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April is Child Abuse Prevention Month

Prevent Child Abuse MN holds its Healing Fields event from April 29th to May 2nd at the Minnesota State Capitol. The theme of the field is “The Future of America Depends on Healthy Children”.

One thousand American Flags and a field of blue pinwheels for prevention. There will be a candlelight vigil on Friday evening and a music and speaker program on Sunday afternoon.

The field will be open to the community for informal tours all day Friday, Saturday, and Sunday until the program starts at 2pm.

go to PCAMN’s site http://www.pcamn.org/temp_01.php?PK=84

Minnesota Matters Radio Show Link

The interviewers, Dusty Trice & Tommy Johnson asked many good questions.

The first fifteen minutes are the hosts talking, you can move the cursor through (about 1/2 an inch) to get right to the interview).

http://www.am950ktnf.com/files/archive/Minnesota%20Matters%20121809.mp3

Toddler found submerged in St. Paul bathtub dies

We now have a Zero tolerance policy for illegal drugs

and a Zero tolerance policy for guns and violence,

How about zero tolerance for abused children? My city has two murdered toddlers in two weeks.

How many police calls are required, how many observations of children in toxic environments are tolerable to this community?

Northfield stepfather charged in death of brutalized toddler

The Northfield man confessed to shaking the boy. An autopsy found broken bones, bleeding on the brain and other injuries. By JOY POWELL, Star Tribune

Last update: July 1, 2009 – 8:44 PM For four days, 17-month-old Nicholas Miller was in pain with a badly broken back, which made it difficult for the toddler to walk or even breathe. His brain was bleeding, and he had other wounds.

He got no medical help.

On June 23, the battered rural Northfield boy turned blue as his stepfather and step-grandmother laid him out and tried to revive him on a picnic table in Maiden Rock, Wis. It took an ambulance 23 minutes to arrive.

Nicholas was pronounced dead upon arriving at a hospital in Durand, Wis

Toddler found submerged in St. Paul bathtub dies

By ALEX EBERT , Star Tribune
Last update: July 4, 2009 – 9:07 PM

A toddler who was found submerged in a bathtub in a St. Paul foster home on Wednesday has died, police confirmed. The girl had been in critical condition since the accident.

An autopsy will be performed today and police are still investigating the circumstances surrounding the near-drowning that eventually killed the 18-month-old, who was in the tub with a 3-year-old sibling.

In the past five years, 14 police calls have been made to the home of the toddler’s foster parents, Daniel and Barbara Wright.

Police are investigating what the foster parents were doing while the child was submerged. The 3-year-old has been taken from the home.

“Clearly this was a horrible tragedy,” St. Paul Police Sgt. Paul Schnell said. “Hopefully it serves as a reminder to all of us to make sure we are watching our kids.”

Schnell said the names of the toddler and her sibling may not be released because doing so could identify their parents.


Last years Brutal Truths and Best Practices Forum at Century College


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FORGOTTEN CHILDREN RALLY STATE CAPITAL

                On May 4, 2009 a small crowd of about 100 citizens – social workers, politicians, child advocates, and children – gathered on the lawn of the Minnesota State Capitol to bring attention to Minnesota’s “Forgotten Children.”  The 187 children placed in foster care each week in Minnesota all have unique circumstances but they all share one thing in common: They need advocacy in the legislature to address not only their current needs but the future issues they will face as they transition into adulthood.

                CASA Minnesota partnered with the Dr. Phil Foundation for Monday’s Rally to bring attention to foster children in Minnesota and draw attention to the need for more volunteer guardians ad litem, foster parents and adoptive families.  When a child in foster care turns 18, many of them lose the safety net of the system that was created to protect them.  Without services to help them achieve independence, many of these young adults get swallowed back into the system through a different avenue, quite often the adult corrections system. 

A diverse group of speakers brought attention to the issues facing foster children from a variety of perspectives.  Two young adults, members of Our Voices Matter, who have gone through the foster care system, shared their experience with the audience.  Genaysia Love is involved with Our Voices Matter, an organization that provides a platform for teenagers in foster care and those who have transitioned into adulthood to share their experiences and advocate for change.  Genaysia shared that “home” to her was multiple foster homes, shelter homes, hospitals, and even a youth detention facility when there wasn’t a “bed” available for her in a more suitable environment.  Genaysia, now a mother herself, never did find a permanent adoptive family. 

Like Genaysia, Tina Rosenthal was also a child in foster care.  Unlike Genaysia, Tina was adopted by a family before she “aged out” of the system.  Now a young adult and Miss Minnesota 2008, Tina has made it her mission to bring attention to the issues facing foster children.  She said that during her reign as Miss Minnesota, she pledged that every time she entered a room, she informed everyone in her presence of how many children enter foster care in Minnesota each week and what challenges each of those children would face. 

Mary McGowan; foster parent, adoptive parent, volunteer guardian ad litem, child advocate and National Speaker, shared her stories of raising her five adopted special needs children and the scores of foster children who have come into her home.  She told the crowd that without a system of support, she “crashed and burned real hard” for a period of about two years.  Since this time, she has been able to not only find the systems that exist for supporting foster and adoptive families, but also be a part of creating those systems.  She sees that, while meeting the needs of the children is of the utmost importance, without addressing the unique needs of the people who care for those children, we are missing a critical link in the chain of service.

Another foster and adoptive parent, Sarah Shannon, shared her gift of poetry with the crowd.  Her poem, I Wish told the story of life through the eyes of a child experiencing abuse and neglect.  In her poem, the child wishes that they were various things that they see as being loved and honored by their parent more than they are.  The child wishes they were a crack pipe, a bottle of alcohol, even a scary movie just so they can know how it feels to be cherished by a parent. 

 

Second Judicial District Judge, Judith M. Tilson, told her story through the eyes of a decision maker in the system.  She shared a letter written by a young man, now a member of the armed forces, who found “family” through two of his workers who went above and beyond in their level of care for him.  The result of level of love and care shown by these women could have made the difference between this young man being a successful, contributing member of society or being an adult caught up in the correction system.  She also shared the story of a young woman who was repeatedly failed by the system in getting her need for a permanent family met.  In hindsight, the Judge could see how this young woman’s life could have had a happy ending sooner if different decisions had been made on her behalf.  At one point, the judge took responsibility for her role in this child’s life by sharing how a wrong decision was made early on that delayed this child’s opportunity to be adopted.  The judge said “that would be me” when she shared who made this decision.  Fortunately this child was eventually adopted by the family who had wanted to adopt her as soon as she was placed in foster care.  After the adoption was completed, the judge said “we finally got it right.”

Michelle Johnson, was also an adopted child.  As an adult working with the Fourth Judicial District Guardian Ad Litem Program, she is helping youth in foster care share their stories through dance.  She led a group of young dancers who shared their message to legislators that adopted children should be allowed to receive their original birth certificate.  As the words of DMC’s “I’m Legit[imate]” played, the children danced.  In the end, a large “Birth Certificate” was passed among the children.  This represented a piece of their identity that is currently being withheld from them through legislation that protects the identity of the biological parents.

Joe Kroll, founder of NACAC, addressed with the crowd a current issue affecting adoptive families.  Currently adoptive parents have a system of support established through a group of parent liaisons across the state.  These are individuals who are adoptive parents themselves who are in a position of providing support and a connection to additional resources that adoptive families may have challenges meeting on their own.  As a result of changes in the Department of Human Services budget which would redirect the funding toward clinical support, adoptive families may lose this network.  This would be a devastating loss to the families that receive this service and the children in their care.   

A number of politicians graced the stage and shared their voice on behalf of children in foster care.  Senator Mee Moua told the story of her own children.  Fortunately they have experienced stability in their family life and they are thriving because of this.  Senator Moua keeps them in mind when making decisions on behalf of Minnesota children.  Senator Patricia Ray Torres also shared her experiences as a policy maker on behalf of children.  The final speaker of the day seemed to be a surprise even to the event coordinators.  Senator John Marty came to the podium and shared how deeply moved he was by the display that was placed on the front lawn of the Capitol.  As he faced the crowd, looking back at him were the faces on 187 life sized billboards of children – each one representing the life of a Minnesota child placed in foster care each week.  After the rally closed, Senator Marty was given a billboard photo of a young boy holding a sign that read “Twelve foster homes.”  Senator Marty said that he will have the voices and lives of these children in mind as he promotes policies that will affect them. 

The Forgotten Children Rally shared the voices and told the stories of the children in foster care.  Participants and spectators could hear for themselves the challenges faced by these children and former children who were once a part of this system and realize the need for more volunteer guardians ad litem, foster homes, and adoptive families.  By bringing attention to the unmet needs of these youth and young adults, service providers and policy makers can develop a system to better meet their needs and assure a brighter future for today’s “forgotten children.”     

 

 

Submitted by Amy Rostron-Ledoux, KARA volunteer

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Kids At Risk Action’s YouTube Video Channel

Kids At Risk Action (KARA) has posted videos on our YouTube Channel of the 2008 KARA Forum held at Century College. To view more videos of our events, visit our page at YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/kidsatriskaction.

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Fundraiser and Rummage Sale to benefit Kids at Risk Action

 

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The first annual Rummage Sale and Silent Auction for Kids at Risk Action will be held in Apple Valley, MN on May 16th, 2009.  New, gently used items, food and fun at the first event open to the public. The event starting at 9 AM will be held at:

14767 Dundee Avenue
Apple Valley, MN 55124

Some of the items currently in the rummage sale:

  • cook books,signed by the author
  • Let’s Dish basket
  • tandem bike
  • Pampered Chef
  • Custom jewelry
  • household items
  • baby items 
  • bird houses
  • State Fair award winning rag rugs
  • hotdog, brats and other refreshments

If you have any items you would like to donate to our sale, please contact Melissa/Kids At Risk Action by May 9th.  Any items not sold on the 16th, will be donated to Lewis House and Dakota Woodlands, shelter and organization that helps battered women and their children.

 

 

 

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MN Early Childhood Summit Speech David Lawrence

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Minneapolis: Jan. 28, 2009


Listen to the speech:  http://minnesota.publicradio.org/display/web/2009/02/09/midday2/                                            Thank you, Madam Speaker, Mr. Majority Leader, former Governor Quie, members of the Legislature, Mr. Campbell and, indeed, all of you. This is a most distinguished audience. That you are here sends a message: A message that you are leaders – people with the capacity and the courage to “dare to do mighty things,” in the words of one of our greatest Presidents, Theodore Roosevelt. You are powerful people, first in the spirit of how Henry Ford once defined power: “If you think you can do a thing, or think you can’t do a thing, you’re right.”

I have something “mighty” to talk about today. You can “dare” to do this, and if you do so, you will have made an investment of great return and of enduring value for the families and children – and, yes, of the very future – of this splendid state. Of you could say, “These are tough times in America. Didn’t we hear just yesterday from the governor about how we must make up a $5 billion budget deficit? How can we possibly afford to do this?” I tell you that there was never a better time to proceed on this path than now.

In pursuit of that theme, I want to do three things this afternoon:

  1. Tell you where I am coming from.
  2. Give you some sense of my perspective on Minnesota and how this squares with my sense of my own state and our country.
  3. Give you real-life inspiration of how this has been done elsewhere, and how it could be done here.

But what is “it”? Said quite plainly, Minnesota, despite its historically progressive history on so many topics, is lagging behind other places in developing a real system for high-quality early development, care and learning. Through the leadership and hard work of this Early Childhood Legislative Caucus, you have the fundamentals ready to go. But “ready to go” is not doing “it.” It is your opportunity, in this very legislative session, is implement the vision that has been put together for a Quality Rating and Improvement System statewide.

But I begin by telling you a bit about myself. Know, first, that I am not an “expert.” What I am, or was until I retired a decade ago this month, was a someone who loved journalism so much that in 35 years at seven newspapers as reporter, editor or publisher, I missed not one day of work (which, I must acknowledge, is surely the mark of a truly obsessed human being!). But, then again, how many people interview the President of the United States on Air Force One, the dictator of Cuba for five hours in Havana, almost countless heads of state (including one soon after assassinated), the good and the bad, rogues and rebels, Nobel Peace Prize winners, not to mention all sorts of people whose names would never cross your mind? I was – and am — someone with an idealistic soul, someone who for all those years found it a privilege to come to work and see what that day might bring and what the newspaper might do to make a difference for the better in people’s lives.

I was then the publisher of The Miami Herald, recruited by Florida’s Lawton Chiles to be on the Governor’s Commission on Education where the governor asked me to lead the “school readiness” task force – a topic about which I had never heard to that point. Yes, you have before you the father of five as well as a grandfather. Yes, my children were raised according to the principles of high-quality health and education and nurturing, even if I did not know of “principles” undergirding the early childhood years. What I came to understand re-energized my life and led me to “retire” from a business I had loved intensely.

Back then, for example, I first heard of the brain research that underscores my message today. In illustration, I give you just one sentence from a Newsweek magazine story: “The helpless, seemingly clueless infant staring up at you from his crib – limbs flailing, drool oozing – has a lot more going on inside his head than you ever imagined.”

I am not arguing that the only learning years of one’s life are to be found in the earliest years — people do learn all their lives — but rather that there are windows wide open during those early years, and never again will so many windows be open quite so wide. A wise state and wise people would truly know that, and invest accordingly.

The kindergarten teachers in your almost 1,000 public elementary schools (teachers who already know that half of your entering kindergarten students are not fully prepared) see so frequently the tragedy of the student who already feels like a failure. The smartest teachers will tell you that the truly crucial variable is how good a shape – socially, emotionally, cognitively, physically – these children arrive in the classroom. We’d burn out far fewer teachers if we delivered to formal school far more children eager and ready to learn.

My mission in life and in this cause is moral, but my arguments begin with the practical. Public education is the real world for 90 percent of your children, and America’s. The wisest path to public education reform in our country is to deliver the children in far better shape to formal school. That is what early investment is all about. It is neither socialism…nor the creation of a “nanny state,” but rather simple decency and wisdom and what our country is about when we are at our best.

In my own early childhood “education,” I read a great deal, visited places like France and Italy to learn more, came to know the research, and continue to follow it closely – one example being the national study that told us that if 50 first graders have problems reading, then 44 of them will still have problems reading in the fourth grade.

Armed with such knowledge, I came to believe the tragedy of early childhood unpreparedness was preventable. I came to believe that however good our intentions, we would never make more than incremental change unless we could create real “public will” for real change, most particularly the public awareness on the part of parents for what their children really needed. I came to believe that we must work on many fronts because children in their early years need all the basics – and all must be high quality because only real quality makes a real difference in outcomes for children.

I came to believe that we could never build a real “movement” for “school readiness” unless we could do so for everyone’s child — poor, rich and in-between. Building a “movement” is not about “those” children “over there,” but rather about all children. Yes, many children will need extra investment, but all children need the quality fundamentals.

Second, I promised to give you my own perspective on Minnesota and how this squares with my sense of my own state and our country.

I start by acknowledging that you clearly know far more than I about the realities for your 5 million people and the perhaps 70,000 babies born here each year. But I do know enough to be impressed by many high-quality state early childhood programs, to be impressed by innovative models such as “Invest Early” in Grand Rapids,” impressed by the Minnesota Early Learning Foundation’s groundbreaking research, impressed by the business community’s commitment to high-quality early learning, impressed by the contributions of Art Rolnick and the Federal Reserve Bank, impressed by the proactive work of foundations and nonprofits, including the Minneapolis Foundation and United Way.

I know enough about your past – with a recorded history going back 3 1/2 centuries to explorers, missionaries and fur traders – to see what is possible in the future. Minnesota Territory was formed way back in 1849 by people with vision, who insisted that free public schools would be available to all those between 4 and 21 years old. That is a great vision to build from. You have been tested, and risen every time to the moment. You have prevailed through bust and boom and blizzards…through economies that went the gamut from wheat and lumber to iron ore to retailing, medicine and technology.

Yours is a state with room enough for Hubert Humphrey and Coya Knutson and Roy Wilkins and Bronko Nagurski and Bob Dylan and Judy Garland and Charles Schulz and Scott Fitzgerald and Sinclair Lewis and so many more. A state with the wisdom to remember the past — and the energy to look to the future.

I love Garrison Keillor’s words about Minnesota: “What appeals to me about Minnesota is that it has a stubbornness. It has a persistence. It treasures its own landscape. People who live in Minnesota really love to stay…. They’re not people who are going to fold their tent in another year and go elsewhere.”

A state and people of such character simply ought to insist on being in the front ranks of “school readiness” in America. You are not. Not yet, that is.

Yes, I know that you are ahead of many states, including my own, in many measures – for instance, in high school and college graduation rates, in the statistics for low birth weight and infant mortality. Yet I also know that 25 percent of your pregnant women do not receive adequate prenatal care…that you have more than 9,000 cases of children abused and neglected each year in this state…that a parent pays much more in Minnesota for a 4 year old’s child care, even frequently mediocre care, than he or she would pay for tuition at a significant public university – the University of Minnesota, for instance. I also know that an estimated 80,000 Minnesota children have severe emotional problems, and that just one in five of those gets treatment….that a quarter of your third graders are reading behind where they minimally ought to be…that a quarter of your children live in poverty or near-poverty. And so forth and so on.

And if any of this feels more “statistical” than “real,” I note just two outcomes that speak to the future of the children of Minnesota:

  1. A child who can read by the third grade is unlikely ever to be involved with the criminal justice system.
  2. Four of five incarcerated juvenile offenders read two years or more below grade level. Indeed, a majority of them are functionally illiterate.

Or perhaps I ought to use the French author Victor Hugo’s 19th century words: “He who opens a school door…closes a prison.”

Now while I know that Miami and Minnesota have so much in common, I am also aware of the differences.

I live in one of the biggest, most challenging places in America. A place of wealth and poverty. Beauty and misery. Our median household income is $5,000 below the national average while yours exceeds that by $15,000. The 2.5 million people in my county alone make us larger than 16 of these United States and just about half the population of your state. You would tell me of your appreciation for your growing diversity, encompassing urban-suburban-rural communities. And I do note the growing minority proportion of your population. But when all is said and done, I note that 88 percent of Minnesotans are non-Hispanic white. Now listen to the Miami-Dade numbers: 60 percent Hispanic, 21 percent African American or black (frequently not the same in Greater Miami), 19 percent non-Hispanic white (and only 15 percent of the babies). In your state, fewer than 2 percent of your residents were born in another country; in Miami-Dade, more than half of us were born in another country. We in Miami are living the “great American adventure.” What we unite on — through all our challenges of poverty, of culture, of language — is children.

So, No. 3, what can be learned from elsewhere? First, what you have before you in Minnesota is another key part in a national movement. Early learning investment, let us remember, is among the principal thrusts that our new President has advocated. You can see that in Smart Start in North Carolina, in First Five in California, and in pockets all across America.

But I am going to bring it home – to my own community of Miami-Dade and my own state of Florida with its population three and a half times yours.

If you came to know me well, you would find that I am a not-unusual blend of feeling secure and insecure – thinking I can do something, sometimes not sure I can – but generally eager to try. So I give you the following not in the spirit of boastfulness, but rather in example of just what is possible if you have the leadership and can build the public will (remembering, by the way, that one of baseball’s famous “philosophers,” Dizzy Dean, once told us all: “Braggin’ ain’t braggin’ if it’s true!”).

Now you will not be surprised to know that I do not come from a state famous for investment in education or children or health, nor from a community well known for “trust.” Indeed, in Miami-Dade we pay county commissioners, 13 of them, $6,000 a year to watch over a $7.5 billion budget. Yet I give you four examples – and could give you many more – of what can be done with real leadership, real vision and the building of public will:

  1. With the principal leadership from my own community, Florida passed a constitutional amendment for free, voluntary, available-to-all prekindergarten for all 4 year olds. This year, 135,000 of Florida’s 4 year olds are in this program, and the state is spending almost $400 million extra in investment. The amendment, which passed with a 59-41 percent margin, never would have prevailed had we focused only on some children, no matter how worthy.
  2. We have a law in Florida – any state could have such a law – that lets voters in counties decide if they want to raise their property taxes to provide a dedicated funding source for children. My own community first tried to do this back in 1988. Good people led the campaign, arguing that the community ought to help the most needy. It failed, 2-1. In 2002, we made the case that this would be about everyone’s child, while certainly acknowledging and understanding the obvious: That is, some children and families need and should receive more help. We passed it, 2-1. We also put a “sunset” on it, telling the voters they could try it for five years, and then decide if they would like to keep it in perpetuity. But now 2008 was upon us, and the climate had turned scary. Mine is a community that is a poster child for this country’s housing and economic crisis. It would be awfully easy to vote against any taxes – and, make no mistake about it, The Children’s Trust is a tax. But what did happen? The people of Miami-Dade voted to reauthorize The Children’s Trust in perpetuity – with an 85 percent favorable margin and victory in 764 of 764 precincts — and meaning at least $100 million extra a year forever to invest in early intervention and prevention. This audience is full of elected leaders; when is the last time you heard of such an overwhelming vote on anything, much less a tax? It is all solid evidence of what can be done – if we have the vision and the will. And don’t tell me Miami is easy!
  3. Under the banner of “Ready Schools Miami” – with extra funding from the W.K. Kellogg Foundation – we launched a bold initiative, in full partnership with the country’s fourth largest public school system, to improve the quality of all early learning centers and enhance student learning and teacher practice in all elementary schools. One exciting component via the University of Florida: A job-embedded master’s degree program delivered online and onsite with the support of a professor-in-residence. The master’s program is offered free to teachers who make a five-year commitment to the school.
  4. And No. 4, which speaks quite directly to your own child-care quality efforts. Moving on a very similar path to what is before you now, just a year ago we launched what we call Quality Counts. By the end of this year, with a significant investment from The Children’s Trust and others, incentives for higher-quality, one-through-five-star child care sites will be part of nearly 500 child care sites enhancing the lives of almost 30,000 children. We built on best practices from Quality Rating Improvement Systems in other states, developed a comprehensive data system, and are linking these child care centers with the schools these children will go to kindergarten. We are offering shared training and working on curriculum alignment between early learning centers and public schools.

I could say more, but you have heard enough so that my point is made. You in Minnesota want all children to be ready for formal school no later than 2020, and surely you truly want to do it before then. And you could. In what is before you, the pieces are in place and ready to go. This is not a partisan issue, nor should it be. Leadership is critical. Your leadership. There is no investment you could make with a greater return.

It is all about quality. Real quality. It is about what you want for all children. It is the secret to genuine workforce development. The secret to your state’s competitive edge.

It is not taking over what parents are supposed to do. But it is making sure that parents have the support to give them the best chance to raise successful children, and adults.

This is not about creating new programs…of building more “silos.” Because the research tells us so clearly what works, you can only do this by building a real “system.” What your Early Childhood Legislative Caucus has created is a framework that puts high-quality standards and child outcomes front and center of all your state investments in early learning. That means, in the short term while dollars are sparse, you are investing in quality and, longer term, that you have the wisest path to more investment when times get better.

I have great faith in this progressive state…great faith in your commitment to children…great faith in your wisdom and decency on behalf of children.

The consequences of inaction and inadequacy are real. To quote a New York Times editorial written more than a century ago: “Given one generation of children property born and wisely trained…what a vast proportion of human ills would disappear from the face of the earth.”

Do I think this is easy? I do not. But you and I are obligated to succeed for the future for the futures of children and our schools are at stake. “For these are all our children,” wrote the author James Baldwin. “We will profit by, or pay for, whatever they become.”

I have great faith, my friends, in what you can – and will – do.

Thank you, and God bless our children, God bless us all.                                                                                                                          

 

 

 

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2009 Kids At Risk Action (KARA) Events

Thank you to all of our generous supporters in 2008!

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KARA's Mike Tikkanen at Prevent Child Abuse Minnesota's "Walk for Children"

KIDS AT RISK ACTION (KARA) members walked in Prevent Child Abuse Minnesota’s “Walk to Prevent Child Abuse” and gave our support to the Minnesota Children’s Platform.

Our 1st Annual KARA Forum, “Brutal Truths vs. Best Practices For At Risk Children,” was a big success. The forum was held at Century College and televised on local access. We are editing the broadcast to highlight some of the truly great moments of that conversation to share with media outlets and publish online.

We look forward to our revamped website and blog by designers, Lotus + Lama, in January 2009.

Melissa Thill, our Coordinator for Special Events and Donor Relations, is heading our grant-writing efforts, along with planning for spring and summer fundraisers, the 2nd KARA Forum, and lots of speaking opportunities for Mike Tikkanen.

Our first ever vehicle donation is in progress via Cars with Heart. We hope to see more donations like this in our future.

Please consider volunteering or making a donation in 2009. As we are an IRS 501(c)3 non-profit organization, all contributions to KIDS AT RISK ACTION (KARA) are tax deductible.

We at KARA, and the children that we help, thank you in advance for your generous and heartfelt support in 2009 – it is needed and most appreciated!

Healthier Children = Safer & Happier Communities

Petition to the Hennepin County Board December 9, 2008 (signed by 160 Guardian ad Litems)   

This petition is being presented to the Hennepin County Board by Guardians ad Litem, most of whom are volunteers on behalf of abused and neglected children.

The proposed budget cuts to child protection and many of its related service providers will have a negative and possibly dangerous impact on the lives of our most vulnerable citizens. These children cannot afford high powered lobbyists to plead their case, however our plea to you today is more sincere in that we have no financial stake; only a very strong emotional one.

It is a tragic fact that MN has a significant population of abused and neglected children and the system in place to protect them is already stressed and failing in 19 of 23 federal measurements. The significant cuts being proposed by the county can only erode this system even more and the consequences could be devastating.

In these difficult economic times, it is understood that many areas of state and local government services need to be evaluated and reduced where possible. Unlike services provided for public entertainment or convenience, underfunding child protection can have long lasting negative financial and social repercussions.

It is likely that the stressful times to come will only increase the number of children in need of our protection. Knowing this, how can cuts be justified?

Children who experience abuse or neglect are 59 percent more likely to be arrested as a juvenile, 28 percent more likely to be arrested as an adult, and 30 percent more likely to commit violent crime.

One-third of abused and neglected children will eventually victimize their own children.
The statistics quoted above are only part of the unfortunate future of the abused child. The incidence of mental illness, chemical dependency and teenage pregnancy are much higher in abused children. The costs to handle these problems are far greater than the cost to help families and children before the problems become severe. The extended cost to schools and other people who become victimized by these troubled children as they become adults is immeasurable.

Isn’t it worth looking at cutting more expendable budget items a little deeper than decreasing an already compromised system which could have life threatening consequences? Can’t we remember that an ounce of prevention really is worth a pound of cure?

PLEASE, reduce or eliminate the budget cuts to child protection. The undersigned GAL’s have given countless volunteer hours in advocating for these children. We ask now that you consider doing your part to help them as well.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Tell us your story, comment, or perspective.  If this is worth sharing with others, press the share this button below and send it to someone you know.

Review of Our Century College Forum

Here are the collected comments (and one of mine—below);

IMPROVEMENTS:

More information on how to get involved to improve the system

 

I would have liked the powerpoint from Mr. Grunewald

 

Action groups, have topics available to get people to sign up right away

 

More microphones and personal testimonies

 

Handout the panel names and healthier snacks (fruit, whole wheat)

 Use the microphone better at the podium

Can you include actual examples of cases?

More input from foster kids on what has helped along the way

 Have action groups actually started at the forum

 More publicity beforehand

 Microphone on both sides

 Improve more youth and/or foster/adopted children

 It was pretty general

 Increase the voice of those disenfranchised by the system-too many people who are a part of the system

 More time for questions

 Video tape it… Make it live

 Maybe a smaller panel or more time for questions

 Your charge is to build new tools materials and strategies for engaging other communities and making an impact beyond this group that is already educated and connected to these issues.

 LIKED

 Ron Bell’s voice on race was CRITICAl. Had he not been present, I would have been deeply concerned. The fact that he was invited and at the last minute is still concerning.

 Race must be addressed and not overlooked in such formats.

 Panelists were excellent

 Friendly, personal perspectives, purposeful

 Panel was great.

 Diversity of the panel

 Good presentations and panel

 Diversity of the panel, Rob, Jessica, Patti

 Everything

 Learning how many concerned and involved folks there are

 The Candid discussions about what REALLY affects this population

 I had a chance to speak

 Hearing from such a diverse panel

 The panel

 Good variety of specialties on the panel, great expertise and good to have audience asked and asking the questions.

 Great moderator

 Great panel

 Panel and audience questions

 Interaction, networking

 The varied approaches by the panel members

 The diverse panel and direct questions from the attendees

 Articulate panel members, diverse points of view

 Organizations, people on the panel

 MN ASAP

 Variety of panelists

 Meeting others that do work similar to me and are like minded and passionate

 Great group of people. I liked hearing from those who have seen through the system.

 The Panelists were fantastic

 I enjoyed it, keep it up

WHO DO YOU WANT TO SEE ON THE PANEL NEXT TIME?

Clyde Turner

 Social workers front line.. to see what dept/govt powers effect their ability to keep family together

 Mr. Coleman

 Erin Sullivan Sutton DHS

 Foundations like MCKnight

 County Commissioners

More community organizations

 Cultural providers network

 More foster care youth. Legislators/senators

 Center for Excellence on Children’s Mental Health

More of the same.. social workers, examples of cases, nurses, (I think this writer wished for a clearer understanding of the roles of the parties in child protection)

Social Worker that is working in the system currently

 Lawyer working within the system currently

 Need a follow up forum

Social worker providing services, more people of color, persons that are not “on board” different perspectives.

WILL YOU PARTICIPATE IN A FUTURE FORUM?

90% said yes 10% said possibly

QUESTIONS FOR FUTURE FORMS (AND ACTION GROUPS):

 How to activate the community

How to do better with less—it is not realistic in these times to just say we need more early intervention, how do we do better with what we have (and assumed funding cuts)

How can we fund child welfare prevention and early intervention

(what to do) When the system not only Fails, but becomes the abuser to the child

How do we “market” our understanding to individuals, families, communities that are not aware or engaged?

 How to influence policy and how to get grassroots movements going

 Cultural issues. How can community make an impact? How to help young fathers and mothers better care for their children?

 How can we break the cycle

 How do we change juvenile justice and adult criminal justice from adversarial to recovery orientation?

Help me identify resources for working with at risk kids

YOUR COMMENTS:

Excellent, Good Job

 55% rated it a 5 out of 5 against similar events you have attended, 39% a 5, and 6% a 3

More economics. Such an important aspect of this work and how to “tell it” to our communities.

good useful forum

What is the outcome at the End of the forum

 What is the Call to Action beyond angst (is it just community awareness?)

Nice Job

Teachers who work with at risk kids

Is there a mechanism for controlling out of state adoption agencies?

 Thank you, I would love to see more of these forums

I wish that we would have had time to have small group discussions

Thank you

It’s time for a collective voice to represent all the groups here today to lobby, inform, effect constructive change in attitudes and purpose in child raising….KIDS COUNT

The only response I have to the comments made above was the “on Board” comment.

On board with what?

Patti and Jessica gave very personal explanations of how their lives (and Patti’s four adopted children) were altered forever by the child welfare system. I don’t think it’s fair to say that they were “on board” at all.

Ron Bell gave a clear indication that his community suffered immensely under current policies and he did not feel “on board”.

If you listened closely to Judge Lefler, or know of his commitment to children in child protection, you would see that he works tirelessly for change and support for at risk youth.

I’ve come to the conclusion over the years that most of the people in the system have hearts of gold, work passionately for the children they are trying to help, and equally hard to understand and bring compassion to the system that they are forced to work within.

There is no alternative but to quit. They already don’t get enough resources to do the job or support for the work that they do.

It is up to those of us that make up the community to support the policy makers that pass the laws and budgets that can make a positive impact on the youth we wish to help.

If we don’t contact our policy makers and cast our vote with NO TAX candidates, there will be inadequate support for bridges, schools, early childhood programs, and children in need of protection.

The point made by Rob Grunewald and the outcome of all the work he did studying

 

http://www.earlychildhoodrc.org/grunewald.cfm early childhood programs is that it costs way less money, not more money, for early intervention and early childhood development, than waiting to correct the problems of juvenile delinquency, early pregnancy, troubled schools, unsafe communities, and the great costs to our health care system..

KARA’s core message is that taking care of children is the greatest investment a nation can make. Let’s those of us that know this take it out into the community.

The final panel members were:

1) David Thompson

RAMSEY COUNTY child protection manager: focus on policy development, new programming, technical assistance to counties and practice guidance.

2) Ron Bell

Hennepin County Social Worker Supervisor

3) Patti Hetrick

Adoptive mother of four Children

ORIGINAL PANEL MEMBERS

4) Jessica Cimbura-Is a high school junior and a youth member of Our Voice Matter.

5) Hennepin District Court Judge Herbert Lefler (12 years on the Juvenile Court)

6) Rob Grunewald Federal Reserve Board member and coauthor of Early Childhood Development research published by the Federal Reserve Bank

 

 

Brutal Truths and Best Practices Forum

Save the date; Friday, Oct 17th 9am to noon

(Registration link below

qualifies for 3 CEUs)

Our Child Protection System
Brutal Truths and Best Practices Forum at Century College

Join our focused and energetic conversation ab

out children in need of protection and the people, programs, and policies that impact them. Have your views and questions heard.

After the panel discussion, attendees will form small working groups and helped to identify and investigate their own issues, discovering better answers, and ultimately creating an action plan, which they will share with the larger group. (about 90 minutes)

At the end of the session, attendees will be offered an opportunity to form and participate in ongoing action groups to explore and determine solutions for issues of personal concern. These groups will be sponsored by KARA, but will be expected to operate on their own, i.e. establish their own agenda and meeting schedule. KARA in turn will schedule quarterly Roundtables where each of the working groups will have the chance to report out.

Take away:

1. You will have the opportunity to hear (and participate in) a lively discussion about how the different parties view the resources, practices, and people that make up child protection.

2. You can participate in a small work group session that will help you better understand issues.

3. You will learn how to have a greater impact on the system.

4. You will have the opportunity to join an action group committed to exploring and resolving an issue of special importance to you.

Moderator; Neal St. Anthony, Star Tribune

Panel Members:

Pamela Alexander, Former Judge and current President of the MN Council on Crime and Justice

Our Voices Matter – A Youth from the system speaks.

Becky Lourey, Senator and adoptive mother of eight

Glenace Edwall, Head of Ramsey County Children’s Mental Health

Rob Grunewald, Federal Reserve Board co-author (with Art Rolnick) of Early Childhood Development: Economic Development with a High Public Return, and speaker on Early Childhood Programs (Fed Gazette 2003).

KARA (Kids At Risk Action) 501c3 NonProfit, is a resource and conduit for abused and neglected children and the people that love, live with, and work with them.

This website exists to make information easy to find and to facilitate communication while building grassroots support for abused and neglected children and their issues.

KARA’s mission is to advocate for the welfare of at-risk children and youth through the identification and promotion of people, programs, and policies that work.

Related Information

United Nations Conference

My response to the email from the United Nations asking me to do a workshop at the fourth annual Youth Assembly in New York was that it might be a mistake. She assured me that it wasn’t, and that my message as a volunteer guardian ad-Litem was of interest to this conference.

My Invisible Children workshop drew over ninety attendees and many of them actively participated in the almost forty minute dialogue that followed my presentation.

These were people that came a long way to be involved and learn how to make a difference. Most of my workshop attendees were from the U.S., with a few people from the other industrialized nations. The larger conference audience was much more diverse, representing many nations. Hamid Karzai, President of Afganistan was one of many internationally known speakers at the conference.

You may listen to the audio of the workshop on the KARA homepage.

The workshop discussion was centered around “Why Some Children Don’t Learn” and to help attendees understand the mental health issues of abused and neglected children and what resources they need to gain the coping and learning skills necessary to function in our schools, homes, and communities.

A primary goal of mine was to show how Post Traumatic Stress is common among children that suffer from extended exposure to violence and deprivation, and make a solid case for why educators, social workers, foster and adoptive parents, and others dealing with abused and neglected children need more and better resources if they are to make progress in helping these children succeed with friends and family, at home and in school.

I also work hard to explain why we need to be advocates not only for the children, but for the people dealing with abused and neglected children.

Too many teachers are leaving their field or transferring out of inner city schools to suburban or private schools. The danger and difficulty of working with violent and unstable children is real and growing.

Our schools are showing the results with high rates of failure and dropouts. Our communities are showing the results of high crime rates and the world’s highest rates of incarceration.

Without support at the community level for programs and policies that support America’s institutions, continued exodus from these most important fields and resulting failure of the children they serve must be expected.

One of the workshop attendees told me afterwards that she had recently quit working in her much loved field of social services because of the lack of resources and negative recognition given to her and her coworkers.

Her comment (rephrased) was that she could make three times as much money being a nanny for one child in New York (and be appreciated for it- my insight) than she could caring for a huge caseload of really needy children without having the resources needed to make a difference in their lives, watching them fail, and at the same time, be blamed for their lack of progress (it truly is depressing).

Her heart was genuinely with the children in need, but it is grueling work and without the resources, or support of the community (or the system) one can only stand so much failure (it becomes personal).

Addendum;

If you ever have the chance to visit the United Nations and take the tour, do it.

Our tour was lead by a bright young man from Uruguay who was able to give us the sense of history and evolution of the UN.

There is an aura of cooperation and striving for a better world that drifts from the walls. At the same time there are many sorrowful examples of tortured people, eleven year old boy soldiers, murdered and raped children, and nations committing horrific violence upon their own innocent populations and their neighbors.

The need for an organization committed to mediating disputes seems so necessary. The violence that is so endemic among us seems so useless. We are stuck with the latter, we can only hope for the former.

Start or join our online groups and discussions on this website to promote this dialogue in your community.

Be involved,

take the lead,

the KARA team

God Save Our Pets


On November 16th I gave two presentations at the 24th Upper Midwest Conference on Adolescents & Children In Need in Arden Hills MN;

“WALKING THE TALK FOR CHILDREN” &

“WHY SOME CHILDREN DON’T LEARN IN SCHOOL”.

I forgot what gruelling work public speaking becomes as you enter the second ninety minute session (I had fifteen minutes between sessions).

By five pm I was worn out.

My presenting method has changed over the years to accomodate my conviction that learning takes place when participants become an active part of the discussion.   My secret for prompting worn out, after lunch crowds into a discussion is to hand out striking news articles on the topic that prompt an opinion or observation. It works.

The story that stuck with me the hardest came from a social worker.

She had reported severe and obvious child abuse at a home in her community on over a dozen separate occasions without any response from from child protection services (because there were no broken bones or bleeding and of course not enough resources in the community to deal with child abuse).

Some months later, one of her workmates noticed an emaciated dog on the premises of the abused child’s family, and told this conference attendee to report the emaciated dog.

She did.  After the humane society did its investigation, child protection services were referred in and the children were removed from the home.

That’s kinda how I see it too;  adults, pets, children, day care workers, fish and insects.

What’s it like in your community? (report the dog?)

Start this discussion with a group on this website and bring it into your community.  Change only comes when people like us start talking.

Onward and upward, 

the KARA team

 

 

 


Children’s Defense Fund Training

mi amigos KARA(Kids At Risk Action),   

The Children’s Defense Fund Leadership Training was a genuinely rewarding experience.

There was a power and a richness in the Alex Haley farm location (100 acres of beautiful trees and old buildings in Clinton Tennessee–20 miles from Knoxville).

The late Alex Haley’s story of developing as a struggling young Black author (his book “Roots”), travelling to Africa to trace his family, and his connections to slavery and the south, come alive as the CDF staff talk about Alex Haley’s life and Marion Wright Edelman discovering the farm and raising the money to buy it for the Children’s Defense Fund.

CDF trains allot of people there. It is a busy place with a committed group of presenters and staffers.

The training concentration was on:

A; being a more effective leader, and B; influencing lawmakers.

Item A was terrific (I appreciate that I to have work to do in this area) &,

Item B was important, but it hurts me that almost no time was spent on the concept of learning about how to impact our immediate circle of influence or growing support at a community level.

I really wanted to discuss building a grassroots support within our own communities and how each and every one of us can grow our awareness and understanding of the serious problems our schools, courts, and health systems are experiencing due to the neglect and abandonment of our most vulnerable population.

And most of all, how we can become comfortable being “the voice” for At Risk Children in our communities.

I have delusions about how to be helpful to CDF for Item B.

Half of an experience like this is meeting so many smart and committed people from every corner of the country. We can learn so much by just sitting next to someone from Missouri, Chicago, or even St. Paul.

The nice lady from Missouri understood why her state was getting such terrific results from their Juvenile Justice system. She could have taught us some very important things (but she was not on the agenda). I was one of four men out of about 50 people, and also I think, the oldest.

They were kind to me (I did feel like a Geezer). My concentration on positioning for listening and closing doors to eliminate background noise really solidified my Geezerhood (although, I believe it was unplugging the noisey water cooler that sealed it).

Minnesota was one of several states that were well represented (five of us). It is troubling to ponder the future of children in states without child advocates.

I intend to stay connected to and network with the Children’s Defense Fund to be more effective in our work to find and promote programs that work for At Risk Children.

Stories/responses from CDF fellows about programs in different states consider using this websites for discussion and group functions.

The larger community needs a place to connect with child protection issues… let’s work together to do that.

the KARA team

 

 

Hardworking People – Prevent Child Abuse Minnesota

Saturday I watched a few hundred committed people gather for “Come Walk for an Abused Child Day” organized by Connie Skillingstad and Prevent Child Abuse MN.

It was a great collaboration of familiar faces. Hard working determined people pouring their time and energy into helping at risk children.

It makes me smile to know that there is no shortage of people wanting to do the right thing.

The energy Connie brings to her mission is something to witness. There are many others just like her, who for years have worked daily to bring positive change into the lives of troubled children.

It’s just a bigger challenge than can be handled without greater support from our surrounding community.

All that needs to happen for significant positive change in the lives of at risk youth is greater public perception and the awakening of our political leaders.

That can only happen if more of us bring more of our attention to the issues (speak, write, and do).

Prevent Child Abuse MN website;  http://www.familysupport.org/index.php Check them out

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Call To Justice Forum June 28th

Help ourselves by helping at-risk children; 

On June 28, I attended the all day Call to Justice forum at Metro U in Minneapolis with about 500 others. Tom Johnson began the program with an overview of the mountain of research that went into the event and his observation that there is serious racial disparity in our police and court system.

Alan Page, Mayors Rybak and Coleman, smart top officers from both Minneapolis and St. Paul Police departments, Minnesota Senator Julianne Ortman, and a host of other insightful people from the University, the downtown council, WCCO, Hennepin County District Court, Council on Crime and Justice, Target Corp, and others came to talk about reducing racial disparity and enhancing public safety.

Three separate panel discussions and five presenters questioned and debated why the circumstances are so lopsided and what to do about the overrepresentation of people of color in prisons, courts, and jails. At times the discussion was passionate.

I was struck by the measured and open discourse between the panelists and the various approaches to understanding and solving the problems of discrimination and victimization. Many honest hardworking citizens have a very real complaint that they can hardly walk to the store without being stopped by police. The cops are in a hard spot for policing too harshly or not enough.

The North side is under daily assault by gunfire and murder. Families live in fear of bullets and gangsters. No amount of policing is making it easier to live in certain parts of our cities. All the prisons in the world cannot solve the problem of crime in our nation.

Only ten percent of the citations issued in Hennepin County to people of color are prosecuted (90% are dismissed). 44% of African American men living in Hennepin county were arrested in 2001 (without any duplicate arrests). At least six major cities in America have Black male unemployment rates of between 40% and 50% and ex felon rates of between 50% and 60%. There are over 600,000 felons leaving prison each year in America. Minnesota ranks behind only Milwaukee in racial disparity within our courts and prisons (Alabama, Mississippi, and Arkansas have better records than Minnesota).

Over ten percent of America’s African American men cannot vote because they are barred due to a felony on their record. Minnesota is in its third year of prison growth of over ten percent per year.

It was agreed that we need more decent jobs, preschool and after-school programs, diversity training, and concern for poor people.

No one at the conference addressed the mental health issues that are at the root of the criminal and juvenile justice systems problem.

Judge Kevin Burke answered my question about the role mental health plays in juvenile justice. He stated that 37% of his offenders had a serious mental health diagnosis. The national average appears to be close to 50%.

No one at the forum mentioned Prozac and other psychotropic medications that are being poured into children (as young as four) in our child protection systems without concurrent therapies or treatments. The traumas of child abuse and being removed from a birth family are severe and lasting. Children don’t learn social skills and mental health mending unless systems are in place to help. It takes a village and concentrated resources to make a damaged child healthy again.

I was keenly aware of the best and brightest minds in our community discussing the impossibly complex issues of crime and justice and racial disparity. It was disappointing that no one except Dr. Bravada Garret-Akinsanya (to the best of my memory and notes) brought attention to the fact that the majority of people in the juvenile and criminal justice systems have serious mental health problems that cannot be solved by policing, courts, or school programs. If no one talks about the core issue of mental health, nothing can be done to improve it.

Ending the cycle of child abuse, fetal alcohol syndrome, drug addiction and family violence that currently impacts the lives of America’s at-risk children will save great sums of tax dollars and allow thousands of children to lead normal lives.

Suffering and in great pain, abused and neglected children are unable to learn or succeed in school without restorative services. At-risk children grow into dysfunctional adults and often spend thirty or forty years in and out of public institutions (about 80% of children aging out of foster care lead dysfunctional lives).

While American policy obsesses over ‘terrorism’ and the few thousand ‘crazies’ that would destroy the western world, the exponentially greater problem of cyclical poverty, substance abuse, crime, child abuse, and the prison mentality lies just in front of our noses.

What is filling our prisons and ruining our cities is the methodical destruction of children of families stuck in the generational evolution of poverty, violence, and drug and alcohol addiction.

Children raised in these families enter our public schools, county child protection services and graduate into our juvenile and criminal justice system where they are punished further.

Ask anyone that has worked with abused and neglected children about the value of punishment as a tool to be used on at-risk children. Abused children often view their whole life as a punishment.

Our court system guarantees punishment for the behavioral problems plaguing abused and neglected children. That is why so many of them end up in prison. The correlation is stunning. Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz has stated that 90% of the children in juvenile justice have come out of child protection.

There is no money to be saved by not helping these children gain the skills and mend their behaviors to fit into our communities. We cannot hide from the violence and anger that grows with these children when they are allowed to move through our institutions without being made well.

We will be helping ourselves by helping them. Once the cycle is broken, at-risk children become healthy normal adults leading fully functional lives. Our schools will benefit, our courts, prisons, and jails, will shrink, and our streets will become safe again.

 

How best to build support for at risk children?

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Grand Rally



On Weds September 14, I spoke at the Grand Parents rally at the state capital in St Paul. State Representative Jeff Vandeveer and Children’s Defense Fund representative Beth Haney spoke also.

At the same time in Washington DC, the national rally was held.
This is one of America’s most active and powerful resources in the struggle to save our At Risk Children.

Grandparents need the attention and appreciation of our policy makers to help them in their efforts.

Support the MN Kinship Care Givers.  They do some very hard work for some very special people.

http://mkca.org/

For those of you who have stories or comments on the issues facing grandparents in their struggle to make the lives of their grandchildren better, please post them to this blog.

Support at risk children, start a KARA group in your community

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Torture vs. Child Abuse


Century College held a talk by Sigred Bachmann from the Center for Victims of Torture on the impact of torture last night. She is a bright and articulate lady who lived through the horrors of nazi concentration camps, and made a new life for herself as a pediatrician, and now a speaker and helper for victims of torture.

There is a striking similarity in the language used to describe war torture victims and victims of child abuse.

“Repeated or prolonged exposure to violence or deprivation”, is what happens to abused children and torture victims.

Children in American child protection systems are only removed from their homes if their lives are in imminent harm. The average length of child sex abuse in America is four years.

Abused children and torture victims suffer from the same kinds of trauma. They exhibit many of the same kinds of problems. They need the same kinds of long term mental health therapies to allow them to rebuild their traumatized mental states, learn coping skills, and how to function in our communities.

The concept of trust, that is so easily taken for granted, is one of the significant long-term barriers to recovery. Children are violated and deprived by their own mothers and fathers. Many children never rebuild a level of trust sufficient to have a spouse or even a close friend.

Abused Children have the problem of self-loathing overcome because they subconsciously believe they are responsible for the abuse they have suffered.

War torture victims don’t have this problem. They know the inherent evil of their torture.

There is no book a child can go to that explains what normal is or the terrors that are being done to them. They have no one to turn to, they can’t even tell their parents.

Today’s war torture victims are finally finding Centers for Victims of Torture to help them rebuild their lives. It takes years of therapy and hard work to function again. Sigrid felt seven years was about the average length of time for a victim of torture to be rehabilitated.

Each year, about six hundred thousand abused and neglected American children are removed from their homes, placed into group homes, foster homes, and adoptive homes with minimal mental health counseling and often not much history or training provided to the new care giver. These children are expected to adjust well into society, succeed in school and with their peers

What we are now doing is not working. Ask any teacher, social worker, mental health worker, or juvenile police officer that seek better results from the institutions they work in.

Unfortunately, many educators and child workers have become jaded to the negative public image of the system and do not believe that there are viable answers to overcome the problems that are ruining these children and our schools and communities.

America has suffered from years of educational failures, high crime and high rates of incarceration, unsafe schools and communities, and growing urban blight.

“The difference between that poor child and a criminal is about eight years”, MN Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz.

We have the skills, resources, and knowledge to successfully treat the mental health problems of abused and neglected children. Today, we simply need the awareness and the will to do so.