son didn’t deserve to die. Trayvon Martin was just 17 years old when he was shot and killed by George Zimmerman. Trayvon wasn’t doing anything besides walking home with a bag of Skittles and some iced tea in his hands.
What makes Trayvon’s death so much harder is knowing that the man who confessed to killing him, George Zimmerman, still hasn’t been charged for Trayvon’s killing.

That’s why we started a petition on Change.org calling for Zimmerman’s prosecution and trial. We aren’t looking for revenge, we’re looking for justice — the same justice anyone would expect if their son were shot and killed for no reason.

Click here to join 900,000 people who have already signed our petition calling for justice for our son Trayvon.

No family should ever have to go through this nightmare. The law should protect everyone, regardless of where they live, how much money they make, or what color their skin is.

With our petition at 900,000 signers so far, we’ve made important progress toward making some sense out of what happened. The Florida Department of Law Enforcement will investigate Trayvon’s death, and so will the FBI and Department of Justice.

But Trayvon’s killer is still free. The surest path to justice runs through Sanford, Florida, and through the office of State’s Attorney Norman Wolfinger, who is responsible for bringing charges against Zimmerman. With your help, we believe he’ll have no choice but to give Trayvon and his killer their days in court.

Please sign our petition calling on Florida authorities to prosecute our son’s confessed killer.

Thank you so much.

- Tracy Martin and Sybrina Fulton

 

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Stop The Rape & Abuse of America’s Children – Get Involved In Invisible Children’s Mission

WOW & amazement for Jason Russell’s Invisible Children Campaign to stop Joseph Kony’s rape & militarization of voiceless Ugandan children.

What a terrific example of what one person (Jason) can do.

It is stunning that in just a few short years www.InvisibleChildren.com (not Invisiblechildren.org )has raised the awareness of millions of Americans to the tragedy taking place in Africa destroying the lives of thousands of Northern Ugandan children.

Jason’s efforts are absolute proof that individuals can create awareness & powerful change.  KARA has been working for 7 years now to bring the same kind of awareness and change for America’s abused & neglected children.

As a County volunteer guardian ad-Litem that worked with and reports on my city’s raped (repeatedly) beaten (often), murdered, & tortured children (many as young as 3 years old), It hurts me that there is so little discussion & awareness about the nightmare that is child protection in America.

Suicidal 4 & 7 year olds, prostituted preteens, scarred & psychotic very young children were my constant companions in the County Court System.  In this nation at this time, the only awareness & coverage they get is when one of them is found tragically murdered, or commits a horrid act.

30,000 Ugandan children murdered, & many thousands more captured & tortured by Kony, and until Jason Russell’s viral video & successful efforts to bring it to our attention, no one knew.  This is the kind of awareness that can bring change.

George Clooney is now involved (and arrested) for African children.  This is big news.  A high profile public spokesman will add to the momentum to bring Joseph Kony to justice and end the militarization & torture of Ugandan children.

How many American’s know or care about the 3,000,000 voiceless children reported to child protection services in this nation each year, or the millions that develop severe and lasting problems that destroy their lives?  Our children are much like the Ugandan children; they are militarized at a young age, have no voice in toxic homes or protective services, & they suffer terribly and no one knows until we bring the same attention to the children as did KONY 2012.

If only we could bring George’s (or another celebrity) attention to America’s abused and neglected children & the millions of school children recruited by the United States military & those enrolled in military schools within America.

If only we could recruit mentors/volunteers to help America’s neediest children.

Did you know that Military recruitment is the only reason America has not signed (we are one of only two nations in the world – the other is Somalia) the International Rights of the Child Treaty.

Add this sad reality to the many millions of America’s children reported to child protection systems each year and the depth and scope of the violence being done to our youngest citizens becomes apparent.  This explains why our prisons are full, too many of our schools are failing, & so many city streets are unsafe.

KARA’s is calling out for volunteers/mentors/helpers to make one small effort to save America’s most vulnerable children.

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http://www.projectcensored.org/top-stories/articles/the-pentagons-child-recruiting-strategy/

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The Most Powerful Suicide Note Ever

Two of my friends have killed themselves this year and I want badly to know how to help others deal with suicidal thoughts and depression with more than psychotropic medications.

When I wrote INVISIBLE CHILDREN in 2005, a 70 year old friend asked me out to lunch. After the meal he explained how he told no one of his abuse at the hands of a priest when he was a twelve year old boy and how finally at 45, after 2 failed marriages and several failed business partnerships, he sought out a therapist.

He was still seeing that therapist 25 years later.

Of the children I’ve worked with as a guardian ad-Litem, a high percentage of them have been sexually abused. I have seen the horror of child sex abuse and how 10 or 25 years later, a troubled being still fighting the darkness every day.

Child sex abuse may be the most under-reported crime in America. It could also be the most under-treated horror in America. As a guardian ad-Litem, my first visit to a hospital suicide ward to visit a four year old girl that had been horribly abused was never made public, or when I worked with the seven year old that had been prostituted, or any of the family members that practiced child sex abuse.

There are successful sex abuse recovery programs, but our local governments and state agencies don’t support them in a large scale, and the under-reporting of abuse means most children do not receive the help they need. As these children age, the damage from abuse does not disappear – it is often magnified and becomes a serious behavioral problem.

The medical people at http://www.avahealth.org/ are working to make the discovery and treatment of child abuse a normal part of medical examinations (support them). This would be a big first step in identifying the scope and scale of the problem and making treatment available to those that need it.

This is the longest and most powerful and articulate suicide note I’ve ever read and it has great meaning to me for its power to relate these two incomprehensible sorrows (abuse & suicide).

I could not read Bill Zeller’s last letter without feeling the terror, physical and mental impediments, and daily reminders of his childhood nightmares, adult confusion and suicide.

 

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Bad Teacher, It’s All Your Fault

As a longtime volunteer (CASA) guardian ad-Litem, I observed how really troubled children behave in school & understand just how impossible they can be in a classroom.  Suicidal behavior, sex in school, stabbing, biting, & other violence were common among them.

The blaming of teachers for poor student performance or failing schools is working directly against the possible fixing of the problem.  Just like social workers, they are attacked from all sides, provided inadequate resources to do the job & expected to manage the unmanageable.

Private schools and other non-public education can and do show better all around performance because they can manage the number of really troubled youth they let in.  Public schools are now handling the vast majority of the 3 million children reported to child protection services in this nation each year.  Abused and neglected children are very disruptive and their mental health issues generally have serious impact on school performance.

Today’s “AM I A BAD TEACHER” article in the Star Tribune gives a personal insight from a maligned teacher on the unfairness we are visiting on people that are working the front lines in our troubled nation.

There is no question that our schools have been failing (in comparison with the rest of the industrialized world) for many years now.  Allowing schools to fail assures that America will never regain its top tier status in the quality of life indices that we maintained for so many years.

Blaming teachers for failed schools is like blaming the social worker when a baby is found in a dumpster (it is wrong on many levels).

What is it like to oversee a classroom of 35/40 students, several with severe behavioral problems & often on psychotropic medications?

How is it that we offer almost no mental health services to our most troubled youth until after they have done horrible things, or that several states have eliminated mental health services in their schools and send all those children to jail.

America sends 25% of its youth into the adult criminal justice system & leads the world in incarceration & crime (we now have 5% of the world’s population & 25% of the world’s prison population).

Dr Bruce Perry has done 30 years of studies on the topic and holds that 25% of Americans will be special needs people by the end of this generation if these problems are not addressed now.

Our disrespect and lack of support for social workers & teachers when the the number of at risk children in our schools is tremendous & growing guarantees an end to America’s leading nation status.

As Pliny The Elder said 2500 years ago; “What we do to our children, they will do to society”

They need our help.

Pass it on.

 

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Thank You Judge Kevin Burke

for the clearest writing I have seen on the topic of children that need and deserve help within our community. Today’s Star Tribune Article, below.

He shares a letter from an 8 year old outlining his plans to escape with his toddler brother should the parents reunite (the swearing & fighting are violent & unbearable).

I’ve written about the 7 year old that hung himself and left a note & the 4 year old I visited at the suicide ward in Fairview hospital (as a volunteer guardian ad-Litem).

Judge Burke quotes letters from children that are not in the child protection system & draws our attention to the needs (and I would offer “civil rights”) of the large numbers of children that suffer because their communities don’t offer effective child protection services.

There are millions of U.S. children that are not deemed worthy of child protective services but need and deserve help.

Nowhere in America is a child watching his mother beaten or raped qualify for CHIP’s protection.  20 years ago MN voted to allow these children to receive services, but this statue was abandoned because the caseloads doubled & saving children from this hell was deemed too expensive.

As a CASA guardian, I have seen too many cases of children living through these violent traumas as a regular part of their life.

The World Health Organization defines torture as extended exposure to violence and deprivation.  My experience as a guardian ad-Litem is that every child I met inside the system had spent way too long being made crazy/tortured by violent or otherwise truly dysfunctional parents (the average is 4 years for the oldest child).

Again, Judge Burke is writing about children deserving help who do not today qualify for child protection & the numbers are staggering.

In America, 3 million children a year are reported abused or neglected (and fewer of them are receiving services today than they would have five years ago – budgets are tight).

He draws attention to the value of guardians ad-Litem for children not in the CHIP’s system and argues that these kids need a guardian ad-Litem champion.

I offer that a guardian ad-Litem should be a civil right for all children living in traumatic environments.

We are not saving any money by denying these children of a chance to lead normal lives.

Instead, generation after generation and their children cost our community a fortune as preteen moms & adolescent felons and decades of crime, violence, & institutionalization.

This is a moral issue as well as a burden to our schools, courts & communities.

Early childhood programs & concern for other people’s children will make our community a much happier place to live.   www.invisiblechildren.org

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Shout Out To Mitch Daniels & the YMCA Volunteers With Special Needs Kids I saw this morning.

First, Thank You to the YMCA volunteers donating the most valuable thing they have to give, their time.

Week after week I see special needs children getting a chance to shoot hoops & walk treadmills because these kind & generous people donate their Saturday to bring children who otherwise would not have the opportunity to participate in all the fun things at the Y.

You are truly the best citizens our community can hope for.

A different kind of shout out to Mitch Daniels (Indiana’s Governor) for Terminating the state adoption subsidies to 500 families that adopted special needs children based on the state’s promise of transportation & other specialized needs help these children lead more normal lives.

What a cruel & possibly illegal act.

I met with adoptive families in Indiana a few months ago & don’t understand why a class action lawsuit has not graced this state’s heartless & hypocritical legislature.  Could they even be sued personally by the children & families that executed adoptions based on existing legal documents?

This was a direct promise from the state to lower & middle income families that have put their future on the line because they saw a great need abandoned children (wards of the state) were facing because of mental or physical health issues and parental neglect & abuse .

What a cruel & potentially illegal act to break that promise.

Call Mitch Daniels  317-232-4567 & James Payne 317.234.139 & ask them if they can imagine what it’s like to be a 12 year old adopted child with disabilities knowing that you are a burden to your adopted family because the state redirected funds promised your new family for your education, transportation, & well being.

 

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National Center For Youth Law

It hurts me to think that babies and very young children need to have lawyers to enforce their rights in my community, but it has been my experience.

One of my first CASA cases was a badly burned little girl whose cousin placed her into a tub of 161 degree (scalding) water when she was a little baby (because her mom was all cracked out and her diapers were 3 days old and very poopy & her 7 year old cousin could not know that the landlord had let the cold water pipes freeze & compensated by turning up the hot water heater to “scalding” to compensate).

My friend Bob mentioned that if this were any other child (and not a ward of the state), this girl would have some legal recourse.

In the end, as a CASA guardian, Bob helped me arrange a lawsuit & the girl was awarded the limits of the policy (almost 300,000 dollars).  Not enough to compensate a now teenage girl with scales and disfigured legs that she will have forever, but perhaps a better education when she turns 18 and a memory that someone cared enough to make it happen.

I recently spoke in Indiana where 500 families adopted special needs children with the promise that the state would provide funding for education, health care, & other special needs services, only to find out after the adoptions were completed, the governor redirected those funds away from children into a fund to pay bonuses to state employees that cut the most from their programs.  This is an example of a class action lawsuit that needs to happen.

Many states are making remarkably cruel and short sighted decisions about how to treat at risk children.  These decisions continue to fill our prisons & juvenile justice centers with adolescent felons and preteen moms.  If our legislators continue to pass boarder-line criminal legislation, they should hear from those of us that represent the children they are abusing.

Note to CASA’s: Contact KARA & the National Center for Youth Law with those cases you think deserve legal attention.

Youthlaw.org 510) 835-8098

 

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Sports, & Entertainment Vs Children, Education, & Public Safety

Public appetite for early childhood programs, education & mental health has proven to be far short of their obvious and growing needs.

MN owes its schools 2.4 billion dollars & the last round of budget cuts impacted children in many other ways;

Library hours & services were cut back & the waiting list for daycare & health / mental health services is by many measures profoundly out of wack (see Michael Swanson’s story) and social services are operating of budgets reduced from their already severely underfunded levels.

This article from Paul Udstrand in MN Post points out just how over the top our need for entertainment is in comparison to educating children & creating safe communities;

The subsidy being considered for the Vikings is around $700 million.

The largest public subsidy in Minnesota history was the Northwest Airlines subsidy in the mid 1990s. The NWA subsidy amounted to around $600 million. In 1992, NWA employed around 11,000 people in the state;  average salary of $40,000 a year.

The Vikings directly employ fewer than 130 people, only a handful of which work year-round, and 53 of whom are athletes.

The Metrodome employs 19 full-time workers.

Does the NFL really deserve the largest subsidy in Minnesota history?

By Paul Udstrand | 02/27/12 MINNPOST

I would add; 700 Million dollars would provide thousands of daycare workers, health and mental health services, teachers, & other desperately needed services for at risk children.

This is not a glowing example of great public policy & needs to be rethought.

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Save Enormous Downstream Costs (Listen Carefully To David Strand’s Advice)

KARA boardmember David Strand made public policy on children’s issues in Europe & has written an extremely clear piece on the effectiveness of preventative public policy vs “cleaning up” after poor public policy.

Here it is in it’s entirety.  Read it and see if you agree that taxpayers would save enormous downstream costs by the judicious use of preventative and developmental care for young, struggling families.

DFL Minnesota 8th Congressional District

Press Release #11

March 2, 2012

An Open letter from a former businessman to his State Representative and the Majority Leaders.

Our local state representative recently requested ideas for government reform. It prompts me to respond to her, along with House and Senate leadership, on a subject that involves billions of dollars in ongoing waste and presents opportunities for vast improvements in Minnesota’s ability to be productively competitive in our global economy. With a background of managerial and executive positions in multinational corporations, I can offer successful strategies that have relevance in government and public policy.

Benchmarking is essential to any private sector business for sustainable competitive success. Creativity is not the monopoly of one government organization, just as it isn’t for one business organization. Benchmarking is used to measure performance using a specific indicator  that is then compared to the performance of others. Benchmarking is the strategy that expands the opportunity for creative solutions.

It’s well known that both the United States and Minnesota societies have inferior conditions compared to other competing industrial countries and competing US states. Examples are rates of poverty, uninsured health care, public school performance, infant mortality, prison incarceration and economic mobility. Benchmarking of competitive organizations uncovers improvement opportunities without wasteful experimentation.

A second essential is understanding the difference between operating expenses and strategic investments. Both involve outlays of money, but they are otherwise completely different. Strong businesses control operating expenses, but carefully protect investments. Nothing is as important in business than the development of strong human assets. Similarly, societies that neglect health care and education investments for their citizens are doomed to failure.

A third essential is understanding the importance of long term strategy. Any private or public sector executive can make short term results flourish by ignoring long term strategic investments. I have witnessed businesses being harvested and generating wildly successful short term profitability while condemning the business to disaster over time.

The executive that deliberately does this gets rewarded, gets out and then disappears-leaving behind the wreckage of a destroyed business. This is routinely done by venture capitalists whose objective is to make as much money as possible in the shortest possible time.

I have an example of benchmarking from a post retirement experience in Hennepin County, where I worked for two years as a volunteer guardian ad litem for the Juvenile Court. One of the largest budget items in Hennepin County is the cost of the child protective system. Hundreds of millions of dollars are spent in corrective and restorative costs as a result of cleaning up after child abuse and neglect. My benchmarking study involved living in Denmark for half a year.

Compared to woeful neglect of the needs of young families in the US and Minnesota, this study revealed the success of preventative public policies that provide universal health care, universal maternity leave, and universal access to professionally staffed nursery school. This is developmental child care, not custodial care so often chosen here because it costs less. Taxpayers would be saved enormous downstream costs by the judicious use of preventative and developmental care for young, struggling families.

An example documented in Minnesota is the research done by the Minneapolis Federal Reserve Bank under the direction of economist Art Rolnick. His team found that there is no better return to the taxpayer than the investment in high quality early childhood education. When our lawmakers intentionally ignore this highly relevant research, they do a disservice to their constituents. This is an example benchmarking, the difference between operating expenses and investments and also the value of resisting the temptation of ruinous short term gain.

What is so desperately needed in Minnesota is public sector leadership to make the tough choices required for investment in our state’s future. Billions of future taxpayer costs are in the balance.

Will the current majority party in the House and the Senate provide that leadership and join with the governor to invest in Minnesota’s future? It will require telling the truth to Minnesota citizens. There is no free lunch. There is no cutting our way to success. We either invest in our future or we will leave behind the residue of a crumbling hulk of a once leading, once proud Minnesota. Which will it be?

David Strand

Aitkin, MN

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Lying To Ourselves About Caring, Children, & Religion

Jeremy Olson’s hard hitting piece in today’s Star Tribune about this communities not caring enough for children to provide them with essential services to help them lead a normal life starts a badly needed conversation.

The diminishment of the child protection program Jeremy writes about came into play a few years ago when the County budget got tight & workers were given no other option but to not answer the phone & offer services instead of removing children from toxic environments (far fewer calls are investigated than were a few years ago – see Indiana - Wisconsin – or almost any other Southern State).

Toxic environment means something different to a child protection worker than it does to someone unfamiliar with child abuse.  My first visit to a 4 year old as a volunteer guardian ad-Litem was the suicide ward at Fairview hospital.

I’ve written about the 7 year old that hung himself and left a note.  I’ve worked with about 25 sexually abused children (most of them under 10, some 2,3, & 4) & seen bruises on children covering their whole body.

It sickens me to hear people speak about what a wonderful, spiritual society we are when in fact we much rather build prison cells & drones instead of schools, young families, and safe streets.

It angers me to hear the media & politicians blame teachers for failed schools when the drop-out rate is no more their fault than the baby in the dumpster is a social workers fault and citizens feel they’ve done a good days work just blaming and hating instead of making any kind of a constructive comment or useful act.

Our institutions have been demeaned, degraded, and spit upon for some years now & the people doing the very hard work of holding this society together are doing what they can with the resource we give them.  They are the people on the ground, in the homes, day care, and schools working with what is increasingly becoming an unhealthy (mentally & physically) population that needs more and more resources if we want to maintain a healthy & productive society.

Today, in Indiana, funds promised to families that adopted special needs children were diverted to pay bonuses to the meanest directors in the system & funding paid for by birthing families to identify birth disorders was also redirected into the general fund.

In MN today, about a third of the calls that were responded to five years ago are being investigated for child abuse.  There is significant rhetoric surrounding the “new” paradigm, & the lower rates of reported child abuse (but they’re not answering the calls – of course there are fewer reports).

There is plenty of pain being felt by abused & neglected children that is being ignored because this society doesn’t care to speak of it.  When we don’t speak of it, it does not get the attention it needs to be remedied.

That’s why are prisons are full, our schools don’t work, & more and more of our cities are unsafe.  Read the paper & call your legislator & support early childhood initiatives.

Thank you Jeremy Olson for starting this conversation.  Please keep it up.

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Making A Difference; Foster & Adoptive Families

Saturday’s passing of Marilyn Olson tugs at my heart & prompts me to remember all the good that comes from foster & adoptive moms & dads working everyday to make life better for abused & neglected children.

Marilyn welcomed more than 100 children into her home over 50 years and impacted the lives of generations of at risk children who have and will go on to have their own happy families.

She has a special place in many hearts as do all of you who open your homes and lives to vulnerable children.

Thank you.

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Thank You Colorado Springs Gazette For Your Excellent Child Protection Reporting

This is the best child protection reporting I have seen in some time.  If this kind of reporting were the rule instead of the exception, children would be safer in America;

Three-part series on child abuse

February 16, 2012 5:39 PM

A three-part series where The Gazette explores how the child protection system works, how El Paso County ranks in terms of child abuse and how child neglect differs from child abuse in the eyes of prosecutors who handle the cases.

• Chidl protection system isn’t flawless

• Not all child abuse referrals become cases

• Child abuse cases likely to land in family court

Read more: http://www.gazette.com/articles/child-133652-abuse-series.html#ixzz1n94iRGdQ

 

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It Can’t Happen Here (it did happen here)

Today’s story about the tortured, starved, & raped (by her parents & stepbrother) Wisconsin girl is almost identical to one of my first guardian ad-Litem cases in MN.  The difference being that a MN judge gave custody of a 4 year old boy to a man with a court order restricting that man from being near young boys (because of what he did to them).

That boy was beaten, starved, and sexually abused for four years & left alone tied to a bed for days at a time.  He is in his early 20′s now and has AIDS.

According to the Pioneer Press; “the girl was forced to live in an unfinished basement, scavenge food from the garbage and eat her own feces….It’s unclear why evidence of abuse wasn’t detected by the agents…. The family also has had several contacts with county social workers since May 1997. The first case was substantiated, but six other reports of abuse or neglect were deemed unsubstantiated or did not go through a formal assessment.”

County budgets have been cut to the bone & workers are being told to concentrate only on the worst cases.  This poor girl did not meet the standard of “worst cases”.

This girls tragedy is not the social workers fault, it’s ours for not supporting child protection services.

 

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Adoptees Have Answers – Best Org Ever

This organization works with adoptive & foster kids to make life better for everyone.  Hats off to great people doing great things.  This is their most current newsletter;

You need to click on this link to follow their newletter links listed below;


Adoptees Have Answers
A program funded by the
Minnesota Department of Human Services

 

Issue 21, February 2012
AHA Community Calendar 

AHA Support Groups

AHA Online Support Group

In the News

AHA in Adoption Today

Mary Martin Mason On Canadian Radio

Kate Vogl Reports on Conference in Spain

Orphan Train Riders Seeking Heritage

Center for Family Connections News

 

In the Arts

Deborah Jiang Stein and The unPrison Project

MN History Center Offering on Boarding Schools

 

Resources and Research

American Adoption Congress Conference

Adoption and Culture Conference

Adoption Initiative Conference

AdopSource Surveys and Upcoming Focus Groups

 

AHA Community Calendar
Adoptees Have Answers offers an array of online and in person support groups for adult adoptees and fosterees in the Twin Cities, and for middle and high school adoptees in the Minnetonka School District. AHA is also proud to be affilitated with other adoptee support groups in Minnesota locations outside of the Twin Cities. For more information, please go to the AHA website. To learn how to start your own support group, check out our two webinars — How to Start an Adoptee Support Group for Adults and How to Start an Adoptee Support Group for Youthavailable online

 

REMINDER: AHA Online Support Group

AHA recently launched an online support group open to Minnesota adoptees and fosterees over age 18. Registered members are able to interact with one another 24/7 using the discussion board. Adoptees Julie Hart and Amy Fjellman facilitate the group, ‘live’, the first Tuesday of every month from 6 to 7 p.m. CST and check in with the discussion postings periodically. This is a secure environment that generates anonymous usernames to protect the privacy of its members. If you would like the join the conversation, visit this link to fill out four simple questions: We look forward to meeting you! Continue reading ‘Adoptees Have Answers — Best Org Ever’

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Giving Voice To Abused & Neglected Children At Private Schools

What a moving experience it was for me to speak at a local Catholic high school yesterday for their social justice week.

In a society that has divided so severely since I was in school, (50’s/60’s) it was heartwarming to see concern for less fortunate children made into a weeklong event and having me deliver the Invisible Children’s message throughout the day (six sessions & well attended).

Many of these students showed empathy and understanding for the three million children reported to child protection in the U.S. each year and are likely to make better decisions for at risk children than my generation has.

Hats off to educators that do this work every day – by the sixth session this presenter was totally exhausted.  I could not do this 2 days in a row.

If there is a core meaning to all religious teaching, it is being seen this week at Cretin Durham High School in St Paul.  Thank you.

 

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Race To The Bottom, Untrained Social Workers, Over Work & More Dead & Suffering Children In Indiana

From the South Bend Tribune Feb 5, 2012, Reporting “dramatic drops” in child abuse, could be because  only half the calls are being answered due to the equally dramatic change in how the reports of abuse are handled (about twice as many calls are screened out under the new centralized call center procedures).

10-year old Tramelle Sturgis had been reported as regularly beaten with two by fours, eyes swelled shut, bruised face, no heat in the home.  The caller stated he heard Tramelle say, “you’re killing me”.  Indiana is purging records after 120 days if a worker deems them unsubstantiated.

So the case went without further investigation.

When ditching records is made public policy, it will happen more often than not to reduce case loads and accountability.

This case deserves scrutiny and perhaps prosecution.  Who represents the rights of a child murdered by his parents?

Tramelle’s story reads just like http://www.invisiblechildren.org/2011/06/27/the-boy-who-died-locked-in-a-cage-after-12-visits-from-indiana-dcs/ last summer.  Many visits, no action, & the brutal death of a child.

Interviewing the beaten child in the presence of the father?  Who trained this worker?  What processes were in place to insure Tramelle’s safety (life)?

St. Joseph County prosecutor Michael Dvorak was “so frustrated by the lack of older records in the Sturgis case that he urged state Sen. John Broden… to amend the law in the current General Assembly Session”

Bruce Greenberg, CEO of Family & Children’s center wrote this when the region was congratulated for its performance in child protection;

“We have children dying in our region and we are awarded with recognition of system improvement. Really?” he wrote. “The timing of this award is hard to accept given the recent tragic death of 10-year-old Tramelle Sturgis.

“How many more kids will die before we all take a deep look at what is going on with child welfare services in Indiana and reverse the draconian cuts in funding and see how those cuts are negatively affecting the safety net of child welfare?”

As someone who has worked with social workers for many years (as a volunteer guardian ad-Litem), I refuse to blame them for child death on their watch.

The guilt lies with the Governor, Director James Payne, and those that supported shorting the system of resources and process that could have made a difference.  The process and resources were a part of Indiana Child Protection until these men made the changes to eliminate them.

I find it difficult to believe that the state’s newborn screening fund, collected from birth fees paid by parents, has been captured by the governor & directed back into the general fund instead of providing services and supplies for infants with birth disorders?

How could Indiana retroactively terminate adoption subsidies to the five hundred families that adopted special needs children based on the promise that they would have assistance for their special needs children?

Ethically and economically, these were terrible decisions that will cost Indiana children & citizens for many years to come.

Before these cuts Indiana Ranked almost last, 49th out of the 50 states in not supporting child welfare, 37th in child mortality, 47th in juvenile incarceration, 32nd in child death from ages 1 to 14, & 33rd In births to teen moms (As listed by Child Well Being, Geography Matters).

My last trip to Indiana introduced me to the frustrations and disappointments being visited upon abused and eglected children and the foster and adoptive parents trying to help them.

Call Mitch Daniels  317-232-4567 & James Payne 317.234.139 & ask them if they can imagine what it’s like to be a 12 year old adopted child with disabilities knowing that you are a burden to your adopted family because the state redirected funds promised your new family for your education, transportation, & well being.

 

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America; The Worst Child Abuse Record In The Industrialized World

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-15113454

This BBC report (video link) articulates the sorrowful truths that this guardian ad-Litem has reported on over the years.

It’s frightening and moving proof of the epidemic that is preventable child death in America and the fast growing army of future child abusers.

Why is it that important reporting like this are created by other nations (and not right here in America)?

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National CASA http://www.nationalcasa.org/

CASAMN http://casamn.org/

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43 Child Deaths Due Policy Violations In Colorado Social Services

As horrible as the news is, let’s thank Reporter Jordan Steffen of the Denver Post for his diligence in pursuing these sad cases.

As a CASA guardian ad-litem with many years in child protection I’ve met many terribly abused children that have fallen through the cracks of overwhelmed child protection workers (and they never make the papers).

In my world, 99% of the abused and neglected children go unnoticed except to the overworked & under-resourced social workers and under- appreciated adoptive/foster parents.

Part of the problem is that since newspapers have been in decline, the old beat reporters just don’t exist anymore (at least in my community) & the topic is painful.

It hurts to confront the cruel reality that our communities deliberately visit on these children.

To appreciate the meanness of some states I point to (Mitch Daniels) Indiana’s stealing (redirecting) the funding promised to parents that adopted abandoned special needs children (after these children had been adopted) & Minnesota’s fiscally irresponsible de-funding of subsidized daycare which forced the county to place children in foster homes because their father’s job did not pay enough to afford daycare.

It costs way more to place children in foster care than it would have to subsidize his daycare payments.

It cost Hennepin County millions of dollars to pay for the care of the four year old boy the court thought would be better off with his father even though dad had a court order to stay away from young boys because of what he did to them.  My client is now is now 23, has AIDS, and has been in over 30 foster homes and he will be a ward of the state until he dies.  He was been tied to a bed, starved, beaten, sexually abused and left alone for days at a time from 4 to 7 years of age.  That never made the paper.  Nor did the four year old girl who I visited in the suicide ward of Fairview hospital (her sister’s story was much worse).

If you read Jordan’s reporting, it will be easy to hate the social workers involved.  Please remember that under-training & under-funding combined with giant case loads, makes their task impossible.

Like blaming teachers for failed schools or cops for full prisons, it’s the wrong place to focus.

We did this; our state legislators, governors, and the mean spirited political hate fest that rallies around fear and war at the direct cost to American children.

When a baby is found in a dumpster, the mother has horrible mental health issues & needs help, but our communities have accepted that we just don’t support young mom’s or their troubled children.

It’s all wrong and we know it.  It is up to us to talk about these issues and bother our media and legislators until positive change happens.

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Project Unbreakable

I found this reference to Project Unbreakable today at the Boing Boing website.

It is a powerful statement on the lasting impact of child sexual abuse;

“Grace Brown created “Project Unbreakable” in October, 2011, and the tumblog appears to really be gathering momentum. The idea: “Use photography to help heal those who were sexually abused by asking them to write a quote from their attacker on a poster and photographing them holding the poster.”

So many stories from so many different people. Men, too, not only women. I was so moved by this post, which includes both a photograph and an audio narrative by an elderly woman who was sexually abused as a 12-year-old girl during World War II in Germany. Do listen to her story.

“You can never forget it. It is in your brain, marked like a stamp,” she says. “I still suffer from it.”

(via Jay Rosen)”

Thank you Boing Boing

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Growing Up Inner City

Luis Rodriguez Always Running La Vida Loca, gets it right about growing up inner city.  When he was ten, his best friend died when being chased by police (an accident).

Before he was 18, Luis had seen 25 of his friends killed by violence.   From 1990 to 1998 6000 LA youth died in gang related violence.

Rodriguez writes that “Gangs flourish where there’s a lack of recreation, education, or employment”.

Our nation’s continued focus on punishment over accommodation/compassion for children has created the largest prison population in the world (over 2 million-add to that juvenile justice/child protection/probation/parole, and the numbers are staggering).

Criminalizing youth that society spurns & declaring them the enemy brings huge costs and great pain to the community and the families involved.

Minneapolis MN arrested 44% of its adult black men in 2001 (no duplicate arrests – 58% of those men went on to be rearrested for a second crime within two years).

Each large American community has its own truths and statistics relating to youth well-being (or non-well-being).

America leads the industrial world in teen aged STD’s, violent crime, preteen moms, child mortality, child poverty, child abuse deaths, and youth tried as adults (25%).

The police and the courts are not equipped to solve these problems.

It is up to communities to understand the nature and scope of these issues and treat children with sufficient care and resources to end the madness as stated by MN Supreme Court Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz; “The difference between that poor child and a felon is about eight years”.

Let’s all get behind child friendly programs and politics and end the pipeline to prison & preteen pregnancies that America now promotes.

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Rights Of The Child

Annual Justice Week Cretin Derham HS – An Important Educational Event – Feb 9-13 – 2012 Common People Creating Uncommon Change.

This is the most tuned in high school I am aware of-digging deeply into social justice issues from Africa’s child soldiers to American juvenile justice.   I will speak to classes on Weds the 15th.

From time to time high schools, colleges, & other organizations invite me to speak at their events.

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Universal Rights Of The Child; All Talk No Action

There are two nations (of the 196 nations in the world) that have not ratified the Universal Rights of the Child.  Somalia and America.

Somalia, because it has no functioning government, and the U.S. because we will not stop training child soldiers*.

Americans are proud of and outspoken about spirituality, values, and freedom – making proclamations about human rights, women’s rights, and so on.

My twelve years in County child protection as a volunteer guardian ad-Litem (Court Appointed Special Advocate/CASA) has taught me hard lessons.

Beaten children, sexually abused children, starved and neglected children enter the child protection system every day.  Three million children a year are reported to child protection services in America.

Their numbers and stories are staggering.  It is so painful and so common.

We do not offer adequate help or protection to children that need it the most.

Worse, we don’t like to talk about it.  There is nothing that brings cold hard silence to a conversation than talking about my experiences with child sexual abuse or otherwise traumatized children.

When there is no discussion by those in the know,  few people outside the system can understand the issues which means the media and politicians that could draw attention don’t (or they are mixed up in their understanding and speaking which is actually worse).

So nothing changes.  In fact, during these lean times, programs for abused and neglected children are disappearing all over our nation and things are getting worse.   Our Voices Matter was powerful program that allowed foster and adoptive kids a voice has recently disappeared due to lack of support.  Many truly useful organizations are disappearing today because we don’t support children that need help the most.

From the courts, social workers, CASA programs, & health and other resources, to the foster and adoptive parents that work so hard to make life bearable for traumatized youth, child protection systems throughout this country are overwhelmed and unable to provide the services these children need.

Until I became part of the system, I had no idea that that 90% of the youth in juvenile Justice came through child protection, or that over 50% of youth in juvenile justice suffered from mental health issues with fully half that number diagnosed with multiple and severe mental health problems (the  same is most likely true of children in child protection).

Without professional help, how do you un-teach drug use or sex habits to a 9 year old that has been forced to practice these things at home?

My first visit to a four year old was at the suicide ward at Fairview hospital.  I’ve written about a seven year old foster child that hung himself and left a note (he hated the Prozac).   There is nothing like facing a very young self-hating, suicidal child to bring home the cold hard reality that the mental health services, consistent help from the county (her new parent) will not be there.  Knowing that her chances of recovering to lead a normal life are very, very, slim.  This has made me feel like I’m part of a crime.

As long as we don’t talk about it, no one can know about it.  Social workers are trained to not talk about it.  These children have NO Voice in the substance and direction of their own lives.  They suffer every day all day and we don’t want to hear about it.

Whether you are an abused child, foster/adoptive parent/social or health worker; empower yourself to start this conversation (and tell your friends/family to vote for child friendly initiatives**).

LET’S START TALKING

 

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Note To Invisible Children Followers

Please do not send requests for immediate help.  It saddens me that KARA is unable to provide personal assistance, but it is the case.

I am unable to respond quickly as my normal work can keep me away for days at a time.  This site and my efforts are designed to provide information and resources on and about child abuse and at risk children.

The Blogroll, Links, & Resources links on the right side of the page (located below the comments section) provide telephone numbers and contact information for organizations that have staff and can be of help (KARA has no staff).

If you do not find what you need, send me a brief description of your issues and I will answer with written suggestions as I am able.

I appreciate recommendations you make for positive experiences with organizations to add to our resource list & I do try to honor speaking requests.

Thank you for your understanding.

MikeT

 

 

 

 

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What Is It We Don’t Understand about fostering conditions almost ensuring criminality

- which guarantees a public outcry for more police & prisons, acting stupid when our streets turn dangerous, and so surprised when our schools fail because these children are now in their 4th, 5th, & 6th generation of dysfunctional families with terrible behavior problems that make classroom performance almost impossible (think Prozac, Ritalin, Zoloft)?

Attorney, successful businessman, & ACLU president Vance Opperman gave a spirited and informative talk at the Stone Arch DFL meeting in Minneapolis this morning.  He is a very smart and insightful fellow with a terrific grasp of so many critical issues, but not this one.

Unfortunately, like 99% of the nation, he has very little comprehension of why America has 25% of the world’s prison population, charges 25% of juvenile justice youth in adult criminal court, and is the world leader with five to ten times the murder and crime rates of any other *industrialized nation (for many years now).

On the plus side, Vance did speak to the African American Men’s Study & the importance of the institutionalized racist fact that 50% of Black Men are either in prison, on the way to prison, or on parole.

But when I asked him a question about how to solve the conundrum of preteen moms and adolescent felons, he said he was not very familiar with the issues.

I had hoped that Senator Amy Klobuchar would back me up.  She was in the audience and had worked in juvenile court when I was a guardian ad-Litem and she saw what I saw when she was a public defense lawyer in the court system that is child protection in our community.

Senator Klobuchar was in the Juvenile Court system when MN Supreme Court Chief Justice stated that 90% of the youth in Juvenile justice had come through Child Protective Services & the same time Hennepin County arrested 44% of the adult Black Men (2001, with no duplicate arrests).  Google “Rich Stanek Resigns” to find out more about how the appointed Police Commissioner made that happen.

Unfortunately, I did not get to ask the question about preteen mom’s (Industrialized World’s Leader) and STD’s (another World Leading category for America).

If communities were to foster conditions that lead to healthy children; our streets would be safer, more kids would graduate, we’d save money on police, prisons, and insurance.  It would also make for a happier and more knowledgeable citizenry, save tax dollars, and it would be the right thing to do.

* there are 24 other industrialized nations with great wealth and advanced infrastructures that the U.S. has compared itself to for many years.  Recently, due to America’s poor rankings, some journalists have begun comparing this nation to third world and emerging economies.

 

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How Politics Impact America’s Children

KARA board member  David Strand has written a powerful article in today’s Minneapolis Star Tribune pointing out how America’s politics continue to bring communities generational poverty that has resulted in the problems this CASA volunteer has worked with over many years.

Most of the industrialized world have recognized the value of supporting young families by providing opportunities that reduce the poverty and stress that so often lead to generation after generation of dysfunction and child abuse.

“Their methods for leveling the economic playing field start with providing all young children with healthy conditions for physical and mental development. Surprisingly, much of the research they rely on comes from America’s best universities.

The proof is that it works — these countries have broken the link of intergenerational poverty that afflicts our country.”

 

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It Costs Way Less To Hire & Train Social Workers;$68 Million Settlement Proposed for 10 Children Fraudulently Adopted and Abused

How many disabled & abandoned children would lead better lives if just a fraction of this proposed settlement had been spent providing children properly supported social workers & resources instead of charging multi-million dollar penalties to a government entity.

Like the settlement that was paid to the birth parents of the child lost forever (literally “disappeared”)  in the Nevada foster care system, or the dozens of brutal deaths children have suffered over the years in this nation where inadequate child protection services exist & social workers are regularly blamed when children are brutalized when in fact they are working in conditions that almost ensure that at risk children will pay the price for a counties / states malfeasance.

It would be far less expensive (see the studies & long term costs) and the right thing to do to see that foster & adoptive parents were well funded, well regulated, and early childhood programs set up to insure that every child had a chance to have a meaningful life in America.

Until then, let’s sue the pants off of states and counties that refuse to care for children.

New York Times Dec 29th article on 68 Million Dollar Settlement Proposal

 

 

 

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Yesterday Was A Bad Day For At Risk Children In Minneapolis; 11 year old boy stabs his dad after repeated beatings & abuse;

Yesterday  Was A Bad Day For At Risk Children In Minneapolis; 11 year old boy stabs his dad after repeated beatings & abuse;

Vigil planned for slain 3 year old; http://www.google.com/url?

Terrell has a fund set up at M & I Bank:  Re-post from Don Samuels: A special fund has been established at M&I bank for the family of Terrell Mayes. Call (612) 904-8000 and mention the Terrell Mayes Fund. Continue reading ‘Yesterday Was A Bad Day For At Risk Children In Minneapolis; 11 year old boy stabs his dad after repeated beatings & abuse;’

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Fewer Families Adopting In Denver (Agency Closing After 22 Years)

I expect that the same is true all across America; families are finding it harder to support at risk children on lower incomes;  http://www.denverpost.com/news/ci_19628951

It just seems to me that America’s children should all have a chance to have a childhood.

I find it hard to accept that on top of being abused, having special needs, or neglected, these children are punished again by us as a society.  We are too cheap to make a place for them at the table.

Adoptive & foster families need more help than communities are willing to give.  Kids continue to suffer in overcrowded court rooms, underfunded child protection systems, & now the families that have historically stepped forward to adopt hard to place children are being overwhelmed.

Vote for child friendly initiative; call a state representative and speak up for a child.  Nothing else works (these kids can’t vote).

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