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America: 20 Times More Gun Homicides Than The Rest Of The Developed World

Roses on WallTen years ago, KARA board member David Strand wrote the book  (NATION OUR OF STEP) comparing the United States to the rest of the developed world as determined by the quality of life indices that have been used for decades.

America at that time had slid far from the top in almost all of the important measurements.

Today’s Institutes of Medicine & National Research Council 378 page study demonstrates  that our nation is at the bottom of almost every health indicator, early death,  the world’s leader in gun death, and U.S. women are now second to last in life expectancy.

David Strand’s study determined that programs helpful to young families and children used regularly in other nations always lead to safer, healthier, and more educated societies.

At the time, David and State Legislator Andy Dawkins approached MN Governor Tim Pawlenty with  documented findings (including the Federal Reserve Board Study completed by Rob Grunewald and Art Rolnick) demonstrating the need, economic returns, and public appetite for programs that were proven effective for maintaining a healthy child population in MN.

After listening to David and Andy, our then Governor stated that , “children that are victims of failed personal responsibility are not my problem nor are they the problem of the state of MN” and he proceeded to eliminate subsidized day care, implement the conceal and carry law, and a dozen other child unfriendly initiatives.

Pawlenty and his Secretary of Education Cheri  Yecke labeled teachers “slackers” and for years fought against all early child initiatives until Yecke was forced out of her position of power by citizens that recognized the damage being done to Minnesota’s education system.

Because of this assault on *Minnesota youth, our state experienced double digit prison growth for five years in a row, our school graduation rates crashed to the lowest they had been in decades, and we arrested 44% of African American men in Minneapolis in 2001 (no duplicate arrests). MN former Supreme Court Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz, “the difference between that poor child and a felon, is about 8 years”

It is clear to me that the rest of the world understands much better than we do, the value of healthy, educated children.  They become healthy, smart, productive citizens that vote for more of the things necessary to maintain a first rate society.

Or as Pliny the Elder stated 2500 years ago, “what we do to our children, they will do to society”

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Protect Our Kids Act Passed By Congress (with tiny funding; 2M)

For those of you who read this blog regularly, you know I am critical of the lack of protection (concern) this nation has for its most vulnerable citizens.  Other than the “Imminent Harm Doctrine” which allows the court to take children from life threatening circumstances, there is no federal protection for children in this nation.  This is a step in the right direction.  Thank you Texas Rep Lloyd Doggett for introducing this bill.

From the Alliance for Children & Families website;

The law creates a national commission to examine child fatalities, which the findings state are both preventable and significantly underreported, while the states lack a national standard for reporting. In previous hearings, members of Congress heard testimony about the significant gaps in reporting that prevent effective policies and practices from being implemented.

The commission must be appointed within 90 days and must include individuals from a variety of backgrounds:

  • Child welfare administration
  • Child welfare researchsealbaby
  • Child development
  • Legislation, including legislation involving child welfare matters
  • Trauma and crisis intervention
  • Pediatrics
  • Psychology and mental health
  • Emergency medicine
  • Forensic pathology or medical investigation of injury and fatality
  • Social work with field experience
  • Academia at an institution of higher education
  • Law enforcement, with experience handling child abuse and neglect matters
  • Civil law, with experience handling child abuse and neglect matters
  • Criminal law, with experience handling child abuse and neglect matters
  • Substance abuse treatment
  • Education at an elementary school or secondary school
  • Epidemiology
  • Computer science or software engineering with a background in interoperability

The matters that must be studied by the commission include:

  • The effectiveness of the services … and best practices in preventing child and youth fatalities that are intentionally caused or that occur due to negligence, neglect, or a failure to exercise proper care
  • The effectiveness of federal, state, and local policies and systems within such services aimed at collecting accurate, uniform data on child fatalities in a coordinated fashion, including the identification of the most and least effective policies and systems in practice
  • The current (as of the date of the study) barriers to preventing fatalities from child abuse and neglect, and how to improve efficiency to improve child welfare outcomes
  • Trends in demographic and other risk factors that are predictive of or correlated with child maltreatment, such as age of the child, child behavior, family structure, parental stress, and poverty
  • Methods of prioritizing child abuse and neglect prevention within such services for families with the highest need
  • Methods of improving data collection and utilization, such as increasing interoperability among State and local and other data systems

The commission must issue a report with guidelines and recommendations within two years of appointment.

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Planned Evacuation Routes, Teachers Packing Heat (what’s next, Uzi’s?)

America's reliance on juvenile incarceration is unique

It hurts me to see the NRA making public policy & politicians blaming teachers for failed schools while they (those same policy making people) are ignoring the screaming need for early childhood programs that could stem the poverty and mental health tsunami that has attacked our inner cities (Detroit, Flint, Houston, Compton, Baltimore…giant swaths of a new and dangerous America )

As a long-time volunteer county CASA guardian ad-Litem, I cringe at the growing Mental health catastrophe (as defined by Dr Read Sulik, Minnesota’s Chief Child Psychiatrist – simply a child’s ability to cope at home and in school) and the plethora of psychotropic medications poured into five, seven, and nine year olds.

So many of America’s children are on their way to preteen motherhood & adolescent felony and we think it’s the teachers fault.

How is it that we have more gun murders, more teen pregnancies & juvenile sexually transmitted diseases, more incarcerated adults, crime per capita than the rest of the industrialized world (and not seem to care about it?)

Educators have been forced to become mental health and juvenile justice workers on top of teaching to youth grossly unprepared for school & learning.   Most of the children I’ve worked with (a small percentage of the 3 million children reported to child protection each year) have been subject to extended exposure to violence and deprivation.

The World Health Organization defines torture as “extended exposure to violence and deprivation” (the children in my caseload had been tortured).

It is time for teachers to start speaking out in a loud and clear voice about the need for much greater involvement by the community in the affairs of the our youngest citizens.

These shootings, these beatings, America’s expanding community wide insanity are destroying millions of young lives each year and filling prisons and wrecking cities without any clear signs of abatement.  In this we are unique in the industrialized world.

And teachers worry about their own safety in and outside of their classrooms.

Politicians blaming teachers should be forced into poor neighborhoods to teach until they can put forth workable ideas for improvement.    We all need to say more.  Change won’t come by accident or inaction.

“What we do to our children, they will do to society” (Pliny, 2500 years ago)

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Better Record Keeping & Higher Standards For Tracking Child Maltreatment & Protection

como park flowersRich Gehrman’s Safe Passage For Children organization has clearly discovered and articulated some of the most serious problems in Minnesota’s child welfare system (article in Hindsight 2020) & printed below.

What it says to me is that MN screens out twice as many child abuse cases as we used to, of those screened in, 70% of families are not even offered services.  The lack of record keeping in MN (and many other states) is a big problem.  If what we don’t know can’t hurt us (adults) – it is destroying poor families and at risk children.  This has been my experience as a CASA volunteer guardian ad-Litem.

Rich’s final plea is to make Minnesota a leader in outcomes-based child protection programs.  By tracking successful programs, we would know where to put resources & be more effective in helping children become happy & productive members of our community.  If we pulled this off, the march of at risk children into prison & preteen motherhood would be interrupted, school performance would improve, and our streets would be safer (I’ve had neighbors shot dead for just being in the wrong place).

It really hurts me to see that Minnesota ranks second lowest nationally in financial support & overall leadership in addressing these issues.

Thanks Rich & crew for a clear and practical approach to making life better for abused and neglected children and improving living conditions for all of us.      Buy our book or donate  Watch Our Video Continue reading ‘Better Record Keeping & Higher Standards For Tracking Child Maltreatment & Protection’

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Healing Through Creative Arts, Education & Advocacy (or, things I stole from the Surviving Spirit Website)

One of the finest sites addressing the personal issues of child abuse is www.survivingspirit.com a collection of strong and brilliant people sharing their creative and winning approaches to healing the trauma of abuse.

Here are just a few powerful concepts from their site – check it out – and share with others

Healing the Heart Through the Creative Arts, Education & Advocacy

Hope, Healing & Help for Trauma, Abuse & Mental Health

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive charactersare seared with scars”. – Kahlil Gibran

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.

These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

“Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards.” Soren Kierkegaard

“Go into the arts. I’m not kidding. The arts are not a way to make a living. They are a very human way of making life more bearable.

Practicing an art, no matter how well or badly,  is a way to make your soul grow, for heaven’s sake. Sing in the shower.

Dance to the radio. Tell stories. Write a poem to a friend, even a lousy poem. Do it as well as you possibly can. You will get an enormous reward. You will have created something.” Kurt Vonnegut

“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter”. Martin Luther King, Jr.

“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” Carl G. Jung

http://newsletters.survivingspirit.com to read more of the Surviving Spirit Newsletter

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Child Welfare Policies That U.S. Shun; A Note From David Strand (share this with your state rep)

Every so often KARA board member David Strand shares his thoughts on public policy and children’s issues.

David is exceptionally well qualified to comment on children’s issues as he has years of volunteering as a CASA guardian ad-Litem in MN, lived in other developed nations & participated in the making of public policies pertaining to children in those nations, and studied & written extensively on the topic.

These are his thoughts today;

As a backdrop to listing the policies, we need to examine the enormous differences in the political landscapes.  These differences account for what all other modern democracies implement regarding the welfare of children.  I don’t believe most Americans appreciate these differences.

First, there is no overlap in the political spectra.  This is demonstrated by the many recent examples of conservative governments that most of these countries have experienced.  Even the most conservative examples such as Germany, France, Great Britain, plus all the Nordic countries have continued to support these child-friendly programs.  An example is Denmark (where we lived for a time).

For most of the past decade the Danes have been governed by a right wing coalition, long time prime minister was Anders Rasmussen who is now the head of NATO.  They maintained all the social welfare programs implemented by the prior Social Democrats, and only nibbled at the edges to make them slightly less generous.  The point is that all these right wing governments support policies that are to the left of our Democratic Party.  There is no overlap even at the border.

Second, all these societies maintain what is best described as “child centered” governments.  We are the outlier because America is “money centered”.

Child centered societies strive to eliminate poverty.  Our child poverty rate is the highest among all OECD countries, and is about 10 times higher than the 4 Nordic countries.  Child homelessness is forbidden.  In the US, child homelessness is the fastest growing component.  Support for young families is fundamental.  All expecting mothers get preventative health care.

As a result infant mortality is reduced.  Ours is the highest rate in the OECD.  Parental leave is mandated.  In many cases this applies to fathers as well as new mothers.  Ironically, in places like Denmark, this policy is “sold” to taxpayers by brain development research done in US universities.  The length of parental leave (with pay and a guarantee of return to job) is typically a year.  When parents return to work, the children are usually placed in early childhood learning nursery schools.

These schools are typically operated by the ministries of education and staffed by professionals in child development.  In Denmark to work there, a person must have at least a high school diploma plus 3 years of child development training.  And these jobs are low turnover, because they are life long careers.  Here, much of child care is custodial only and offered by for-profit operations.  In Denmark (I cite the Danes because of personal experience) attendance is voluntary, but it is so good that close to 90% of all 3 year olds attend.  The cost is subsidized by taxpayers and parents with low income pay nothing.

Part of the support for young families is that full time employment pays enough to live above the poverty rate.  Unions exist in almost all work categories, but minimum wages are negotiated with employers and not mandated by legislation.  Also, vacation and sick leave policies are mandated and considered important to strong family development.

Other policies protecting children include prohibitions on trying children as adults in court, and targeting of children up to 12 in advertising.  Also drug abuse is treated as a disease and not a crime.

The result of all these social investments is that criminal behavior is minimized.  Denmark has 8 prisons.  If they had the incarceration rate of the US they would need 80.  Think about the tremendous savings in correcting anti-social behavior.  By the way, they refuse the concept of for-profit prisons as it is considered a dangerous idea.  And people in prison do not lose their right to vote.  The election participation is about the same as the general population.

Another aspect of the child friendly society is to elevate teaching to the highest regarded profession.  Teachers generally outrank even judges in respect.  An important benefit to teachers with children is that they do not have to concern themselves with saving for college and university costs.  All children who qualify academically are awarded taxpayer paid college education.  As a result teachers generally teach for life.

Finally, there is below a reprint from the KARA website, an organization I have worked with and have been a board member.  It is the Early Childhood Education Manifesto.                 Buy our book or donate  Watch Our Video

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Join Me For A Grand Time & A Great Cause At the CASA MInnesota Auction & Wine Tasting Fundraiser (January 10th)

CASA Guardian ad-Litem January 10th Wine Tasting Fund RaiserCASAMN Auction & Wine Tasting;   Uncorked ~

Join me on Thursday, January 10, 2013 from 6 – 9:30 pm to celebrate, and help continue, the good work of CASA Minnesota! Featuring wine tasting, cheese and desserts, and a fabulous silent auction. More details about the event can be found here: Uncorked Invitation  Please contact me if you have items for our silent auction, mike@invisiblechildren.org

RSVP by December 31st by printing the Uncorked RSVP card and mailing it to: CASA Minnesota, P.O. Box 17358, Minneapolis MN 55417. Or register online via Paypal using the link below:

Register onlin and learn more about the guardian ad-Litem program that CASAMN supports here; www.CASAMN.org

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Reducing Violence Against Children; Protect Our Kids Act (contact your senator today)

By a bi-partisan vote of 330-77, The House of Representatives yesterday passed H.R. 6655, ‘An Act to Protect Our Kids’. It’s now up to the Senate. It is expected they will vote on the bill today. You can help by contacting your two senators and urging them to vote to stop the killing.The bill would address violence against children in their homes by creating a national commission to address child abuse and neglect fatalities—upwards of 2,000 per year. Eighty percent of the victims are 3 years old and younger. The bill has the backing of hundreds of organizations, including the National Coalition to End Child Abuse Deaths, which has spent the last three years working to advance legislation.

You can see the bill’s sponsors arguing in favor of the bill on C-span here, or you can read excerps of their statements from the floor of the House here.

The Protect Our Kids Act, coming on the heels of the Newtown killings, could be a significant step towards reducing violence against children in our culture.

Thank you for your ongoing support  of measures to protect children.

Michael Petit
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Every Child Matters Education Fund

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Focus On Texas, California, & Florida Child Welfare

In cooperation with the Child Welfare Information Gateway, a service of the Children’s Bureau (KARA’s source for all of the following information)

Send KARA your news and information to be included in our new series on Child Welfare Around The Nation (your comments are welcome);

CA: Jury awards $6.9 million to boy molested by L.A. Unified teacher
Los Angeles Times – December 19, 2012
A jury has awarded $6.9 million to a 14-year-old boy who was molested by a Los Angeles Unified School District teacher when he was a fifth-grade student. The judgment, among the largest ever awarded in a district molestation case, comes at a time when L.A. Unified faces close to 200 pending molestation and lewd conduct claims arising from another teacher’s alleged conduct at Miramonte Elementary School. Unified also faces close to 200 pending claims and lawsuits alleging misconduct by a second teacher.
http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-lausd-molest-20121219,0,2183360.story

CA: State switching low-income children to Medi-Cal care
Napa Valley Register.com – December 18, 2012
Some 4,231 Napa County children currently covered through Healthy Families will be transitioned to the state’s Medi-Cal program, which has traditionally served very low-income individuals and families. Beginning next year, Medi-Cal is expanding income eligibility to include children whose family income is up to 250 percent of the federal poverty level; this move will absorb the children who were previously eligible for Healthy Families.
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Pounding On Children (the beatings continue)

Everything adults do impacts the youngest and most vulnerable citizens among us in profound ways.

Like the canary in the coal mine and vulnerable aquatic animals, children feel the brunt of our selfishness, apathy, and bad behaviors.  As a society, we are not child friendly in America.

I am a CASA volunteer in child protection serving a fraction of the 3 million children reported to child protection services each year – read this blog to see how seriously child unfriendly a nation we are.

Because Americans demand that almost every kind of pistol & deadly assault weapon be made available with almost no family or background check, in any quantity, and thousands of rounds of unaccountable ammunition, pretty much guarantees that children will kill themselves and be killed by others as a statistical absolute of the growing carnage that defines our nation.

At the same time, Americans turn their back on more and more poor children every year (we now have the highest child poverty rate in the industrialized world) with inadequate housing, day care, crisis nurseries, nutrition, health care, and especially, mental health care.

Three trillion dollars in the projected next 3 year base cost of war & military in this nation (59 cents out of every tax dollar) should make America the safest nation in the world.  It does not.

Not only does war destroy our youth, but the Untited States has more crime, more violence, and more dysfunctional and incarcerated people than any other industrialized nation in the world*.

At the same time, we continue to decline signing the International Rights of the Child Treaty because we refuse to quit sending children as young as twelve to military schools (the only nation in the world besides Somalia and Sudan to not sign).

Senior citizens (of which I am one) receive six times more government help than poor children.  We should feel bad about this and work openly to change it.

Children have no voice in this society.  They certainly have no lobby the likes of AARP, the NRA, the Insurance industry (keeping mental health services from children).

Dr Bruce Perry of the Academy Against Violence and Abuse states that 25% of Americans will be special needs people by the end of the next generation (he said this five years ago) and he has done the work to prove it.

There is no upside to degrading the lives of our youngest citizens.  The cost of not helping them to lead normal lives becomes horrific in societal degradation and economic un-sustainability.

Sustainability means that our third graders can read, go on to high school and graduate and then go on to become contributing members of our society.  That’s not happening now.  We should be concerned.  We should do something.

Like my mom said 50 years ago, “do something, even if it’s wrong” , meaning, try something, even it it fails, at least you are trying.

or,

Like Pliny the elder said 2500 years ago, “what we do to our children, they will do to society”, and we want that to be a good thing (not crime, incarceration, & soldering).

 

 

~ Uncorked ~

Join me on Thursday, January 10, 2013 from 6 – 9:30 pm to celebrate, and help continue, the good work of CASA Minnesota! Featuring wine tasting, cheese and desserts, and a fabulous silent auction. More details about the event can be found here: Uncorked Invitation  Please contact me if you have items for our silent auction, mike@invisiblechildren.org

RSVP by December 31st by printing the Uncorked RSVP card and mailing it to: CASA Minnesota, P.O. Box 17358, Minneapolis MN 55417. Or register online via Paypal using the links below:

ticket individual

tickets for a couple

Ticket for a guardian ad-Litem (discounted)

If you would like to know more about the guardian ad-Litem program that CASAMN supports, click on; www.CASAMN.org

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Our Only Hope For A Safe, Livable America; Talking About Mental Health

Photo By Richard Ross – see his work at www.juvenile-in-justice.com

Not talking about mental health is killing us, violently, cruelly, repeatedly.  Long before Michael Swanson murdered the 2 clerks in Iowa, his mother had been working tirelessly to find him help and for years she lived in fear of and in fear for her son just like so many other mothers and dads with scary unstable children.

Working as a volunteer guardian ad-Litem with abused & neglected children, mental health issues are so apparent and so important to a large and growing segment of our society (3 Million children each year are reported to child protection services – add to that all the other children suffering from diagnosed & undiagnosed mental health issues).

66% of the youth in our juvenile justice system suffer from diagnosed mental illness and fully half of them suffer from multiple and chronic issues.  The amount of Prozac, Ritalin, and other psychotropic medications being prescribed to youth in America without adequate mental health therapy is recognized by a growing number of experts as dangerous and unsustainable.

Too many mothers seeking help for mentally troubled children are told to have their child charged with a crime to get treatment; Rikers Island, the LA County Jail, and Cook County Jail in Illinois, housed the nations largest treatment centers in 2011 (this should be embarrassing to American legislators, maybe it would be if they knew about it).

As far as I know, Adam Lanza was not a juvenile delinquent, ward of the state, and was never involved in the child protection system.  If Adam had been identified & treated as a depressive youth, or another mental health issue, allot of people would be alive today that are being grieved for instead,  Unfortunately, it is the exception, not the rule, that a mental health conversation is ever had or maintained at a level that might help the person involved – we don’t have the will or the institutional capacity to deal with it until after the madness kills.

If the mental health facility that was built at Red Lake MN after Jeff Weise murdered his grandfather & fourteen other people before killing himself, had been built prior to Jeff’s writing about homicide & suicide and asking his elders for help, allot of people would be alive today that are being grieved for instead.  We can say that about more and more people every year it seems.

In my work and writings I know of many instances of strong willed, smart, and dedicated moms and dads trying to find help for a child that frightens them with bizarre and dangerous behaviors only to be ignored, turned away, or otherwise thwarted from accessing critically needed care for their child.  The violence and fear these families live with is a blot on our society.

That we as a people just don’t like to talk about mental health goes a long way in explaining the huge dropout rates and poor performance in America’s schools, the giant prison population, and the dangerous streets in so many of our communities.  It really explains the violence.

Until it’s your child, the mental health conversation isn’t that important (then it is the most important conversation in your life).

This thought is much better stated by a mom (Liza Long);

 

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CASA Minnesota Wine Tasting & Silent Auction For a Great Cause (Stop By & Say Hi – January 10th, Buy Your Ticket Today)

~ Uncorked ~

Join me on Thursday, January 10, 2013 from 6 – 9:30 pm to celebrate, and help continue, the good work of CASA Minnesota! Featuring wine tasting, cheese and desserts, and a fabulous silent auction. More details about the event can be found here: Uncorked Invitation  Please contact me if you have items for our silent auction, mike@invisiblechildren.org

RSVP by December 31st by printing the Uncorked RSVP card and mailing it to: CASA Minnesota, P.O. Box 17358, Minneapolis MN 55417. Or register online via Paypal using the links below:

ticket individual

tickets for a couple

Ticket for a guardian ad-Litem (discounted)

If you would like to know more about the guardian ad-Litem program that CASAMN supports, click on; www.CASAMN.org

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Children Living Under Bridges

Photo By Richard Ross – see his work at www.juvenile-in-justice.com

When I grew up in the 1950′s, the media covered stories about old people living under bridges and eating dog food out of cans.

At that time, legislators were bombarded by concerned citizens repelled by the concept of decent, formerly productive  citizens forced into abject poverty and the horrid conditions that come with it.  This is when social security began to provide sustainable stipends to the aged.

My uncle Bud was a good example of how a small amount of money managed well provided a happy (if modest) lifestyle for the elderly.  Employed full time for all of his life, a former low waged baker for one of the local big bakeries, Bud never made more than 40 cents/hr (Margaret made considerably less as a hotel maid).

When he and his sickly wife retired in the 1970′s, they still put their monthly bill money in envelops on the dresser, to make sure they had enough to pay everything, before they bought food, gas, or anything other than what they owed.

Because of the media’s coverage of dog food eating seniors living under bridges, Bud and Margaret were able to live a clean, modest lifestyle and not die in the pain and disgrace of poverty, living in tents or under bridges.

Today, America has children living under bridges (lots of them).

The number of homeless students attending Duluth public schools jumped 21% this year (a statewide trend and worse in many parts of the nation).

Among the *industrialized nations, (the 24 nations with long established infrastructures and democracies) the U.S. ranks number 1 in child poverty with 23% of our children living in poverty.

Homeless children are 3 times more likely to be sexually assaulted than those living at home.  Homeless children find it much harder to succeed in school or in life and their delinquency & crimes rates are far higher than the general population.

There is not a religion on the planet that abandons children & those people claiming there is do not have real religion (point that out to them).

The economics of letting poor children fall through the cracks & not graduate, adds millions of soon to be dysfunctional adults, more crime, & long term pain and expense to our communities.

All of the ethical arguments, data, and financial calculations indicate that healthy children become healthy productive citizens (investing in children equals a healthy society).

Our society today is suffering terribly.  As Pliny the Elder stated 2500 years ago, “What we do to our children, they will do to society”

Let’s do better things for our children.

Call your legislator, write a letter to the media, support subsidized daycare, crisis nursery centers, shelters for families, women, and children.  Help One Child lead a better life through your sustained actions.

Let’s make 2013 a better year for children in America

 

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A Modest Proposal For The New Year

Three hundred years ago, an Irish Minister wrote an explosive satire that was misinterpreted by many readers of his day (printed in its entirety below).

In a gruesome and widely read logical argument, Jonathan Swift clearly articulated a plan that would relieve the suffering of Irish families and their youngest children by selling babies to the English to be eaten (in a stew that he included the recipe for).

Back in the day, these writings were the modern equivalent of you tube or a longer version of Twitter and consumed voraciously by all who could read (or read them to others).

Public policy of the era treated the Irish more like animals than people and Irish children were doomed to lives of crime, prostitution, and abject poverty.

While a satire, Swift’s underlying argument was the completely serious view that death might be preferable to children doomed to disease, crime, prostitution, & the horrid cruelties suffered by abandoned children of his time.

His writings provide a painful comparison to the data and media stories that identify the most vulnerable citizens of today’s America.

3 million children are reported to child protection services in this nation annually and they are receiving about half of the help they were five years ago because of the economic downturn.

25% of youth are tried in adult courts today (their recidivism rates exceed 66%, the national adult average).  We now have more people in prison (2 million plus) & more crime (by a factor of 6) than any other industrialized nation.

80% of youth aging out of foster care are leading dysfunctional lives.

90% of youth in the juvenile justice system have passed through child protection & 2/3′s of them suffer from mental health issues.

Children living with homeless parents are 3 times more likely to be sexually assaulted than families with homes.  Dropout rates nearing 50% in this nation and the failure of graduating students to comprehend basic math, writing, geography, or history make poverty a likely future for millions of our youth.

For a nation that holds itself in high esteem for moral values we have failed generations of our youngest citizens through short-sighted and counterproductive public policy &  a significant failure of social will.

The English had nothing on us when it came to filling the streets with damaged children.  When our cities become unmanageable we build more prisons & make more war with the dollars we used to use for schools and young families.

This explains our schools, streets, prisons, and much of our medical crisis.

As a long time guardian ad-Litem, I have come to understand Swift’s rage at the cruelties a community can pile on to poor children.

The idea that America’s poor working families don’t deserve education, health care, & safe homes for their children in the richest nation in the world is a selfish and unsupportable position.

The other industrialized nations have figured out that caring for their youngest citizens guarantees healthy adults and productive communities. We now don’t rank anywhere near the top in the majority of quality of life indices among the other 24 industrialized nations.

The modest proposal for this article’s title was made a few years ago by former MN Governor Tim Pawlenty, when he told KARA board member David Strand, & State Legislator Andy Dawkins, “children that are the victims of failed personal responsibility are not my problem, nor are they the problem of the State of MN“, just a few months before he eliminated subsidized day care in the state (and the waiting list went from 43 families to 3400 families).

Bring back subsidized daycare and those other programs that give the weakest and most vulnerable among us a chance to lead a normal life.

KARA presents information with the hope that these writings will increase attention to the stark realities faced by abused and neglected children today. 

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Foster Care & Prostitution, A Terrible Relationship

The following LA Times article establishes the fact that most of the prostitutes in Los Angeles have been foster children.  This rings true to me for two reasons;

1) About half the kids in my volunteer CASA guardian ad-Litem cases had been sexually abused (and that lasts forever),

&

2) The most recent national data shows that 80% of of children aging out of foster care are leading dysfunctional lives.

 

Los Angeles is now transferring the the responsibility for juvenile prostitutes from the criminal justice system to the foster care system.

Another sad statistic is that 25% of America’s juveniles are tried in adult courts, & as former MN Supreme Court Chief Justice has stated, “90% of the youth in the juvenile justice system have passed through child protection service”.

What more proof do we need to establish that American institutions are producing exactly that which they were designed to stop?

Bringing more resources, more attention, and more conviction to bettering the lives of at risk children is the only way that our schools & communities can return to safe & wonderful standings they once enjoyed.

 

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Bastards; How Yesterday’s Rejection Of The Disabilities Treaty Damages America’s Children

Even after a wheelchair delivered heartfelt plea from 89 year old, handicapped, former Senator Bob Dole, our U.S. senate rejected the UN treat to ban discrimination against people with disabilities. 

The reason given was that acceptance would “infringe on American sovereignity”.

The real reason is most likely that this acceptance would draw attention to our failure to ratify the International Rights of the Child Treaty and America would be required to quit training American 12 year old’s as soldiers like the rest of the world has.

America is the ONLY nation to not ratify the Rights of The Child Treaty (Somalia & Sudan don’t count because they do not have a functioning government).

The rest of the world’s nations agree that it is wrong to train children as young as 12 as soldiers.

For those of us who follow public policy as it pertains to American children, this is the single most damaging failure of ethics and public policy in America today.

Not only is it unholy, unethical, & cruel to doom children to early military training, it is a glaring disregard for the rest of world, and it solidly established that the U.S. will remain on war footing forever.

Bob Dole, one of the most hard-line Republicans in our nation has begged us to accept the Disabilities Treaty – what kind of hate filled, greed driven monster would refuse to ratify an international Disabilities Treaty identical to the one we wrote and ratified in the U.S. & demand the continuation of military training for America’s 12 year old’s?

Please pass this on to others, especially people in politics and media (we are better than this).

 

 

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Thank You Houston Texan Receiver Andre Johnson

Wow, what a swell guy and great example for the rest of us; Andre bought $19,521 worth of Toys R Us gifts for children in Child Protective Services today.  Here’s the link (you can see the very long receipt).

I like his message too;

“A lot of these kids get discouraged because of where they grew up and things like that. I grew up in a single-parent home and I was fortunate to achieve my goals. So, whatever goals you have, just keep them out in front of you, don’t let anybody distract you away from them, because there will be distractions that try to detour you away from your goals. That’s the biggest thing.”

Pass this link on to your friends (it may give them ideas)

Let’s make this a Happier Holiday season for kids in child protective services…. they really could use a boost.

 

 

 

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Another Asset For Protecting Children; The Law

Federally, the only law that protects the safety of children in the U.S. is the “IMMINENT HARM DOCTRINE” which allows the court to remove a child whose life is endangered in the home.

Because of very weak support in many states, too many children in horrid circumstances are ignored and those that do receive help are seriously under-served.  It is no wonder that courts and prisons are packed and schools suffer as they are forced to deal with terribly damaged children.

The following article from the Hattiesburg American is worth reading in it’s entirety;

http://www.hattiesburgamerican.com/article/20120924/NEWS01/209240308/Positive-changes-come-from-suit-workers-say?odyssey=tab%7Ctopnews%7Ctext%7CFRONTPAGE

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CASA Guardian ad-Litem January 10th Wine Tasting Fund Raiser

Please join the CASA MN board and all our friends at our guaranteed to be fun wine tasting & silent auction on January 10th.

We are still seeking donated items for our auction.

Please contact Mariann Grossman our Executive director at; Mariann@CASAmn.org or through the link below.

Let’s make the new year a better year for kids in child protection services, support CASAMN.

Find out more & buy your ticket here; 

http://casamn.org/

My very best holiday wishes,

MikeT

Uncorked Invitation Flyer

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Promoting Prisons As Public Policy

I recently toured Richard Ross Juvenile In Justice museum display in Reno NV.  Heart rending photos of ten and twelve year old children in America’s justice system.  So powerfully does his photographer’s eye catch the meaning of former MN Supreme Court Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz statement that “The difference between that poor child & a felon is about 8 years”.

Chief Justice Blatz other quote hangs with me also, “90 % of the youth in juvenile justice have come through child protection services”, reminds me of just how much trauma has been suffered by abused and neglected children & how by not helping them we pretty much guarantee a pipeline to prison and the dangerous streets & failing schools that they leave along the way.

Take a moment and page through Richard’s photos in the link above & reflect on promoting prisons as public policies and what it has wrought on our nation.

Look up Flint MI, Compton CA, St Louis MO & other dangerous American cities & think how much better those communities could be if their children grew up with the resources and coping skills that they need to live a normal life.

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What Do You Wish For Today?

For Thanksgiving this year, It would be a wonderful thing if we would come together and wish really hard to make life better for at risk children (like they do in most other industrialized nations).

As a long-time Volunteer CASA guardian ad-Litem, I wish for;

Fewer ten and twelve year olds charged as adults in our judicial system,

More attention paid to the coping skills & mental health of children,

A genuine commitment to support child friendly programs, teachers and  education, with the understanding that  the depth and scope of the problems  at risk youth and schools face today will require more than half efforts.

And let’s put our heart into better solutions for the millions of children in child protection systems, foster, and adoptive homes (wouldn’t it be terrific if kinship adoption were supported more fully?)

& if 80% of youth aging out of foster homes didn’t go on to lead dysfunctional lives?

Wouldn’t it be nice if politicians would stop using at risk children as political footballs (wish hard for this – it’s really cruel & destructive).

I know it’s improbable, but can you imagine how much better life would be for all of us if we all cared as much about children as we say we do?  We could stop leading the industrialized world in sexually transmitted diseases, child poverty, violence, incarceration, & mental health problems.

Schools would graduate way more kids, the jails would empty, our streets and communities would be way less violent & much more livable.

An old Jesuit priest told me years ago, that you will get what you put your attention to.

Expanding on his thoughts; our community concentrates on punishment, jails, & prisons instead education, health, & at risk children.  There is little difference in tolerating the suffering of children & causing it.

We are getting what we wish for every day as a society; troubled schools, full prisons, & dangerous streets.

In the words of Pliny the Elder 2500 years ago, “what we do to our children, they will do to society”.

 

What do you wish for today?

 

 

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A Response To Harsh & Unfair Comments Made By Unhappy Readers

Every now & then I receive nasty comments from readers accusing me of every terrible thing you can think of.  Honest, grounded differences I publish.

Ungrounded, untrue accusations I do not publish.

Just to be clear, I am a volunteer guardian ad-Litem & gender neutral when considering who’s more at fault in child abuse cases.   Blaming any sex, any religion, nationality or economic class solves nothing (it’s just a different flavor of hate speech).  To accuse me of this based on one recent article (out of 400) is really unfair.  To my angry reader, please read fifty or sixty of these articles and see if you get a more balanced perspective.

I believe that as bad as things are in child protection services (for everybody involved ), the men and women doing the work are decent fair minded people (even to have chosen this un-glorious, low paying profession) overworked, under-trained, and under – resourced.   The hours are long & the results are painful.   It ain’t the worker bees wrecking the children.

They are terrific people working in a harsh environment inside of communities that don’t understand the depth and scope of the issues facing abused and neglected children which leads to underfunding and lack of support which guarantees failure.   And this won’t change until the conversation gets louder and more forceful (which is the intent of this blog and my efforts).

A few days ago I spoke at a meeting of police and justice workers.  An inner city minister friend of mine accompanied me and spoke eloquently about how hard it is to get state ward children into a mind frame that has any chance of respecting them or following any rules – these kids hate authority.  You would too if you were abandoned by your family, left unprepared and disconnected from society and the foster homes you grew up in.

No matter how hard social and justice workers try, success evades them.  To throw rocks at them is an undeserved injustice making an already impossible job even less satisfying.

Yes, there’s tons of unsolvable problems facing the abused and neglected children of America & only the commitment and cooperation of we the people will solve them.  Uniting & supporting organizations and people from the bottom up is crucial.  It will take all of us working together to find better answers.

The best answers lie in supporting more and better services for children as well as young families and providing sufficient guidelines, resources, and training for the people doing the work.

Stop with the hate speech.  Be constructive.  If you must beat on people, bother the people who don’t know or don’t care (wake them up).

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Domestic Violence Through A Five Year Old’s Eyes

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Dr. Phil referenced this video on the reality of how domestic violence impacts a child.   In America, a child watching her mother being beaten or raped does not qualify for child protection services.

A few decades ago in Minnesota, a once progressive state, changed child protection statutes to allow children subjected to horrible domestic violence to be reported as abused (and receive some relief).

Case loads doubled overnight & the statutes were reversed before a full year had passed.

Watch this video.  It demonstrates vividly how our public policies force children to live in the most depraved and damaging circumstances.

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Make Sure All Minnesota Children Have A Loving Home

The Minnesota Adoption Resource Network (MARN) is poised to assure that zero children await families. Assure the right of every child.

This video speaks volumes;    http://bit.ly/UEuUrW

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  • The day that I became adopted, I was forever blessed with a family to call my own. My family provided me with unconditional love, support, strength, hope and most importantly a sense of wholeness.

The story for many of Minnesota’s children is not the same…

Minnesota’s Waiting Children have birthparents who have been involved in the child protection system. Through the court system the birthparents rights have been terminated, meaning that the birthparents no longer have legal or physical custody of their children thus making them free for adoption. The State of Minnesota provides guardianship to the children through the county child protection system.

Children need adoptive families now. 
Of the 814 children under state guardianship, 335 need permanent, loving, adoptive families IMMEDIATELY Right now, children are waiting in foster homes, group homes, emergency shelters and residential treatment facilities for someone to adopt them.

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Following Up On The 7 Year Old Foster Boy That Hung Himself & Left An Anti-Prozac Note

The excellent short video (below) of news programs coverage about the commonality of proscribing psychotropic medications to very young children (in Florida, over 1000 children 6 or under) clearly articulates the greed & criminality (3 billion dollar fine for Glaxo Smith Kline, Criminal and civil settlements for lying and hiding information) driving the over-medication of children in child protection systems and an overall horrifically negligent approach to children’s mental health in America.

My own experience includes a very concerned judge sharing with me the sheer volume of psychotropic meds proscribed to the children in her Hennepin County courtroom, a very large number of children in my caseload proscribed multiple psychotropics simultaneously, and the bizarre, sad, and frightening personal experiences I’ve had with children and these drugs.    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=ISFPJL66p4c

& these;

1)      the Palm Beach Post series on the medicating of youth in the Florida Juvenile Justice system (about 2 psychotropic meds per day per child if you go by the purchased numbers).

2)      Video interview with Sharham Ahari, who described how psychotropic med salespeople criminally pushed these drugs for off-label use on children (resulting in the larges criminal fine for an individual corporation ever imposed in a U.S. criminal prosecution of any kind. )

To paraphrase Dr. Bruce Perry on this topic; if we do not address these problems quickly and effectively, 25% of Americans will be special needs people by the end of this generation; www.avahealth.org (this is a five year old statement).

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According To The Numbers, Child Abuse In MN; Safe Passage For Children

Rich Gehrman continues to work tirelessly compiling data critical to understanding why state agencies and education are struggling so.  I visited with Rich not long ago.  A few minutes with this bright, insightful fellow is enough to capture the depth and scope of his knowledge & his commitment to MN children.  He is super smart and super committed.

This piece from the very fine blog Hindsight 2020 clearly articulates the current state of care available to the abused and neglected children of Minnesota.  What it says to me is that MN screens out twice as many child abuse cases as other states, of those screened in, 75% of families are not even offered services.  The lack of record keeping in MN is a big problem.  Many states have fallen victim to thinking that what we don’t know can’t hurt us (it is destroying at risk children).

Rich Gehrman’s final plea is to make Minnesota a leader in outcomes-based child protection programs.  If we pulled this off, the path to prison would be interrupted, schools would improve, and our streets would be so much safer.  Thanks Rich for a clear and practical approach to making life better for abused and neglected children.

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Defining Democracy By How It Treats A State Ward Child

This moving TED conversation (about 15 minutes) says it all & eloquently as Lemn Sissay relates the story of his youth and how state policies define a human being.

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America The Beautiful (unless you’re born an at risk child)

Yesterday’s NYTimes review of the large and long study of Cook County youth doomed to a dysfunctional lifetime of violence, drugs, & incarceration could be the sort of reporting that could finally shake our communities into recognizing just how costly in lives and money our war on children is in America.

Unemployment is rampant: 71 percent of the men and 59 percent of the women are without jobs as adults. Of the 1,829 youths originally enrolled in the study, 119 have died, most of them violently — a death rate three to five times as high as the one for Cook County men in the same age group over all and four times as high as the one for women. In all, 130 have been shot, shot at, stabbed or otherwise violently attacked. As a group, they show high rates of post-traumatic stress, depression and other psychiatric disorders.

25% of American youth are charged for their crimes in the criminal justice system, not the juvenile justice system (about 250,000 per year).

About 66& of the youth in juvenile justice suffer from mental health disorders (and fully half that number have chronic, serious, and multiple diagnosis).  This statistic is about the same for children in child protection systems.

Remember, the World Health Organization defines torture as “extended exposure to violence & deprivation”.  Tortured children need mental health support.  All the children in my caseload as a guardian ad-Litem suffered from extended exposure to violence and deprivation – and almost none of them received anywhere near the help they needed to lead normal lives.

By avoiding the mental health issues inherent in child abuse, we insure that troubled children will become dysfunctional adults, prisons will remain full, school failure and dropout rates will remain high, and our city streets will become more violent (checkout Flint Michigan, Detroit, St. Louis, etc).

40 years of institutionalization, drugs, violence, & dysfunctional lifestyles or, caring enough about a five year old to make sure he/she gets help obtaining the coping skills necessary for a normal life (the answer is obvious).

It is that simple.

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A Law Late In Coming, Not Enough, But Glad It’s Here (Thank You Governor Mark Dayton)

Chained to a bed, beaten, sexually abused, & starved for four years & the perpetrator was never charged, nor was the mother who prostituted her seven year old daughter (49 police calls to this home), nor was the man who kicked his seven year old sex victim so hard that she went into convulsions (I met her 4 year old sister in the suicide ward at Fairview Hospital).

The man who kicked his 7 year old sex victim into convulsions had been charged with murder in another state but not accused of anything he did to that girl over many years.

The man who chained the boy to the bed had previously spent most of his adult life in prison for the types of crimes he was soon to commit on his 4 year old son, he was never charged with anything he did to his son (4 long horrid years of abuse), and the woman who prostituted her daughter was never charged either.

Governor Mark Dayton signed a long time in coming, very important bill making child abuse an actual crime in Minnesota.  Whether or not the new law will make a big difference in the lives of abused children will take a while to see.

In my experience, in the cases above for example, none of the people in the child protection system recommended bringing charges against the perpetrators because the damaged very young children would have had to testify in these trials (and children make terrible witnesses as they are easily confused and their testimonies are almost always useless).

As the guardian ad-Litem on these cases, I was told by the judges & my superiors that my choice was to remove the children from the home (and away from the perpetrator) with good odds of winning the long term safety of the children, or to go to battle with a 5 or 7 year old as my witness against a perpetrator & legal system stacked against the child (which I watched happen in a trial in Montana – with 2 & 11 year old victims)

So, while this law is necessary and important, without changing the very core of how we address the entire child abuse issue, it is likely that only crimes against children that can be photographed or caught in the act will be prosecuted.

It remains true in this nation as of today, that the only law protecting children at a federal level, is the “Imminent Harm” doctrine, that allows for the removal of a child from a home where his/her life is in danger from abuse or neglect.

This just doesn’t seem like enough protection for young vulnerable children.    Keep in mind, the World Health Organization defines torture as “extended exposure to violence & deprivation”.

Let’s keep this conversation going.

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Abused Children In MN

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Minnesota’s children are our children, and for this reason alone we must not ignore the horrifying statistics and numbers that don’t even begin to dive into the cold, hard, and straight facts of child abuse and neglect right here in our state.

According to the Minnesota Department of Human Services mn.gov/dhs , April 2010, 4,742 Minnesota Children were CONFIRMED as neglected or abused in 2009. Of these 4,742 children, 70% suffered from neglect, 44 children suffered life threatening injuries and 21 children died from maltreatment.

Inexcusable facts

• Median age for victims was six years old
• White Children accounted for 51 percent of maltreatment victims; African American children, 23 percent; American Indian children, 10 percent, Asian and Pacific Islander children, about one percent. Children who identified with two or more races accounted for 13 percent. Approximately two percent of the remaining cases, racial background was missing or unknown; 11 percent indicated Hispanic ethnicity.
• 76 percent of all alleged offenders were victims’ birth parents. Some children were victims of more than one offender.
• 20 percent of all those maltreated were physically abused.
• 16 percent of all victims suffered sexual abuse.
• One percent of all victims suffered medical neglect.
• One percent of all victims suffered from emotional or mental abuse.

Help prevent child abuse and neglect

Although not every Minnesotan is by law a mandated reporter, Minnesotans are greatly encouraged to report suspected child abuse and neglect to their county social service agency or law enforcement agency, and help in the following ways:

• Host neighborhood/community conversations and small get-togethers about how to strengthen and support families

• Reach out and connect parents to local resources, including parenting education programs, mental health/chemical health counseling, childcare, or financial assistance

• Provide support to your stressed, overworked, tired neighborhood parents by baby-sitting, inviting their children over to play, helping the youth with homework or volunteer to help out at school functions

• Join, or start, a local child abuse prevention council

This article was submitted by Marina Lumsden

 

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CASA Fundraiser Date Change (Save the Date – Auction Items Needed)

CASA Minnesota www.CASAMN.org is holding our annual (wine tasting & silent auction) fundraising dinner in mid January 10, 2013 (Thursday) in Minneapolis and we are seeking donations for our silent auction.  Funds raised support CASA’s Guardian ad Litem program which helps families and children in need right here in Minnesota.

CASA volunteers-also known as Guardians ad Litem in the State of Minnesota-are everyday citizens whom judges appoint to advocate for the safety and well-being of children who are in the court system as a result of abuse and/or neglect.

They stand up for these children and change their lives. CASA Minnesota is a 501(c) 3 non-profit organization that supports Minnesota CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) programs and the volunteers who have helped more than two million children find safe, permanent homes.

Through our fundraising efforts, we are able to recruit, retain, and support volunteers working with abused and neglected children in our communities.  We are able to provide training to enable the volunteers to help our most precious assets-our children.

Your donation makes a huge difference in the lives of the children we serve! 100% of your donation funds programs to support vulnerable children within Minnesota and is tax deductible.

On behalf of CASA Minnesota and the children we serve, thank you for considering our request.

Sincerely,

Mariann Grossman, Executive Director, CASA MN 612-728-5930

 

Please Let Your Friends Know (& if you’re not from MN, Contact Your Local CASA org and ask about their next fundraiser – they will be surprised & pleased).

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The Worst State To Be A Child In America

If you live in a state where children are 8 times more likely to be incarcerated (Wyoming), 13 times more likely to die from abuse & neglect (Oklahoma), twice as likely to die in their first year, 3 times more likely to die between 1 and 14 years old, 3 times more likely to die between the ages of 15-19, (Alaska, South Dakota, Louisiana), 3 times more likely to be born to a teenage mom (Texas),  5 times more likely to have received late or no prenatal care (New Mexico),

Would you forward this email to your state representative, Governor, Mayor, Senators, and your friends, neighbors, and relatives?

Maybe one more influential person would vote for child friendly programs that would result in one more child gaining access to programs/people/policies that would put her on the path to coping skills and a productive life instead of preteen motherhood, adolescent felonies, and dysfunctional lifestyles.

Read the whole report here; Every Child Matters

Louisiana gets last place for Infant mortality & 49th for child poverty (Mississippi is 49th & 50th in these areas),

Texas is 50th in teen moms & uninsured children & 45th in child abuse deaths.

South Carolina is dead last in overall child welfare & 48th in child mortality.

Indiana is 49th in overall child welfare & perhaps the meanest state for special needs children (Governor Mitch Daniels saw to that)

New Mexico is 48th in births to teen moms, child poverty, and overall child well being.

Alaska is 49th in children dying between the ages of 1 and 14, and 50th in teen deaths.

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Catholic Charities of Boston vs. The Vatican (the outcome was inevitable)

Thank you former Chairman of the Catholic Charities of Boston (Peter Meade) and the seven other board members that resigned in protest against the Church using the Catholic Charities organization to be used as a weapon against gay & lesbian couples.

  • As a long time CASA guardian ad-Litem having placed very troubled abandoned children in gay and lesbian homes, I can make powerful arguments for gay and lesbian family adoptions.
  • In every state, the needs of older, troubled abused and neglected children to find loving homes far exceeds the demand.
  • Gay and lesbian couples know what it’s like to be castaways (disenfranchised, dis-included, unwanted, etc).
  • The sensitivity, commitment, and terrific efforts I have witnessed in these homes for these children is at the very top of my list for well-meaning people doing very hard work (raising special needs children demands 24/7 on the job attention to detail, accepting less than great results, little appreciation, and allot of pain).
  • There is NO religion that supports abandoning children (eliminating loving homes for abandoned children is another form of abandonment).
  • I could go on.  However, the argument ends with the sorry statistic that 80% of children aging out of foster care lead dysfunctional lives  (these children need loving homes).

By not allowing gay / lesbian couples to adopt, there will be that many more state ward children becoming state ward adults.

Which will add to the number of schools that don’t work, prisons we have to build, and communities that become unsafe.

Politicizing abused and neglected children should be viewed as the reprehensible act that it is.

If you are a Catholic reading this piece, please share it with your priest.

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Indiana Update (current child protection news – thanks again Mitch Daniels)

Since Governor Mitch Daniels retroactively eliminated funding across the board for at risk children (families adopting special needs children – after the adoptions were completed) the politics wrecking the lives of at risk children  have made the news in Indiana often; Continue reading ‘Indiana Update (current child protection news — thanks again Mitch Daniels)’

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A Great Minnesota Network: Minnesota Adoption Resource Network

Friends,

This is an organization to subscribe to; Zero Kids Waiting Continue reading ‘A Great Minnesota Network: Minnesota Adoption Resource Network’

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AARP vs. Five Year Olds (Abandoning America’s Children)

 

In a few more years, oldsters (me & many of you) will be receiving 6 times more government dollars than children in America.

United States kids are already at the bottom of the barrel for child poverty, mortality, prenatal care, teen pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, poor educations, & destruction by the criminal justice system (25% of America’s youth are tried in adult courts & we now have more incarcerated youth & people in prison than any other nation in the world).

Some U.S. states treat children much worse than many 3rd world nations (hello Texas, Oklahoma, New Mexico, Louisiana, & Mississippi).

We don’t publicly track mental health or we would see specifically just how tortured U.S. kids really are (3 million children reported abused annually & 2/3 of the youth in juvenile justice suffer with mental health diagnosis).

When I was young, government dollars were distributed equally between the young and the old.  Some of you may remember the public outcry in the 1950’s when the media ran with the stories of seniors eating dog food out of cans and living under bridges.  People back then cared and voted to increase social security payments, housing, & healthcare and life got better for the most vulnerable citizens in our society (my dear old uncle Bud).

After serving many years as a Hennepin County CASA guardian ad-Litem advocating for abused and neglected children & observing hundreds of children tortured* by their parents it has become unbearable to see them abandoned a second time by their community.

If it takes a village, we better get started (kids grow up fast).

*The World Health Organization defines torture as extended exposure to violence & deprivation (every child in my caseload suffered from extended exposure to violence & deprivation – half of them had been sexually abused some as young as 2) Continue reading ‘AARP vs. Five Year Olds (Abandoning America’s Children)’

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Arkansas Politics; Death Penalty For Rebellious Children, Charlie Fuqua & His Bible

Can we allow candidates to speak of killing children to achieve elected office?  Is there a religion that sanctions the murdering of children?   Would calling for the execution of your child be acceptable behaviors in any other venue (or calling for the execution of Jewish children, Black children, or, Black people)?

Is Charlie’s behavior criminal?

Charlie Fuqua has been endorsed by and received substantial money from a primary political party.

The unhealthy atmosphere being created by America’s political candidates is now breathed by children in many states and destroying young lives, schools, neighborhoods, and filling prisons beyond capacity.

Charlie Fuqua, outspoken Christian, & Arkansas State House candidate, is an excellent example of the wrong people being sent to prison.

Read his text & send him a note at;

CharlesRFuqua@gmail.com    Continue reading ‘Arkansas Politics; Death Penalty For Rebellious Children, Charlie Fuqua & His Bible’

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About This Site

KARA brings attention to the issues impacting abused & neglected children.

As a longtime CASA guardian ad-Litem volunteer, Mike shares powerful stories about children, America’s institutions, and the path ahead.  Add your comments on this site (and read some of the 1000 comments that have been submitted).

3 million cases of child abuse (6 million children) are reported to child protection services in the U.S. each year (without allowing children that have watched their mothers being beaten or raped to be reported).

Only a fraction of these children receive the help they need to lead productive lives.

Before our schools can work again or communities become safe again, all of us need to know more and all of us need to speak out in support  of abused & neglected children.  

Let’s make 2013 a better year for children; 

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Motivate your posse to fully appreciate the value of their efforts & commitment & give them tools to make better things happen for children in your community.

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What David Brooks Didn’t Say

Thank you David for clearly articulating the core mental health issue of childhood trauma suffered by the millions of   American children reported to child protection each year.  David Brooks Article NYTimes Today.

The World Health Organization defines torture as “extended exposure to violence & deprivation”.  Every child in my CASA guardian ad-Litem caseload suffered from being tortured (half of them had been sexually abused).  This explains why children in child protection suffer from PTSD at twice the rate soldiers returning from Iraq & Afghanistan do, why 2/3 of the youth in juvenile justice have mental health diagnosis (and why half of them have multiple, serious, & chronic diagnosis) & why 80% of youth aging out of foster care lead dysfunctional lives.

Mr. Brooks, please continue your research & writing on this issue because very few other big time news people are & this is why our prisons are full, schools are troubled, & so many communities are becoming unlivable (Flint Michigan no longer has a police presence after 5pm – and they really need one).

As a long-time volunteer child protection worker, I am sensitive to just how little America talks about what is arguably the single defining reason for the decline of our schools, cities, & quality of life.

3 million children a year are reported to child protection systems.  We are providing services to about half the number we were helping five years ago (due to anti-tax people and no money).

The lack of services and mental health resources have driven our institutions to where they are producing exactly that which they were designed to stop (violent, drug using criminals & preteen moms with no parenting skills).

The Federal reserve study of a few years ago (Art Rolnick/Rob Grunewold) determined that investing in children is the best return on the dollar available for government spending.  It is far less expensive than 40 years of institutionalization and the billions we are spending on crime & insurance trying to protect ourselves from tortured children.

Instead, a baby is found in a dumpster and we blame the overworked social worker and ignore the third or fourth generation abused child that birthed this unfortunate baby and wait for the next horrific thing to plague our community.

When a 12 year old shoots his father we try him as an adult and throw away the key (25% of American youth are tried in adult court).  When a 7 year old hangs himself and leaves a note, we rail about the system but change nothing (Prozac forced on 4 & 7 year olds, who’s crazy?).

Until this conversation becomes common to us, the beatings, crime, and failing schools will continue (God help teachers trying to manage inner city classrooms now full of Prozac & Ritalin or the social workers of Chicago, Arizona, or LA).

The good news is that we have effective & inexpensive ways of making things right, subsidized daycare, crisis nurseries, & great methods of teaching coping skills & growing mental health services to make children well.

As a citizen of a first world nation I am horrified at just how little my community knows or want to know about the 3 million children called in to child protection services each year, the pain they suffer & the damage they do.

Until some of us speak, nothing will change because no one wants to talk about tortured children or mental health & these kids have no voice in the homes they are raised in, no voice in the courts or justice system that rule their lives, they are misunderstood by the media, and ignored by politicians. 

Please pass this article on to people you believe can help us start this conversation & help me reach David Brooks & the larger media;   Include this article and a request to the NYT editor to continue David Brooks conversation; http://www.nytimes.com/content/help/site/editorial/letters/letters.html

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Speaking From The Heart In Reno

Wow & Thank You CASA Reno for the opportunity to give the keynote talk at your CASA volunteer recognition dinner.  Cathy & I had the pleasure of getting to know your very fun city & many of your committed & engaged child protection volunteers.

High energy, an elegant atmosphere, combined with a terrific dinner, a very professional video tribute to volunteers, and superbly executed silent auction made the “Speaking From The Heart” event a most memorable experience.

My best wishes and admiration for CASA Reno & all of the dedicated individuals that make your organization a necessary & powerful voice for Nevada’s vulnerable children.

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Washoe County Nevada CASA Recognition Dinner Weds Sept 19th Keynote Speaker Mike Tikkanen

The Court Appointed Special Advocate Association (CASA), a national organization that recruits, trains and supports volunteers to represent abused and neglected children in the courtroom and other settings, is honoring Washoe County volunteers at 6 p.m. Sept. 19 at the 2012 Speaking From The Heart recognition dinner.

The event, held at Silver Legacy Resort Casino, recognizes the hours volunteers devote to children in need in the legal and social services system. The nonprofit says volunteers often remain the one constant in kids lives until placed in a safe, permanent home.

There will be a no-host cocktails and a silent auction. Dinner begins at 7:15 p.m. with keynote speaker Mike Tikkanen to follow. Cost: $80 per person. Details: Washoe County CASA Foundation, 775-233-5849.

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Great CASA story

This Tampa Bay Times article hits the nail on the head for identifying the value of CASA & leaving a legacy; 

TAMPA — The questions Joe Melchiorre asked himself were: How would he relate to kids? Was he too old? And the deeper questions, the ones that really bothered him: How immersed should he be? How much of himself should he commit?

As he put it, “How do I maintain a balance between emotion and reality?”

Three months after beginning as a guardian ad litem in Hillsborough County, Melchiorre has found easy answers to the first questions. He’s been around kids all his life. He has grandchildren. All he has to do is be himself. Continue reading ‘Great CASA story’

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Happy GrandParent’s Day; Raising Your Grandchild, A Great Commitment

RAISING YOUR GRANDCHILD:
Becoming Mom at 65
Mom in the ’60s-then Mom in her 60s   p. 38

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Cruel & False Savings Are Cheating America’s Abused & Neglected Children (again)

I write about children in my CASA caseload that have cost my county & state millions of dollars because tight funding demanded extreme scrutiny & less than adequate resources to save them from extended exposure to violence & deprivation (the World Health Organization’s definition of torture).

One of the boys (I call him Andy, not his real name), a real life example I use in my public speaking hit about 5 million dollars in direct state/county costs a few years ago without counting the people he has stabbed, at least one teacher he beat up and severely injured, or any of the other rage-full attacks on people & property that he has already committed.

Because the State refused to spend the $500 to do a basic background check on his father before assigning dad custody, even though dad had a court order in an adjacent state forbidding him from being around young boys because of what he did to them and even though dad had spent 2/3’s of his adult life in prison, Andy (the child) was taken from a loving foster home to spend 4 years (from 4 to 7 years of age) sexually abused, beaten and starved by his biological father.  From 4 to 7 years old, Andy was left alone in an apartment for days at a time without food or drink, tied to a bed.

Bruised from head to toe when dad finally brought him to school (at 7 years old), placed into child protection services and not treated for mental health issues, Andy became a very disturbed young man.

Prozac, Ritalin, & other psychotropic medications, multiple suicide attempts and intermittent months of sporadic & very expensive “suicide watch” therapy (including airplane trips to emergency facilities) & group homes were the State’s underfunded, misguided attempts to manage a terrifically damaged beautiful young boy were too little and too late.

Andy has been a ward of the state now for 16 years & will most likely remain a ward of the state for the rest of his life.

If he lives to 60, he could be a 10 to 20 million dollar burden to the state, without calculating any amount for his violence, the people he hurts, & the damage he does.

6 years ago, he contracted AIDS, & is now taking one of the most expensive long term pharmaceutical therapies in the world.

$500 saved by not investigating the new custodial parent vs. many millions of dollars in direct costs in child protection/juvenile & criminal justice, without any compensation to the people he has hurt or property he has destroyed.

This is not rocket science, it is simple economics and caring for the weakest &  most vulnerable among us.

All of the children in my case load have some version of this economic equation at play (see www.avahealth.org) & Art Rolnick, Federal Reserve Bank Studies for a more institutional, historical, and studied approach to this equation.

Not only are America’s institutions creating exactly what they were designed to stop, but we are cruelly denying abused a neglected children the right to lead a normal life & we are dooming our cities to dangerous streets, failing schools (just try to manage a classroom of 30 children with one or more abused children on Prozac/Ritalin in your classroom), and the very definition of why America has 5% of the world’s population and 25% of the world’s prison population.

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When Submitting Comments The Use Of Names Can Be Problematic

Friends of Invisible Children; Please appreciate that I find it difficult to publish your posts and comments using actual names of people when I do not have background information and will most likely not print them.

 

 

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