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Penn State, Child Rape, & Suicide— Child Sex Abuse Is Not Just Another Crime

As a long time guardian ad-Litem I’ve encountered too many suicides and suicide attempts that are a direct result of child rape.

I have not read the suicide note written by the seven year old foster child that hung himself in Florida, but I have read the most powerful suicide note ever written by a person raped as a child and it is printed below.  I have also had the experience of a acquaintance raped as a child confide in me (as the only person he ever told) what happened to him as a child and how it ruined his life until he sought therapy at 45 (he was over 70 when he told me & was still seeing the same therapist 25 years later).

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Penn State, Child Abuse, You and Me.

In 2005, there were 897 cases of child sex abuse reported in the state of MN.  I knew this because I was a volunteer guardian ad-Litem in MN & writing a book about it, INVISIBLE CHILDREN.

I was only one of five hundred MN guardians IN 2005, and knew this number to be just a fraction of the true number as I personally counted fifty sexually abused children in my caseload & the court system I was working in at the time.

Here’s what I’ve learned about child sex abuse in Minnesota & how it applies to child sex abuse at Penn State.

1)       No One Wants To Talk About It.  Even trained social workers are uncomfortable with this topic and reporting it can mean the fall-out impacting them – it’s easier to let it go.  I have witnessed non-reporting & under-reporting by people working in the field of policing, education, child protection & a friend who admitted years after the fact that he lived near a five year old girl that was being prostituted.  I tell the story in my book of a seven year old girl that was prostituted and not taken out of the home during 48 police calls to her home.

2)     No One Understands.  Very few people understand the lifelong impact the rape of a child has on that child and the adult that child becomes.  Suicides and dysfunctional lifelong lifestyles are common to untreated child rape victims. I have visited 4 year old’s in suicide wards & written about a 7 year old who hung himself and left a note.

3)      This May Surprise You; Our courts are almost incapable of dealing with child rape.  Children make a less than useless witnesses in their own defense.  Brain development of a child guarantees that a good defense attorney will “confuse the witness” which destroys the case.  I have attended conferences at both William Mitchell law school & Hamline University on this topic and listened to judges & prosecuting attorneys (the child’s defender) also admit to confusing the witness in these cases. *In none of the child rape cases in my caseload (about 25) were the molesters ever brought to trial (because the child is not a useful witness – no witness, no case).  If it is not seen and reported (it did not happen—see the problem?)

I predict that many of Jerry Sandusky’s sodomized victims will not come forward because of the serious stigma attached to rape and sex abuse in this nation.

A friend bought me lunch when I wrote INVISIBLE CHILDREN and told me why he had never talked about and would never report his being molested by a priest when he was a young boy.  He also told me what it was like to discover at age 45 the impact of that rape and how it had wrecked two marriages and three business partnerships before he realized his need for help.  He began therapy at 45 & now 70, still seeing the same therapist.

Americans don’t like to talk about sex in even a healthy manner & will further punish people that come forward to talk about it.  Boys almost never do, and only a small percentage of women do.  The stigma is real & we fear becoming part of a messy deal.  Then there’s the history of blaming the victim (even when she’s seven years old) makes reporting so much harder than it should be – see Penn State.

Children don’t have much of a chance in America.

Molesters like Sandusky destroy the lives of hundreds of children over their lifetime.  The child remains severely damaged year after year until help comes from somewhere (usually nowhere). I’ve said about several of the sex abuse children in my caseload that this child has never had a nice day in her life.

Anxiety, terror, Prozac & Ritalin are predictable parts of the life of an abused child.  They feel dirty and often blame themselves for the crime.  Not being able to function normally in school makes life miserable and too often criminal or sexually active & a preteen mother or father.  Just how does one un-teach sexual behavior to a nine year old without professional help?

Predicting the impact in human life years for each Sandusky type abuser, using my 70 year old friend as an example, if only 33 of my friends years are considered (from age 12 to 45), multiplied by just 100 victims (not a high estimate in a case like Sandusky’s) = 3300 years of damage & pain that is rarely reported and even more rarely treated.

In my 12 active years as a guardian ad-Litem, there was almost no effective therapy for the sexually abused children I worked with.

One sad family of four very young and sexually abused children, each had to be placed in separate foster homes because when they were together, the children would sexualize their behavior & at the time, nothing could be done about that.  These children were terribly abused in their birth homes & again by a court system that offered them a fig leaf.  The molester was left in the home and continued his evil behaviors.  The pain these children suffered was immense; the molester once kicked the seven year old so hard she went into convulsions.

How many children had been victimized by Sandusky before 1998 when he was first questioned by police for molesting a boy in a shower?  How many children did he molest from 1998 to today?

Child sex abuse in our communities  is a huge problem that affects many of the three million children reported to child protection services in America each year.  Cases like Sandusky are rarely identified and even more rarely reported.

Millions of children are impacted for life and this will continue until you and I began to better understand its impact and find our voice for reporting and helping children recover.

*I’ve had extensive arguments with a judge & my supervisor about a singular violent and extended rape of young children in a family and the cruelty of leaving this molester in the home (8 years later he was still practicing his criminal behaviors on a four year old boy).

**National  Center For Victims Of Crime www.ncvc.org

 

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1/3 of Georgia Foster Children On Psychotropic Medication

A MN juvenile court judge shared the medication histories of all the very young children that passed through her courtroom over a years time. It was staggering.

The investigation in Georgia I estimate to indicate low to average use of mind altering medications for children in child protection systems.

These drugs are used to subdue children. More often than not the necessary therapies are non existent and the children suffer because of it.

I have personally experienced the fully formed thoughts of suicide delivered by psychotropic medications when I was forced to take Topamax for migraine headache.

I have visited four year olds in suicide wards, and been asked by children in my caseload to please not make them take these drugs & I have written about the 7 year old foster boy that explained why Prozac drove him to hang himself (and leave a note saying so).

There is a growing body of evidence that therapy is critical in the event children are forced to take psychotropics.

Atlanta Journal Constitution article on the overuse of psychotropic medications on foster children;

http://www.ajc.com/news/georgia-politics-elections/georgia-launching-review-of-921678.html

 

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I Never Know

Dear Foster Child from yesterday’s email feeling really low and self destructive,

You are not alone and your feelings are not unusual. I have not discovered perfect answers for curing the lonesomeness and depression that you are feeling, but I have a couple ideas that might be of value to you.

1. Volunteer to work with others that need help. It could be an animal shelter, home for the aged or disabled, or something through a church or synagogue . Why I think this helps is because it makes us feel good about helping others and it connects us with another human being (and the satisfaction of comforting people or pets).

2. Find a way to express yourself through art, dance, theatre, music, or writing. You are a bright and talented person. Your writing skills are terrific and you communicate very well. Getting lost in a painting, a poem, or any other artistic expression can be very rewarding. Yes, it is an escape, but it can become a passion, a way of life, and relief from negative thinking.

3. Consider the study of yoga and Zen thinking. These are simple exercises that bring peace and discipline to our lives and a teaching of what really is important. It is so easy to get caught up in bad thinking. There are many books on the topics as well as community education and I think for free at the Y.

Except for suicide, decisions are reversible.

You, like me, can try to do many things in life. We both hope to find things that we love and can be passionate about.

You, like me, will meet many people in our lives with the hope of finding a few good people that can become genuine friends.

Life is not easy, but it can be wonderful at times.

Life can be suffering and painful, but it can also be sweet and rewarding.

It is my belief that searching and trying new things can and will provide you with experiences that you would like to repeat, things you would like to get good at, and people that you want to know better.

Along the way there will be problems but you are a smart and able person and for the most part, you can solve or get around those problems.

Keep trying.

I wish you success at finding the people and things that will make your life more and more fulfilling.

This is a very favorite poem; http://www.fleurdelis.com/desiderata.htm

My very best wishes,

Miket

Ps… I ask readers who experience these feelings and have found ways of dealing with them to submit comments on this blog. We all benefit from new perspectives.

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Sometimes People Get Shot

Michael Swanson’s pointless execution of Sheila Myers & Vicky Bowman-Hall defines our continuing failure to make mental health resources available to even the most severely troubled people.

This story will fade away until the next Cho (Virginia Tech), Michael Swanson or Jeff Weiss (ten dead Red Lake) makes the front page and more families will be doomed to the years of grieving over the avoidable homicides that destroyed their families.

Blaming severely disturbed people for their crimes is nonsense and solves nothing (it’s counter productive-no steps are taken to solve the problem if that’s all we do).

It would be much more useful to get to know a family that has tried to find help for a very troubled child. As a volunteer County guardian ad-Litem, I came to know many very troubled youth and their parents and other caregivers.

My heart goes out to each one of you. The fear and worry are none stop.

Michael Swanson’s mother Kathleen outlined the years of terror the family lived with as her son received what now looks like almost no professional help even though he repeatedly showed signs of very violent behavior.

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Child Abuse; A Public Health Crisis

The Academy On Violence & Abuse was founded by medical professionals recognizing that abuse is a public health issue of great consequence.

Academy Co Founder Dr David McCollum’s perception about the impact of child abuse came by discovering that emergency room patients were mostly people suffering from abuse and living their lives in dangerous and damaging ways because of it.

As a volunteer guardian ad Litem watching five, seven, and nine year old state wards stab teachers with pencils, cut themselves with razors, and having dangerous sex with multiple partners at inconceivably young ages has always unhinged me. One of my first guardian ad-Litem visits was to a four year old in a suicide ward.

Dr McCollum points out that abused children’s destructive dangerous behavior doesn’t end – it lasts a lifetime. Abused children suffer from more chronic and serious illnesses and die young.

The Academy has studied and identified the relationship between interpersonal violence and health and could make a profound difference in the lives of abused people if the research, tools, and information they have compiled were to become part of the mainstream medical world. Doctors can make a difference. They need to know about www.AVAhealth.org

People can be mended and lead better lives if their past abuse is dealt with in a meaningful way and these folks know how to make it happen.

Three million children a year are reported to child protection services in the U.S. & the majority of them have suffered extended exposure to violence and deprivation that will impact them forever if not treated. Extended exposure to violence and deprivation is the World Health Organizations definition of torture.

The Academy’s powerful studies prove the enormous costs, health complications, suicide, and early death that abuse causes.

This information needs to see the light of day. Our schools would graduate smarter and healthier students, our streets would be safer, and our communities happier places to live if we could identify and deal with our nations biggest problems.

Please consider making your doctor and other professional caregivers (including dentists, social workers, therapists etc) aware of the work being done by the Academy On Violence & Abuse to develop a comprehensive system of public health surveillance.

What we do to our children, they will do to society” Pliny2000 years ago.

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He Would Wander The Streets With His Dog Looking For His Mother When He Was A Boy; Abandoned As An Infant – Executed at 37

If you have not worked with children in child protection systems, the above headline might seem extreme.

There is very little sympathy for felons in our nation and very few people stop to question why there is so much crime and so many criminals.

Not me.

I know that MN Supreme Court Justice Kathleen Blatz is accurate when she says that 90% of the youth in our juvenile justice systems have come through child protection services & that Minneapolis MN arrested 44% of its adult African American men in 2001 (no duplicate arrests).

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The Scandal Of Medicating Very Young Children In Child Protection Systems

Today’s Star Tribune article,

One Scandal After Another, brings attention to the unethical if not criminal behavior of pharmaceutical companies, doctors, and anyone promoting the psychotropic medication of very young children without adequate mental health services.

U of M bioethics professor Carl Elliott discusses drug company payments to doctors and the enormous amounts of money drug reps make by pushing profitable drugs and running outright scams on doctors to sell their product.

My own experience is based on many years as a volunteer guardian ad-Litem and first hand knowledge working with medicated five and ten year old children with real mental health needs but only receiving Prozac, Ritalin, or any of a multitude of psychotropic drugs.

There are few things more painful than watching abused and neglected children not receiving the personal attention of professionals that could help them deal with their mental health needs.

Almost all of the troubled children I worked with suffered extensive and long lasting damage because drugs were used to mask behavior and not useful, proven therapy.

A child protection judge shared with me the psychotropic medications taken by the children that passed through her child protection courtroom over a year’s time (unbelievable).

I personally have experienced suicidal ideation delivered to me by Topamax, a psychotropic medication given (no warnings were given) to me years ago to treat migraine headaches. I am a mature adult and was able to quit taking the drug. Children have no voice in what drugs they take. Children in child protection have no say at all in their own treatment.

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Autism, Child Protection, & Insurance; Texas could save 2Billion$ by treating autistic children

This well written article on the success of early aggressive treatment for autistic children AUTISM CURE CITY PAGES 1.26.11 makes the overarching logical, ethical, and financial argument about the wisdom of treating children early on with proven methods and saving 18 years of special ed, additional health care, and the very real costs of home, social, and school disruption and personal pain.

Blue Cross covers the IEIBT treatments (Intensive Early Intervention Behavior Therapy) but few other insurance companies do. Very few autistic children receive anywhere near the care required to lead a normal life. The new mental health mandates being required of insurance companies could make life much more livable for thousands of autistic children and their families (and save states billions of dollars).

A personal experience with autistic children was my role in unknowingly facilitating the adoption of an autistic child for a childless blue collar couple that lived in rural MN as the child’s guardian ad-Litem.

I discovered that the social workers on the case had known the baby showed significant signs of autism and that the workers said nothing to the adoptive parents.

I knew the workers to be overwhelmed with too many cases and too few answers for the children they served and don’t blame them personally.

I believe that under-training, lack of resources, and just too many abused and abandoned children to find homes for with too few adoptive families leads to this kind of occurrence in child protection systems.

I stayed in touch with the family for many years and watched them struggle with little help, no programs, and tremendous trouble as the baby became a big boy with terrible and often dangerous behaviors.

These beautiful kind people trying desperately to learn and deal with their adopted son’s extraordinary mental health issues with almost no resources or outside help found little support and a great deal of personal pain and strain on the family.

It’s not just the 18 years of unsupported struggle, but the aging family and the hard choices that face them with a child that can’t function independently as an adult in the community as they themselves become unable to manage dangerous behaviors from an unpredictable adult.

To accept that the nation I live in doesn’t support mandating cost effective programs to save children and families from the devastating impact of autism causes me to wonder about what we have become as a people.

Are we that confused that even when we know the economics favor doing the right and ethical thing, that we allow ourselves to be lead by short term thinking or corporate interests to do the wrong thing?

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Child Abuse, Child Mortality, Hating vs. Caring

Milwaukee had 499 infant deaths between 2005 and 2008. The Milwaukee Journal Sentinel blogs surrounding the most recent tragedy are a torrent of blaming and hating with almost no attention to the wellbeing of children.

The absence of concern for children or ideas for making life safer for Milwaukee’s at risk babies is disturbing.

In the case above, the mother apparently did not smoke, drink heavily, or use drugs. The medical examiners report said the mother’s apartment was clean and well equipped with baby supplies.

The public reaction when a baby dies or is found in a dumpster should be one of sadness and a desire to see that children are safer in their community. Something like, “what can we do to see that this does not happen again?”

As a long time guardian ad-Litem, I have come to know troubled parents and realize that the issues impacting them and their children are often addressable through education, health, and mental health services.

Even in these hard economic times our communities and this nation have the ability to reach out to young families and troubled children to provide education and basic services to provide a safe environment.

We make this choice each time we vote; Day care, early childhood programs, health & mental health services, make for safer and happier families, children, schools, and communities.

Blaming and hating creates only more pain and solves nothing. Be constructive…, do something to help those children that need help.

Vote for child friendly initiatives and the people and programs that support them.

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Child Sex Abuse & The Most Powerful Suicide Note Ever

Two of my friends have killed themselves this year and I want badly to know how to help others deal with suicidal thoughts and depression with more than psychotropic medications.

When I wrote INVISIBLE CHILDREN in 2005, a 70 year old friend asked me out to lunch. After the meal he explained how he told no one of his abuse at the hands of a priest when he was a twelve year old boy and how finally at 45, after 2 failed marriages and several failed business partnerships, he sought out a therapist.

He was still seeing that therapist 25 years later.

Of the children I’ve worked with as a guardian ad-Litem, a high percentage of them have been sexually abused. I have seen the horror of child sex abuse and how 10 or 25 years later, a troubled being still fighting the darkness every day.

Child sex abuse may be the most under-reported crime in America. It could also be the most under-treated horror in America. As a guardian ad-Litem, my first visit to a hospital suicide ward to visit a four year old girl that had been horribly abused was never made public, or when I worked with the seven year old that had been prostituted, or any of the family members that practiced child sex abuse.

There are successful sex abuse recovery programs, but our local governments and state agencies don’t support them in a large scale, and the under-reporting of abuse means most children do not receive the help they need. As these children age, the damage from abuse does not disappear – it is often magnified and becomes a serious behavioral problem.

The medical people at http://www.avahealth.org/ are working to make the discovery and treatment of child abuse a normal part of medical examinations (support them). This would be a big first step in identifying the scope and scale of the problem and making treatment available to those that need it.

This is the longest and most powerful and articulate suicide note I’ve ever read and it has great meaning to me for its power to relate these two incomprehensible sorrows (abuse & suicide).

I could not read Bill Zeller’s last letter without feeling the terror, physical and mental impediments, and daily reminders of his childhood nightmares, adult confusion and suicide.

From the Huffington Post;
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/01/07/bill-zeller-dead-princeto_n_805689.html

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America’s Children, Mental Health, Addiction, Medication

As a long time resident/student of my community (almost 60 years), volunteer guardian ad-Litem (14 years), and voracious reader of newspapers (about 50 years), I have observed again and again how important the basics are to children.

Children born into violent dysfunctional homes don’t get the basics and this affects them forever.

Most often mom was abused and suffers from serious mental health issues that will soon become the child’s problem. The sex abuse I’ve witnessed among the fifty children I’ve worked with as a CASA volunteer is frightening to speak (and much to common and underreported).

Children traumatized by violence and neglect have serious developmental disabilities that don’t go away with age. 80% of youth aging out of foster care are leading dysfunctional lives.

Adding to the 3 million children reported to child protection in America each year, are the 3.5 million children on stimulant and anti-psychotic medications. Recent studies indicate that almost half of U.S. youth have mental health issues. About 2/3s of the youth in juvenile justice are diagnosed with mental health problems; half of them have multiple, serious diagnosis.

The following article/interview from Democracy Now, Amy Goodman & Dr. and author Gabor Mate explains in detail what happens to children born into unfortunate circumstances and how we need to wake up and support families and institutions to positively change the child unfriendly environment we are creating in America.
http://www.alternet.org/module/printversion/149325

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75% Of Inmates Are Illiterate (19% are completely illiterate) Ruben Rosario

Ruben Rosario’s article on the connection between criminal behavior and literacy is stunning in it’s simplicity.

Ruben’s statistics;

85 percent of all juveniles who come into contact with the juvenile court system are functionally illiterate. So are 60 percent of all prison inmates.

Inmates have a 16 percent chance of returning to prison if they receive literacy help, as opposed to 70 percent for those who receive no help. This equates, according to the study, to taxpayer costs of $25,000 per year per inmate and nearly double that amount for juvenile offenders (California & New York spend over $200,000 per year on juveniles in their juvenile justice systems).

Other related information;

Over 50% of the youth in the juvenile justice system suffer from diagnosable mental illness & fully half that number have serious multiple diagnosis. Today’s

Michael Swanson’s Star Tribune headlines drive home the sad and murderous points that 13 year youth with serious criminal records need intervention and therapy not jail time. The Missouri miracle (juvenile justice transformation) makes this argument well.

Over 25% of American juveniles in the justice system are tried as adults,

Almost all youth in the juvenile justice system have passed through child protection services (MN Supreme Court Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz).

Over 70% of the serious and violent crime committed by juveniles in Ramsey County in the year of the ACE study, was perpetrated by youth from less than 4% of the families in the county.

We know who these children are and we have programs that work to make their lives more successful.

Minnesota spent half a billion dollars on its prison system last year. The money would be far better spent on early childhood programs allowing at risk youth a better chance at leading a normal life.
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More About Four & Seven Year Old Suicides, Prozac & A Veterans Day Message

A dear long term friend (from high school) committed suicide a few weeks ago.

He was a veteran who found it very hard to kill when he was in Vietnam. His letters to me from his military tour were tortured and distressed. He never wanted to hurt anyone.

He needed help but never got it. Mental health help was not a military option offered to vets post Vietnam.

My friend’s family had no idea that he would kill himself – he was such a happy and gentle man. The pain and suffering has spread to the family now and it will last forever.

My primary experience with suicide comes from the children I’ve worked with in child protection as a guardian ad-Litem and the Topamax that was proscribed to me for terrible migraine headaches.

I had become very familiar with the language on the packaging of psychotropic medications concerning depression and suicidal thoughts but was absolutely dumbstruck when I experienced depression and full blown suicidal ideation after 12 months of Topamax.

It is impossible to convey to you what that last sentence means in a manner that will impact you as it impacted me. Words will never do justice to thoughts of suicide.

I’m a mature adult that has studied and written about this terrible thing and it was absolutely overwhelming at the time. I found help and stopped the drug and got better.

I’ve come to know many children in child protection taking psychotropic medications
. The data on children in child protection on these drugs is also overwhelming (and a well kept secret). Four and seven year olds behaving in extremely dangerous ways and trying to kill themselves should be extremely rare in any civil society.

I did not find it rare among the children in my caseload in child protection.

America is way behind other advanced societies in dealing with mental health issues and it is killing poor vulnerable children and way too many veterans.

Goodbye Tom, you were dear & wonderful person and a great friend; I will miss you.

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Files Released On Foster Teen Who Committed Suicide

http://www.kitv.com/news/25640321/detail.html

As a guardian ad-Litem, one of my first hospital visits was to a four year old in a suicide ward.

Judge Heidi Schellhas shared with me the Prozac, Ritalin, and other psychotropic medications being taken by 6, 7, and 8 year old children in her Child Protection courtroom (mostly with sporadic or non existent mental health therapies).

Other children I cared for tried to kill themselves through extremely dangerous behaviors. I’ve written about the seven children in one school district that took their own lives and the seven year old foster child who hung himself and left a note.

Misha Zubarev’s video on aging out of foster care had a great impact on me; http://www.invisiblechildren.org/2009/12/10/aging-out-of-foster-care/

Most of us would agree that caring for vulnerable children is a worthwhile endeavor.

What can we do to make suicide less of an option for abused and neglected children?

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After Traumatic Event, Early Intervention Reduces Odds of PTSD in Children by 73 Percent

My experience in the CASA guardian ad-Litem program was impacted by the harsh realities that become part of an abused child’s life after experiencing the trauma of extended exposure to violence and deprivation. Their lives are damaged in a manner that makes it hard to make friends, learn in school, or lead a productive life.

Most of the articles written (like this one http://www.uphs.upenn.edu/news/News_Releases/2010/09/child-ptsd-early-intervention/ ) would lead one to believe that these traumas are isolated incidents in the life of an at risk child.

This was not what I saw. Instead, children generally spend years in dangerous environments and are only rarely removed from the harshest circumstances and then into an underfunded and overworked system of foster/group homes that provide a minimum degree of the services desperately needed by the child.

This study shows us what needs to be done. The good news is that we know what to do to save abused and neglected (traumatized) children.

The bad news is that only rarely, do these children receive help in a timely manner. It has been my experience, that only after they act out and get into trouble, do we really pay attention to them.

We can do better.

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We’re Number 1, & that’s not good…

The following article by Bishop Gene Robinson draws attention to youth suicide & particularly that seven students in one Minnesota school district have taken their own lives, including three teens.

GLBT issues underly most of the suicide the Bishop writes about. The idea that life can be made so unbearable for children so young is incomprehensible unless you have been near someone living the nightmare.

A gay 14 year old boy in my guardian ad-Litem caseload was physically restrained for the better part of his five week stay in a Christian group home that had promised to deal objectively with his sexual orientation. There was nothing rational about the treatment he received at this group home.

He was suicidal when he was seven & put on Ritalin with minimal mental health therapy. He has HIV AIDS today at 20.

As a result of the terrible treatment he received from his family & the lack of organized resources available to him through the child protection system, his entire life has seems to have been dangerous behaviors & a death wish.

I’ve followed the terrible stories of very young children committing suicide and experienced several first hand suicide attempts as a guardian ad-Litem.

The good news is that we have the treatment protocol to save these children.

Let’s support those programs (yes, with our tax dollars – and no, there is not a religion in the world that abandons children) Continue reading ‘We’re Number 1, & that’s not good…’

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Counterpoint To Yesterday’s Post

This insightful comment in response to The Evolution of CASA Volunteering post yesterday deserves attention. It has made me better understand the complex issues we deal with as guardians ad-Litem. I do not agree with everything the author writes, but there is no disputing the facts she presents. I have had a similar experience and know how painful it is.

My article was written from the perspective of a CASA volunteer working with very troubled children that were not adopted. They needed a consistent adult in their life and we must help provide that.

Some of my CASA children had been in over ten foster homes and treatment centers and would age out of foster care very alone and uncertain.

I failed to clarify that in yesterday’s article. This counterpoint helps to clarify the serious issues that must always be considered in our struggle to provide the very best services to abused and neglected children. Please submit your own ideas and comments to this discussion.

Michael,
I am emailing you this privately and will leave it to your discretion as to whether you want to post this on your site as a mode of discussion. I know you support CASA and they do a lot of good for some kids, but the program has developed major faults over time.

It was never intended that CASA become a substitute parent or become personally involved with the children at all. They are supposed to be objective, getting FACTS from everyone involved, making recommendations to the judge based up those facts. Their own rules caution them against becoming too personally involved causing loss of objectivity.

They are not supposed to take the child shopping, buy them gifts, or celebrate milestones. This is the role of the parental figure in the child’s life. What if the parent doesn’t step up? The CASA can recommend that the child be assigned a person who can serve that role. It is not the CASA responsibility to fill it.

The CASA guidelines describe this role as “passive observer, information gatherer.” Passive is not active. They may not actively do anything. Gathering information does not equal obtaining or performing services. Obtaining services is the duty of the caseworker.

The CASA may recommend to the judge that services be obtained, but is not allowed to perform them himself.

This is where CASA goes awry causing blurred boundaries with the other parties involved in the case, especially, the parents. CASA can overstep to the point that they push the parent out of the picture completely, and this is a grand travesty to the child.
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Better Guidance Urgently Needed For Doctors In Child Protection Cases, Say Experts

A British Medical Journal Journal article (below) points out the confusion in doctors duties regarding child protection. In Britain the welfare of the child is place highly only when a decision is governed by the Children Act statute, which has created an atmosphere of increased complaints against paediatricians. Doctors may be avoiding work related to abuse because of this.

As a guardian ad Litem in the U.S., I often found medical professionals unresponsive to the violence and dysfunction responsible for the condition of the child before them.

In the U.S. there is an organization trying to change that; The Academy on Violence and Abuse, www.avahealth.org is working diligently to better educate the medical profession about the signs of abuse and how to respond effectively.

Visit the Academy’s website and watch their videos, it is compelling.

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Drugs Without Therapy Is Ineffective & Can Be Dangerous

Today’s Minneapolis Star Tribune article http://www.startribune.com/world/92016859.html?page=1&c=y clearly explains the abject failure of giving traumatized veterans psychotropic medications without adequate therapy. The Public and the Media are beginning to understand the consequences of under-treated mentally damaged soldiers (violence/suicide/shattered lives) and the value of proper medical attention given early.

We learn slow as a nation, but we do learn. This story needs to be repeated (pass it on).

Almost nothing is known about the rivers of psychotropic medications that are poured into the millions five, seven, and nine year old children that pass through child protection systems in America without sufficient mental health services.

Judge Heidi Schellhas shared with me the quantity of Prozac, *Ritalin, and other mind altering psychotropic medications poured into the very young children that passed through her court room each year. The amounts were staggering.

One of my first cases as a volunteer guardian ad-Litem took me to a four year old girl at the suicide ward at a Minneapolis hospital. Many of my cases of very young children were taking powerful psychotropic medications and not receiving access to mental health professionals. There was almost no coordination of services for these children, one provider had no idea what another provider was doing or how they might work together in the interests of the very troubled child.

There is no doubt that traumatized children and veterans need better access to mental health services. Veterans are fortunate in that their traumas are readily understood, discussed, and addressed.

Not so with abused and neglected children. The Media and the Public fail to see that child do not end up in child protection services unless they have been traumatized.

It is America’s “Imminent Harm Doctrine” that rules child protection law, and it only allows children to be removed from a home if their lives are endangered. In my experience over twelve years as a guardian ad-Litem, all children removed from their homes have been endangered and severely traumatized. Many children that were not removed from their homes were traumatized also. They need help too.

It would serve us well as a nation to help them. Our schools, communities, families, and children would benefit.

*Ritalin was banned in Sweden in 1968 because of a huge increase in suicides in the nation attributed to its use.

Kids At Risk Action needs your support for its successful launch of televised public service announcements building awareness to the issues surrounding child abuse. In collaboration with award winning Salo of Finland, KARA is working to create and place ads on national TV. These ads will reach millions and create interest and understanding of this important and often misunderstood subject.
Please contact us with your questions, referrals, and donations.
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Educating America, Help Build KARA’s PSA Program For Abused & Neglected Children

Kids At Risk Action needs your support for its successful launch of televised public service announcements building awareness to the issues surrounding child abuse.

In collaboration with award winning Salo of San Ramon CA, & the Academy on Violence and Abuse www.avahealth.org KARA is working to create and place public service ads that bring attention to child abuse on national TV.

These ads will reach millions and create interest and understanding of the children impacted by abuse.

Contact KARA with your questions and support. Please contact us with your questions, referrals, and donations.

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Mental Health, Drug & Alcohol Abuse Programs Don’t Cost They Save

Just a few years ago in Red Lake, Jeff Weiss committed multiple murders and then killed himself after months on poorly proscribed Prozac & genuinely reaching out to his community for mental health help and not finding any. Jeff’s mother had told him that she wished he’s never been born. Jeff had a website openly discussing homicide/suicide.

In Red Lake and other communities that have suffered such mayhem, much money has been spent after a tragedy to put in place services that should stop the next Virginia Tech, Red Lake, Columbine.

Mental health is the cornerstone of a healthy life. We all have our ups and downs. Some of us start lower than others and sink lower than others. Throw in alcohol or drugs (proscribed or not) & bad things begin to happen.

Programs that help youth understand these issues and how to cope with them are one of the best investments that we can make in our youth and our community.

Not having programs is expensive. Just ask the people that lost family and friends in Red Lake, Columbine, & at Virginia Tech.

The following articles are an expansion on the topic of money and teen substance abuse (thanks Jamie);

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Burn Injuries Make Up 10 % of All Child Abuse Cases

This government study shows the frequency of children, most under two, almost all under ten, that are deliberately burned by their caregivers. It is striking in that it gives clear definition & how to interpret a child’s burns.

This is perhaps a more technical/professional piece than is usually found here, but I think it is important and might serve as reference to people you know in the social service or medical fields.

It explains how to distinguish between accidental burns and deliberate burns. I found it to be a complete and important investigation of this serious and not often discussed type of abuse.

One of my first cases was a baby in a very dysfunctional home that had been terribly scalded in a bathtub. The skin on the bottom half of her body had suffered third degree burns in a bathtub of 161 degree water. A very painful experience for the baby that would be with her for her life (her legs and bottom would be scarred forever).

The only positive was in this sad case was a firm that specialized in burns that recovered substantial damages for the child against the landlord that had ignored frozen cold water pipes and turned the hot water heater to a scalding temperature.

Link to the complete Worksheet;

http://www.ncjrs.gov/txtfiles/91190.txt

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Abusing Children At Home & In School – The Life Of An Abused Child

Most House Republicans Vote To Allow Solitary Confinement & Restraint Devices in Schools.

The vast majority of the children we will be tying up & confining come from very troubled homes. Or, as former MN Supreme court Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz has stated, about 90% of the youth in juvenile justice have come through child protection services.

Before a child can become removed from a home through child protection services, they have lived for a long time in an abusive or neglectful home and have been tortured as defined by the World Health Organization.

It’s not the happy children that we will be restraining - it’s the three million children that are reported to child protection in America each year.

In my experience, the WHO’s definition of torture fits the life experience of a child that has been removed from an abusive home; “extended exposure to violence and deprivation” has been their life. The U.S. has no other child protection policy than the IMMINENT HARM DOCTRINE.

The link between an abused child’s past tortured life and future troubled life is clear to most of us that have lived with or worked with these damaged children long enough. It causes me great pain to see my guardian ad-Litem kids handled like mad animals (tasered, confined, beat up by under-trained staff in under-resourced detention centers) Continue reading ‘Abusing Children At Home & In School — The Life Of An Abused Child’

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Children’s Health Trends

Dr. Bruce Perry gives credible argument that 25% of Americans will be special needs people in few generations if we do not act forcefully to mend our approach to the mental health needs of abused and neglected children http://www.childtrauma.org/CTAMATERIALS/vortex_interd.asp.

Add to that the serious growing issues of diabetes that conservatively predicts that fifty percent of American’s children will be obese within three years, & that three times as many American children are proscribed psychotropic medications as are European children, is a strong indication that our public policies are not child friendly.

We are all too familiar with the sad fact that the U.S. tries 150,000 juveniles as adults each year, and that most juvenile justice cases have been child protection cases, paints an even darker picture for poor inner city children.

New York Times article on Rising Rates of Chronic Health Problems for Children;

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/02/23/health/research/23child.html

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A Modest Proposal, or If Children Could Riot

300 years ago an Irish Minister wrote a highly acclaimed critical satire (“A Modest Proposal” - in its entirety below) in protest of the cruel public policies imposed on poor families that were destroying the lives of Irish children.

Public policy at the time treated the Irish more like animals than people and their children were doomed to living lives of crime, prostitution, and destitution.

Jonathon Swift’s satirical theme was that Irish children would be better off dead than raised in such horrible and inescapable circumstances.

As a long time guardian ad-Litem, I have come to understand Swift’s rage at the cruelties a community can pile on to poor children.

The idea that America’s poor working families don’t deserve education, health care, & safe homes for their children in the richest nation in the world is a cruel and unsupportable position.

The other industrialized nations have figured out that caring for their youngest citizens guarantees healthy adults and productive communities. We now don’t rank anywhere near the top in the majority of quality of life indices among the 24 industrialized nations.

America can’t quit building prisons and filling them with juveniles and preteen moms. We continue to quit subsidizing daycare, early childhood programs, healthcare for the poor, & education funding, while at the same time listening more and more to the mean spirited philosophies of radio and TV hosts that blame the nations ills on people that have (and always will have) the least.

The economic arguments of caring for children are all in favor of creating productive citizens by early intervention and early childhood development. It actually costs a great deal more to continue to punish the weakest and most vulnerable among us.

Are we a community without compassion?

KARA is seeking a 21st Century Modest Proposal. If you are a writer and given to challenges, please read Swift’s “Proposal” below, and write your own as you see it applying to American children & include it as a comment, or send it to Info@invisiblechildren.org
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Civil Justice, Mental Health, Children, Education, & Politics

Last night I attended the Patrick Henry High School Community Forum on the impact that children’s mental health has on the entire education and juvenile justice systems held by Representatives Mindy Greiling and the Civil Justice Committee Chair Joe Mullery.

Smart people from mental health and education spoke on stigma, truancy, intervention & juvenile justice. A very smart person from the community stepped forward and spoke about mental health as perceived from within the community.

By the end of the evening it was made clear that the 47,000 arrested juvenile arrests in MN last year were related to high school dropout rates and the safety of city streets. No reference was made to the A.C.E. study of two years ago indicating that over 70 percent of all violent and serious crime in Ramsey County was committed by youth from 3% of the families within the county.

Thank you to all of the committed individuals that work in education, social services, mental health and justice trying to make these institutions responsive to the massive needs within our communities.

Please appreciate the frustration from those of us who know that preteen moms and juvenile felons deserve better from our policy makers than the hard politics that have continued to underfund mental health and young families at the expense of prisons, punishment, and jails.

I am pleased that we are having public forums on the topic for more than a few reasons;

As a community, the topic has been uncomfortable and avoided for too long. Last nights discussion on “mental health” and how to be mentally “healthy” was positive and meaningful and a model for other forums and future discussions.

As a guardian ad-Litem, I came to know many traumatized children that had no access to adequate mental health services and watching them grow into dysfunctional adults has been painful. Continue reading ‘Civil Justice, Mental Health, Children, Education, & Politics’

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Kansas Losing Health Care For 40,000 Children

Another state is putting the burden of health costs back onto families earning less than 200% of the federal poverty level.

Kansas budget cuts and layoffs have created a backlog that appears to be growing dramatically.

Budget cuts hurting state child health program

By Marshanna Hester http://www.ktka.com/news/2010/feb/01/budget-cuts-hurting-state-child-health-program/
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Juvenile Injustice – Mental Health

Today’s NY Times article on the lack of oversight in New York’s mental health facilities for youth mirrors the rest of the nation.

2 Important truths; most of the youth in the juvenile justice system have come through child protection services, & a large percentage of these youth suffer from mental health issues.

Children don’t become involved in child protection systems unless they have suffered extended exposure to violence and deprivation in their birth homes.

The World Health Organizations definition of Torture is; Extended Exposure to Violence and Deprivation – Trauma.

New York is now spending about $250,000 per year / per youth in their juvenile justice system.

http://www.invisiblechildren.org/2009/12/14/new-york-meet-missouri/

In my experience as a guardian ad-Litem in MN I have watched really terrible things happen to very troubled children under the direction of people and programs that were supposed to be “helping” the child.

One young boy walked home many miles without a coat, on a sub zero MN night (with no home to go to) from a juvenile facility after being severely abused.

While it would be easy to blame the people in the institutions, it is really the fault of poor public policy, resulting from lack of understanding of underlying issues.

Mental health is all about functioning within our communities. Bear that in mind as you read the New York Times article and the following KARA pieces.

My note on the following; The amount of psychotropic medications being proscribed to this population is enormous in relation to the the therapy that is needed but not available.

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A Million Haitian Orphans

According to World News 380,000 Haitian children were made homeless when their orphanages were destroyed in the earthquake.

Before the earthquake, UNICEF estimates that tens of thousands of Haitian children were being sold as servants to rich Haitians each year.

Developing nations are often unable to provide even the most basic safety for their nations children (child endangerment, slavery, basic care) through the proper writing and passing of laws and standards that all sensible people could agree on. Enforcement is another issue entirely.

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Cutting Early Childhood Programs Is Expensive and Ruins Lives

After 12 years of guardian ad-Litem work I am convinced that early childhood programs make a great difference in the lives of at risk children. Children receiving the help they need to make it in school more often go on to graduate and on to become contributing members of our communities.

To not support children that are unable to read or function well in the classroom is to insure continued failing schools and more and bigger prisons.

America is already the largest criminal nation in the world in per capita and in gross prison numbers – and that is expensive in financial and quality of life measurements.

The following This PEW issue brief goes on to explain in detail why we should continue early childhood programs in tough economic times.

Use this information to help your local programs keep their funding in these hard times. Cutting Early Childhood Programs Worsens Fiscal Problems http://www.pewtrusts.org/news_room_detail.aspx?id=56880

Contact: Rolanda B. Rascoe, 202.540.6413 Continue reading ‘Cutting Early Childhood Programs Is Expensive and Ruins Lives’

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The Evidence Is In

Watch the video clips from the Academy on Violence & Abuse http://avahealth.org/and order their free full presentations (when you join their organization). The Relationship of Adverse Childhood Experiences to Adult Health Status piece by Dr Felitti is extremely powerful http://gallery.mac.com/avahealth#100000

The years of hard research this organization has done to quantify the impact of abuse on children as they become adults is as incontrovertible as it is moving.

This information shared with the public and policy makers can help abused and neglected children received more and better care and lead more productive lives.

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Academy on Violence and Abuse
14850 Scenic Heights Road, Suite 135A
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Financial and Family Stress Linked to Child Maltreatment in Rural Areas

This in depth report from the Carsey Institute at the University of New Hampshire makes it painfully clear that poverty and mental health issues are often at the heart of child abuse.

Durham, NH–According to a new brief by Carsey Institute director of research on vulnerable families Marybeth J. Mattingly and research assistant professor of sociology Wendy A. Walsh, rural families who have been reported to Child Protective Services (CPS) are more likely than those reported in urban areas to experience high family stress and financial difficulties. Rural children referred to CPS are also more likely than urban children to live in a single parent home.

Based on data from the National Survey of Child and Adolescent Well-Being, this brief shows that across place, nearly 40 percent of children who are reported to CPS live in poverty, and roughly half have a caregiver with mental health issues. Continue reading ‘Financial and Family Stress Linked to Child Maltreatment in Rural Areas’

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A More Responsive New Year For Abused Children

As a guardian ad-Litem, I have seen government agencies more responsive to abused animals than abused children.

Among the 24 industrialized nations, the U.S. stands out with no positive public federal policy for children.

The only Child Protection policy in America is its Imminent Harm Doctrine, allowing courts to remove children whose lives are endangered by their parents. CP systems in the U.S. are under resourced, poorly coordinated, with no meaningful studies or outcome based measurements to track success or failure.

Absent coordinated positive public policy for the care of children, America is now at the confluence of misaligned and mistaken public policies that are overwhelming its schools, health and mental health services, child protection services, juvenile justice services, and criminal justice systems.

Failing schools, unsafe communities, and absurdly high rates of incarceration are just the tip of the iceberg.

Many Americans see the tip of this iceberg and assume that they understand the deeper problem, which they will fix by lowering taxes, criticizing civil servants, harsher sentencing, limiting juvenile or criminal justice rehabilitation, and move towards privatizing prisons.

What people are not seeing, and what undermines our civil society, is the correlation between healthy children and healthy citizens. We are ignoring an explosion of traumatized children with serious mental health issues, unable to cope with school & work, or get by without intervention or services

Dr. Bruce Perry gives credible argument with his research that within the next few generations, 25% of Americans will be special needs people.

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America’s Families (From Grief Speaks)

I was quite taken by the information on Lisa Athan’s blog, Grief Speaks;http://www.griefspeaks.com/American children;

1 in 2 will live in a single parent family at some point in childhood
1 in 3 is born to unmarried parents
1 in 4 lives with only one parent
1 in 8 is born to a teenage mother
1 in 25 lives with neither parent

68.7% of American Youth are living in non-traditional families

23.3% living with biological mother (Step-family Association)

4.4% living with biological father (Step-family Association)
1% Foster Families (U.S. Census Bureau)

3.7% living with non-relatives (U.S. Census Bureau)

6.3% living with grandparents (AARP – U.S. Census Bureau)

30% living in Step-families ** (Step-family Association)
(Note: This does not include youth impacted by the death of a loved person such as a sibling or grandparent.)

Approximately 30% of U.S. families are now being headed by a single parent, and in 80% of those families, the mother is the sole parent.

The United States is the world’s leader in fatherless families.Father absence contributes to crime and delinquency. Violent criminals are overwhelmingly males who grew up without fathers.

Slightly more than 40% of all current marriages are second or third marriages. (U.S. Census Bureau, 1992)

75% of children/adolescents in chemical dependency hospitals are from single-parent families. (Center for Disease Control, Atlanta, GA)

1 out of 5 children have a learning, emotional, or behavioral problem due to the family system changing.

More than one half of all youths incarcerated for criminal acts lived in one-parent families when they were children. (Children’s Defense Fund)

Nine million American children face risk factors that may hinder their ability to become healthy and productive adults.

One in seven children deal with at least four of the risk factors, which include growing up in a single-parent household…The survey also indicated that children confronting several risk factors are more likely to experience problems with concentration, communication, and health. (1999 Kids Count Survey – Annie E. Casey Foundation)

Every 78 seconds a teen attempts suicide – every 90 seconds they succeed. (National Center for Health Statistics)

63% of suicides are individuals from single parent families (FBI Law Enforcement Bulletin – Investigative Aid)…

75% of teenage pregnancies are adolescents from single parent homes

Approximately 13% of all babies born in the U.S. are born to adolescent mothers, with one million teens becoming pregnant each year.

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Addressing PTSD In At Risk Children

It is clear to anyone living or working with abused and neglected children that trauma suffered in childhood is carried into adulthood at great personal expense to the child.

Every year, we read about useful new methods of addressing trauma, yet in my 12 years working with children in child protection I rarely saw abandoned kids receive the mental health services that they needed to lead normal lives.

Prozac, Ritalin, and other psychotropic medications are readily available, but without consistent access to therapy, abused and neglected children are often doomed to live with the PTSD that makes them behave in ways that cost them their place in our community.

Here are a few PTSD articles on the topic that I found on BBC that were very powerful; http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/6897406.stm
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Unmaking At Risk Children

Among the 24 industrialized nations in the world, the U.S. stands out with its history of no positive public federal policy for children. The only protective federal child policy in America is its Imminent Harm Doctrine, which allows courts to remove children whose lives are endangered by their parents.

Child protection systems in the U.S. are under resourced, poorly coordinated, with no meaningful studies or outcome based measurements to track success or failure.

Absent coordinated positive (1*) public policy for the care of children, America is now at the confluence of misaligned and mistaken public policies that are overwhelming its schools, mental health services, child protection services, juvenile justice services, and criminal justice systems. Failing schools, unsafe communities, and absurdly high rates of incarceration are just the tip of the iceberg.

Many Americans (including a significant proportion of legislators) see the tip of this iceberg and assume that they understand the deeper problem, which they will fix by lowering taxes, criticizing civil servants, harsh sentencing, limited juvenile or criminal justice rehabilitation, and a move towards privatizing prisons (and building more of them).

What many people are not seeing, and what is undermining the critical underpinnings of our civil society, is the correlation between healthy children and healthy citizens. Or, perhaps stated more directly, we are ignoring a thirty year explosion of traumatized, abused and neglected children growing up with serious mental health issues, unable to cope with school & work, or get by in their own community without intervention (incarceration), or services.

These children are graduating into their own new dysfunctional families, which are being followed by the next generation, and the next generation (exponential growth in this sector).

Dr. Bruce Perry gives credible argument to his research that if this is not addressed strongly and in a timely fashion, within 30 years, 25% of Americans will be special needs people.

After thirteen years in child protection services, I think Dr Perry is an optimist.

About three million children per year are reported to child protection services. Only recently have the services began to show up that could address the mental health needs of traumatized children (to date the services remain far short of addressing those issues adequately). The vast majority of these children are being prescribed psychotropic medications (Prozac, Ritalin, etc) without adequate mental health therapies.

It may need to be pointed out that children are not removed from their homes in this nation until they have been severely traumatized (these children need services). The World Health Organization defines torture as extended exposure to violence and deprivation. This is also my definition of child abuse.

50% to 75% of the youth in juvenile justice have diagnosable mental illness, with half of this population living with multiple, severe, and chronic conditions that get worse over time if left untreated. These statistics are the same for adults in the criminal justice system. There is no available mental health data for youth in child protection systems. If the data existed, it would mirror juvenile justice data.

America’s At Risk children form “a pipeline to prison” (Marion Wright Edelman, Children’s Defense Fund founder).

Minneapolis MN arrested 44% of its adult black male population in 2001 (with no duplicate arrests, 58% of these men went on to be rearrested for a second crime within two years).

The negative racial disparity among abused and neglected children in child protection systems, or schools, juvenile justice, jails and prisons besmirch America’s reputation to the rest of world.

As a guardian ad-Litem for Hennepin County for about fifty children over 12 years, I have witnessed multiple cases of untreated mental health problems of children traumatized by child abuse and the correlation with the dysfunctional lives that they go on to live as adults.

A Hennepin county judge has provided me with the psychotropic medications taken by the four and five year old children that she has guided through her juvenile courtroom.

I have witnessed and written about suicides by children as young as four years old.

The reliance this nation has on psychotropic medications for severely damaged children without concurrent mental health therapies is a failed public policy.

Maladjusted children become maladjusted adults.

A core assumption of invisiblechildren.org is that crime in the U.S. would evaporate if hopeless and gruesome childhoods that we are now propagating were addressed as if we meant to help children lead productive lives.

Significant U.S. data;

13 million prison and jail releases last year

13% of America’s black men can’t vote because they are felons

1 to 1.6 trillion dollars in crime annually (insurance cost estimates alone)

America has 5% of the world’s population and 25% of the world’s prison population

Almost all felons come through the juvenile justice system. There are at least six major American cities with adult black male populations that have ex felon ratios above fifty percent.

MN Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz states that 90% of the youth in juvenile justice have come through child protection services. That of course is not true in states with poor child protection services with no services, as there is no way to identify at risk children (and there are many such states).

**”If you define institutions by what they create instead of what they were designed to create”, then child protection services create dysfunctional human beings that will forever be a burden upon their community. These citizens will be disproportionately institutionalized and require services for most of their lives, and they will go on to raise families as dysfunctional and as costly to their community as they themselves were.

(**borrowed from Kathleen Long, Angels and Demons).

The U.S. stands out among the industrialized nations with the weakest of child protection policies. The Imminent Harm Doctrine allows courts to remove children from families from homes ONLY where their lives are in danger. Judges receive no special training to work in child protection court and many of them view the duty as onerous.

The expense of not investing in our very young children far exceed the longterm costs of dealing with that child and his or her actions and progeny to our community.

Besides, it is the right thing to do.

1*. This is one of many examples; as a guardian ad-Litem, it was my job to support the County in its attempt to remove four children from a father whose key problem with the County was that he could not afford day care, which would leave the children in the possible care of his crack addicted wife. The County maintained that it was good public policy (cheaper/less disruptive) to take these four children from their hard working and decent birth father and place them in foster homes than it would be to help him find affordable day care.

Day care workers are paid about the same as food service workers in America (the lowest paid employees in the U.S.). This is how we value children in America.

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Sweden – Positive Role Models

Our terrific volunteer researcher from Macalaster College (Lelde) has been uncovering hard facts about
abused and neglected children in Sweden.

The following are some of the more striking differences between our nations.

“converting the American figures for direct comparison with Sweden (2001), a comparative picture of the reported incidence of child abuse in Sweden and America is as follows:

Sweden – 57/l00,000
America – 4,500/100,000. ”

My note on the above; because America’s child protection systems is so overwhelmed, only the more severe cases of abuse are reported. I would estimate that the reported number of abused children could easily double if we were to honestly report just the most severe instances of abuse ( = 9000/100,000).

It has been my experience as a Hennepin County guardian ad-Litem that child protection services will not take the call unless multiple criteria are met. I have many stories from people that have told me how their report of abuse was not considered serious enough, or they were not deemed a credible source (in one case they were a family member reporting the abuse).

In 1998 comparative study of child abuse 9 years after the prohibition of corporal punishment in Sweden, 10.7% of American men and 8.2% of American women sampled stated that they had been victims of child abuse as children, compared to 3.9% of Swedish men and 0% of Swedish women in the sample. Finally, according to Joan Durrant, professor of family studies at the University of Manitoba in Canada, “Sweden went from a family violence- child death rate of 18% in 1970 to 0 percent in recent years”- a significant and congratulatory fact.

My note on the above; I have written about this at length this summer and give concrete proof that American parents are murdering hundreds if not thousands of very young children. One must include the seven year old Florida foster child that hung himself and the two year old foster child that was disappeared in Nevada.

We are better than this and children deserve more.

This is one more example of the great need for KARA’s grassroots effort to raise awareness to the needs of America’s at risk children.

Until that happens, children, schools, families and communities, will contintue to suffer.

It is a bigger step to convince people that healthy children become healthy citizens, but it is true.

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An Uplifting Day

Today board member Bob Olson and I interviewed a very bright and internationally well travelled student from a progressive local college. She is hoping to make a difference in the lives of America’s at risk youth.

We agreed that there needs to be a Mothers Against Drunk Drivers type grassroots movement to turn around the cradle to prison pipeline that continues to fill our communities with troubled youth and the problems that stem from growing up without the basic building blocks of life.

Our plan is to work together to gather information about how the other industrialized nations treat very young children and families and make comparisons that will help us better understand what sensible programs could make more kids finish school and go on to lead more productive lives.

Most of America’s public policies have been based on saving money in the short term.  Many of those policies have cost exponentially more money than if we had taken the long term view and made better choices.

As an example, U.S. high school graduation rates are dismal and the 25% illiteracy rate upon graduation rate is unheard of in other industrialized nations.  Blaming teachers for this result of bad public policy is like blaming doctors and nurses for the hospital population.

It is public policy (not teachers) that allows children to pass out of the third grade without reading skills.

Children that begin school without the tools to learn will not graduate, or if they do manage to make it through the process, it will be with minimal skills.

I still point at the money Minnesota did not save by failing to maintain the 35w bridge when it fell in the river two years ago.

The request for maintainance money  was denied repeatedly and when it collapsed its impact on the lives of the 113 dead and injured people and their families was far in excess of the almost one billion dollars in total costs of the bridge failure and reconstruction.

Likewise, taking care of children when they are young and able to change and grow is a easier and less expensive than working with mentally unstable youth in juvenile justice (over fifty percent of youth in juvenile justice have diagnosible mental health problems, about half of that population have multiple, serious mental health diagnosis).

Minnesota Governor Pawlenty’s plan insures that poor children and their families will be far less able to receive the basic building blocks of life.  

These children will fail more often in school and not thrive as citizens when they enter society.

At Pliny the Elder said 2500 years ago, “what you do to your children, they will do to your society”

Watch your prisons grow.

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Tennessee’s High Infant Death Rate

Tennessee’s High Infant Death Rate

Baby Death Public Health Crisis Thwarted by Poverty

By CRAIG LEAKE and DAVID APPLEBY
Aug. 22, 2008 ABC’s Health News Blog

There are places in America where the unthinkable is happening: Thousands of babies are dying.

The costs associated with saving a premature infant can be staggering.

Of the 23 richest countries, the United States has the highest rate of infant mortality, according to the CIA World Fact Book. And in Shelby County, Tenn., which encompasses Memphis, the state health department says a baby dies every 43 hours — a rate higher than that of any other major city. The babies most at risk come from impoverished parts of town with largely black populations.

This old Mississippi River town is now part of the “new South.” More than a million people live in Memphis’ city and suburbs. As in many other places, the city has been divided between those who can afford an upgraded lifestyle and those who remain in the older version of the city.

In the richer sections they’ve created their own parks, hospitals and schools — and, of course, churches.

Twice a year the Rev. Eli Morris, a minister at Hope Presbyterian, leads volunteers from his suburban congregation to a mission downtown, where they tour what can seem like a foreign country.

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Minnesota; Let Them Eat New Stadium

Thank you MN Catholic Conference (from which this is taken)

my note;
12 years watching abused and abandoned children struggle to make their way through a poorly resourced county system as a Hennepin County guardian ad-Litem makes it tough to witness the Governor’s defunding of programs that have kept them from the most basic services and abject poverty.

The Governor’s line-item veto of GAMC and proposed unallotments ignore the human dignity of our poorest and most vulnerable neighbors, and will cause significant harm to those among us who we are called to place first. And, in turn, it will further weaken our state’s continual pursuit of the common good. Though the Governor’s plan includes several harmful unallotments, our greatest concerns are with the following seven proposed unallotments:

1. Elimination of Emergency Assistance: On November 1, 2009, two of Minnesota’s three Emergency Assistance programs will end: Emergency General Assistance (EGA) and Emergency Minnesota Supplemental Assistance (EMSA). These two critical safety-net programs provide needed assistance to Minnesotans who cannot fully support themselves, usually due to illness or disability, and who are facing an emergency that threatens their health or safety. Oftentimes related to imminent eviction, foreclosure or utility shut-off, ignored emergencies place our already struggling neighbors on the edge of homelessness….

2. Elimination of GAMC Coverage on March 1, 2010: Health insurance for “the poorest of the poor and the sickest of the sick” will end four months earlier than expected. When the Governor line-item vetoed GAMC on May 14, the program was slated to end on July 1, 2010. However, under the executive power of unallotment, GAMC will instead end on March 1, 2010…. the Minnesota Legislature will have less than four weeks, after reconvening on February 4, 2010 to address the elimination of health care coverage for our 30,000 neighbors who are living at or below 75 percent of the Federal Poverty Guidelines.

3. Cutting Children & Community Services Grants: Children & Community Services Grants provide crucial funding for counties to purchase or provide social services for seniors, adults, children and families struggling with abuse and neglect, living with a disability, mental illness or chronic health condition, or living in poverty. Additionally, these grants provide services for: pregnant adolescents, adolescent parents and their children; adults who are vulnerable and in need of protection; people over the age of 60 who need help living independently; and people with developmental disabilities. The Governor proposes cutting Children & Community Services Grants by 25 percent during FY 2010, and by 33 percent during FY 2011.

These grants fund a variety of critical services: adoption, case management, counseling, foster care for adults and children, protective services for adults and children, residential treatment, services for people with developmental, emotional or physical disabilities, substance abuse counseling, transportation, and public guardianship.

As Pliny said 2500 years ago; “what you do to your children, they will do to your society”, or as former MN Chief Justice Kathleen Blatz said just a few years ago, “90 % of the youth in juvenile justice have come through child protection”. Nationally, over 50% of youth in juvenile justice have diagnosable mental illness, and fully half of that population have multiple and severe diagnosis (this goes along way in explaining why America’s schools and streets are troubled).

Minnesota’s governor’s won’t maintain bridges or people, and he thinks it economically sound policy in the face of disaster and double digit prison growth. He believes in God and stadiums, yet I know of no religion in the world that abandons the weakest and most vulnerable among us. I’m not against stadiums, I’m simply more pro children).

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Gabriel MyersKids need care, not pills, ex-foster children tell panel

Gabriel Myers, 7, hung himself in the bathroom of his
Margate foster home in April

A state group looking at the suicide of a young foster child met Thursday to discuss ways to improve care and listened to adults who said they were overmedicated in the foster-care system.
Foster Child: “felt like I was an animal on a farm being tested’

BY AMY SHERMAN

Mez Pierre, 22, and Kimberly Foster, 25, both from Broward County, told the group that mental health drugs — already at the center of the investigation of Gabriel Myers’s tragic death — aren’t the answer for many foster youth. Children need caring adults who will look at the causes of their difficult behavior, they said — not simply write prescriptions in an attempt to control it.

Foster said doctors prescribed medication when she got upset about being removed from her home. She was ultimately placed in facilities with locked windows and restraints.

”They were trying to control the symptoms I had from being put into the system. . . . How I reacted was normal,” Foster said. “I was sad. I was taken away from my home. Because of that they felt medication was the right way to treat me.”

Florida Department of Children & Families (DCF) administrators and child advocates who formed a work group to study Gabriel’s death held their third meeting Thursday in Fort Lauderdale. Gabriel hanged himself in the bathroom of his Margate foster home in April.

He had been prescribed several psychiatric drugs during his nine months in foster care.

Workgroup members spent much of the day talking about issues such as how to improve communication between various professionals who care for foster kids. The leaders discussed various forms and documents collected for each child, and the potential roadblocks in gathering the data — sometimes as simple as a fax not going through.

Anne Wells, pharmacy director for the state Agency for Health Care Administration, questioned how some of these efforts will help children in foster care. .

”I don’t mean to criticize, but I have listened to improvements, and checked boxes, forms and paperwork. I’m sorry. I just don’t get it,” she said. “Where does all of this stuff head off the outcome that Gabriel had?”

Wells also questioned whether administrators were too quick to blame medication for Gabriel’s death, rather than talking about what led to his being medicated in the first place.

OVER-MEDICATED

But both Pierre and Foster told the group that they were over-medicated as foster children.

”To hear a story about a foster youth who lost his life, I take that very, very personally,” said Pierre, who choked back tears during his presentation. “I went through a lot of things that Gabriel went through and to see one loss is very painful.”

Gabriel ‘wasn’t being cared for. He was just told `you have problems,’ ” Pierre said.

Pierre added that he was first prescribed medications when he entered the foster-care system at age 5. He was given multiple pills and various diagnoses, including attention deficit/hyperactivity and bipolar disorders.

”When I was on medications, I always felt like a zombie,” he said. “I felt drowsy. I didn’t feel human. I felt like I was an animal on a farm being tested.”

Today, Pierre is doing what many told him he couldn’t do: living a successful life without medications. Pierre, who lives in Deerfield Beach, said he has a job, attends Broward College and hopes to become a lawyer.

”Consider the lives . . . even though it’s a difficult job,” he told the group. “That doesn’t mean to neglect your responsibility and to not work together.”

Foster said she took herself off the medications when she was 18 and pregnant. She now lives in Pompano Beach with her husband and son.

NEVER SUICIDAL

”I have never displayed any suicidal ideations, no mutilations, no disorientations,” Foster said. ‘We are lost if we send a message to youth, `if you cry you are depressed.’ We are so quick to put diagnoses on a child for a lot of times being a normal adolescent.”

Both Pierre and Foster are active in a group called Florida Youth Shine which, among other things, testifies in Tallahassee about foster-care issues.

A Miami Herald article that showed Gabriel had been on several drugs, including anti-depressants associated with a higher risk of suicide, prompted DCF to investigate the prescribing of mental health drugs to children.

DCF Secretary George Sheldon formed the work group as part of the wide-ranging investigation.

The group Thursday discussed a recent state review of more than 100 foster children age 5 or younger receiving psychiatric drugs. The study revealed that child welfare administrators are ignoring rules designed to protect the children.

In the majority of cases, for example, there was no documentation to show that case managers coordinated with the prescribing practitioner to obtain a psychiatric evaluation.

Broward County’s top child-welfare judge, Circuit Judge John A. Frusciante, read a statement that he recently wrote to ChildNet, Broward’s private foster care agency, in response to child advocates in recent hearings who had no knowledge about the existence of ”black box warnings” on medications. He called for more education of case workers.

”It is deeply disturbing that child advocates have no knowledge of the FDA’s highest warnings for possibly life-threatening adverse effects of medications,” he wrote.

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You can see a CBS News video of the foster kids here:
http://gabrielmyers.wordpress.com/2009/06/18/dcf-panel-reviews-mental-health-policies/

Bookmark this page http://gabrielmyers.wordpress.com/ for up to date media coverage on this issue.

Postscript… I too have had 4 year old and 7 year old suicides as a Hennepin County guardian ad-Litem and a judge that has shared with me the pages of documented Prozac, Ritalin, and other Psychotropics given to very young children. This conversation needs to take place at a higher level (where something can be done about it).

Thank you Psych_News@psychsearch.net for this information.

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No More Child Advocacy In Much of Illinois

Children Abandoned in Illinois;
Carmi, Ill. -

Children’s advocacy centers across Illinois received bad news Thursday, said Sheryl Woodham, executive director of The Guardian Center, based

http://www.carmitimes.com/news/x986610407/State-officials-choose-to-cut-children

A fax indicated that, on July 1, the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services would execute a plan to no longer honor or renew contracts with children’s advocacy centers.

Difficult choices must be made to create a fiscally responsible budget for Illinois, Woodham said. “However, this severe loss of funding is resulting in a blatant disservice to the children of Illinois.”

Here is the balance of her statement:

“Children’s advocacy centers of Illinois exist for the sole purpose of protecting our abused children. With 38 offices serving 85 of the 102 counties of Illinois, CACs reached out to help over 11,220 children last year alone.

“CACs provide a multidisciplinary approach and services to sexually abused children and their families. Annual funding for these necessary services comes PRIMARILY from the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services. This tremendous loss of funding will force our local children advocacy centers to eliminate services, staff and may result in CACs closing their doors.

“Where will these children now go? What safe haven will be available to help children who have experienced the raw pain and hurt of child abuse?

“What a terrible decision for the state to make. These cuts were made under the auspice of saving money for the state. These cuts will COST the state, not save! Children’s advocacy centers save their communities money every day!

“A CAC provides a SAVINGS of over $1,000 per case compared to non-CAC investigations. Last year alone, CACs saved the State of Illinois over $11 million. In less than 20 days, all this will change due to this tremendous cut. The State of Illinois is choosing to cut a service that clearly SAVES state money.

“CACs exist to offer guidance, support and relief to children and their families. The State of Illinois needs to understand the seriousness of this miscalculated budget choice. Children need security and support. The drastic cuts by the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services will prohibit the CACs from assisting in the protection and support of our children. This is not an acceptable answer. The State of Illinois must find a way to protect our children.

“CACs save taxpayers money, decrease trauma for child victims by providing a child-friendly environment and ensure that the child receives comprehensives services to begin the healing process

“1 out of 3. 1 out of 6. These statistics represent how many girls and boys will be sexually abused or assaulted by the age of 18. 1 out of every 3 girls. Think of neighbors, sisters, cousins and daughters. 1 out of every six boys. Think of friends, brothers, nephews and sons. Who will protect them?

“Stand up and protect our children today. We must speak for those in our lives with the softest voices and greatest needs.”

Postscript;

As each state battles with its own deficit, legislators must decide whether to complete the new ballpark, or fund child protection.

My argument for child protection of course, is that healthy children make healthy adults and good citizens;  or as Pliny stated 2500 years ago, “what you do to your children, they will do to your society”

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California’s Growing Child Protection Problem

I lived in Alhambra CA where the following article outlines the deaths of fourteen children under county supervision.  Remember, it’s not that social workers don’t care… it is about public resources, and public policies that allow the weakest and most vulnerable to fall through the cracks.

http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-childabuse14-2009jun14,0,7157276.story

As L.A. County spun its wheels, children died

Sarah Chavez was returned to the home of her great-aunt and great-uncle in Alhambra despite having shown signs of abuse. She later died, primarily from a severed lower intestine, caused by a blow to her abdomen, the coroner found. She had just turned 2. The uncle was later convicted of involuntary manslaughter and child abuse. The aunt pleaded no contest to being an accessory.
Agencies have long failed to share information that could save lives. Repeatedly, ghastly cases shock officials, who call for action, which eventually fizzles. An effective database remains elusive.
By Garrett Therolf
June 14, 2009
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By the time he was rescued last year, the 5-year-old South Los Angeles boy was so malnourished his kidneys were failing. His hands were so badly burned he could barely open them.

Child welfare officials traced his history, trying to make sense of what had happened. According to documents obtained by The Times, they learned that eight separate agencies in Los Angeles County had pieces of information on the household:

One had evidence that the mother and her girlfriend were abused and neglected as children. Others knew both had committed violent crimes. Still others were aware that both women had been ordered into mental health treatment and that the sickly boy had missed appointments with county doctors.

Over the years, these agencies had come into contact with the boy or his caregivers 108 times — yet no one had pieced together how much danger the child was in. Indeed, county social workers had closed a 2005 child abuse investigation because the evidence was “inconclusive.” They might never have stepped in but for a concerned stranger who delivered the child into their hands.

It was a lesson in how poor communication had put a child’s life at risk — but it was hardly the first. For at least 18 years, Los Angeles County has repeatedly received urgent and sometimes gruesome reminders that its agencies don’t share vital information about potentially abused or neglected children, according to a Times investigation.

There have been numerous calls for reform — but little action. In the passing years, an unknown number of children have been harmed or killed.

At least a dozen reports have landed on county leaders’ desks since the early 1990s saying agencies that work with troubled families must improve their ability to talk to each other. County supervisors have freely admitted that the system is broken, and even have voted several times to establish computer systems to open communication channels.

Solutions have been doomed by bureaucratic infighting, turf wars, privacy concerns and limited political attention spans. When horrific deaths or abuse drop out of the news, the board and department heads often focus elsewhere, leading to long stretches of inaction — until another case gives them a terrible jolt.

“I couldn’t believe it,” former Supervisor Yvonne B. Burke said last year, upon learning of the 5-year-old’s ordeal. “Our system has to be just tighter. . . . This is a time when we really have to be vigilant.”

She joined her four colleagues in once again ordering county workers to draft a plan to improve information sharing. The plan has yet to materialize.

Meanwhile, county officials recently acknowledged that at least 32 children in L.A. County died from abuse or neglect in 2008. That set off another round of questions about what was needed to make kids safer.

“If we had a computer system that allowed us to the see the domestic violence, medical or mental health history in some of these families, some of these children might have been saved,” said Trish Ploehn, director of the county Department of Children and Family Services.

To those who have followed the issue over the years, these words are sadly familiar.

Postscript;   “Children that are the victims of failed personal responsibility are not my problem, nor are they the problem of the state of MN”

Initially stated by MN Governor Jesse Ventura,  four years later, repeated to David Strand and Andy Dawkins by MN Governor Tim Pawlenty.

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Study: Early Therapy Can Save Teens From Depression

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http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1902500,00.html?imw=Y

Time June 04, 2009

By Claudian Wallis

Depression is one of the dark demons of adolescence. Up to 1 in 12 American teenagers is affected, according to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), and three times as many will experience depression at some point by age 18. Studies show that at least 20% of teenagers with clinical depression will go on to develop chronic cases that will haunt them throughout adulthood. That is, if they reach adulthood. Suicide is a significant risk for depressed adolescents and the third leading cause of deaths among U.S. teenagers….The researchers will also examine what can be done for the adolescents whose parents are in the grips of depression: this subset, which was 45% of the participants, did not benefit significantly from the cognitive behavioral program.

“It’s awfully hard to change your thinking habits if a parent is depressed and everything is so chaotic around you,” observes Clarke. Future studies, says Garber, will look at whether treating the parent for depression makes a difference…

Because it focuses on prevention, the JAMA study “really moves the field forward,” says child psychologist Anne Marie Albano, who directs the Clinic for Anxiety and Related Disorders at Columbia University Medical Center.

Albano says that recent surveys showing rising rates of mental illness in college students have sounded the alarm about the need to intervene earlier to prevent the cascade of social, academic, economic and emotional woes that befall teens who slip into depression. “This study is telling us that if you get kids early in the cycle of depression when they have symptoms and are on the path, you can give them skills that manage those symptoms.”

Personal note; As a long time guardian ad-Litem, I am sensitive to the cascading problems children in dysfunctional homes must live with.

It is obvious to me that children of really troubled parents cannot escape the problems of their parents.  It is a benefit to all of us to have healthy children in our communities.

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