Monthly Archive for August, 2009

Summer Is No Vacation For Abused Kids

This article in the Washington Post, Summer Is No Vacation for Abused Kids reminded me of an inner city church that worked hard to save children from the nightmare choices facing their poor working parents when they are unable to afford daycare for their children over summer vacation.

This church often had many times the children they were able to care for…but they would not turn their communities children into the mean streets to be left on their own.  It was messy, it was stinky, and it was crowded, but it was safe.

Poor working families have no choices.

Thousands of names ahead of them on a list for subsidized day care that won’t provide help for years to come, means that any available family member, friend, or neighbor is considered a better option than leaving a three, five, or seven year old unattended (or is it?)

Leaving your child with that drunken or meth using uncle or aunt, the friend with the mental health issues, the dangerous or abusive teenager.  Children need and deserve better choices.

Choices that our communities are making it it harder and harder for poor people to make.   One of my guardian ad-Litem duties was to take children away from a father that could not afford daycare

It is a bigger step to convince people that healthy children become healthy citizens, but it is true.

Setting the Wrong Kind of Record

For those of us in child protection services this has been a horrific summer for babies in need of child protection services.

I was interviewed by the Star Tribune after the baby died in July in the bathtub after 14 calls to child protection.  Alex Ebert & Anthony Lonetree spoke with me about my experience as a guardian ad-litem and seemed quite surprised that multiple calls to a home with no official response were commonplace.

I worked on a case with 45 calls to a home before the child was removed (and only then because she tried to kill her five year old sister in the presence of the officers).  The officers were not at all surprised or defensive about this.  A prostitute lived in the home and it was highly probable that the seven year old had been prostituted.

Children deserve better.  Here are a few recent cases:

8 month old 8.24 in bloomington

Developmentally disabled child starved 8.04

8 month old homicide in Golden Valley 8.29

Anger at the parents serves no purpose.  Usually, their lot in life is as troubled as their child’s.  Helping them would help their child.

The best hope for these babies would have been a more responsive community with more compassion, more daycare, more crisis nursuries, and more child protection services.

MN day care

It is a bigger step to convince people that healthy children become healthy citizens, but it is true.

How You Frame the Issue

As a long time guardian ad-Litem, it is difficult for me not to speak out when I hear mean things being said about public support systems like day care, health care, or school systems.

I always see the children being left behind.

Few people argue openly with me when I frame the health care issue around not caring for babies and very young children (there is not a religion on the planet that allows it)

Most people can  be brought to understand the cost to society of having children abandoned to gangs, drugs, and poverty.

The MN prison budget alone this year is almost  500 million dollars & MN has been creating prisons at a rate of over 10% per year for five years now and led the nation in its incarceration growth rate last year.

Because people move away from pain more ardently than we move toward pleasure,  I point out the economics of leaving children to fail in our schools, streets, and communities, and the benefits of turning this around:

Quality of life measurements

Judging institutions by what they create – buying more crime

The hidden cost of crime

Bad public policy

MN day care

It is a bigger step to convince people that healthy children become healthy citizens, but it is true.

Make No Small Plans for Minnesota Children

This Article was written by Steve Kelley and first appeared in the Minneapolis Star Tribune;

Imagine the entire population of Mora homeless. Imagine that not one of St. Louis Park’s 40,000 residents has access to health care. Imagine that all of residents of Brooklyn Park, Brooklyn Center and Maple Grove are living in poverty.

Now imagine that they are all children. On Aug. 9, “Kids Count” released data showing that the number of children living in poverty in Minnesota grew by an astonishing 33 percent from 2001-2007. Right now, 2,700 children are homeless, 40,000 do not have health care and at least 112,000 children and counting are living in poverty. These numbers and the challenges they create for our schools — as revealed in the recent No Child Left Behind reports — should be jolting Minnesotans into action. We need to act to broadly change the future for our children.

But that is not what is happening in the governor’s office. Instead, Tim Pawlenty’s unallotments and the damage they will do have indelibly marked his pint-sized picture of Minnesota’s future. Pawlenty has offered only small ideas. As opposed to dealing with the myriad issues that our children face as they attempt to learn in our schools, the current administration has chosen the flawed path of blaming schools for our society’s failures.

For the sake of our collective future and for what is right, we can and must imagine a bigger, better Minnesota where all of our children don’t just survive, but thrive. To speed our recovery from this challenging recession, we must make no small plans.

We can look for inspiration to successes around the country and the world. One model of success is the Harlem Children’s Zone in New York. The Minneapolis Foundation recently sponsored a visit here by Geoffrey Canada, the Zone’s leader. Their goal is to have all the children who grow up in the 100-block zone graduate from college. Harlem Children’s Zone offers a Baby College for new parents, universal education for 4-year-olds, good public schools, chemical dependency and health counseling, and housing stability programs. All children there are wrapped in a variety of support systems designed to help them and their families succeed.

Some communities in Minnesota, with the help of foundations, are starting to work on similar approaches. These initiatives are a laudable start, but they raise the moral question of where the boundary lines for the new children’s zones should be drawn? Which kids get supported on their path to the American dream, and which kids do we leave out?

The right answer is that the whole state should be the Minnesota Children’s Zone. No less than in 100 blocks of Harlem, the goal for all children in Minnesota should be that they will all graduate from college and get their chance at living the American dream.

No one should doubt that we can achieve this goal. In a competitive world, we must achieve it. Step one is to invest in innovative early childhood education, including proven ideas like age three to grade three schools. By properly funding Minnesota’s schools, we can boost each child’s path to success in college. And by creatively reorganizing how we spend health care and housing dollars, we can ensure that families are healthy and stable enough to help their children succeed.

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MN day care

It is a bigger step to convince people that healthy children become healthy citizens, but it is true.

    AARP and CASA

    Sept/Oct AARP Magazine coverSee the article in the September/October 2009 issue of AARP magazine titled People Helping People: Profiles of people who volunteer and give back to their communities by Michelle Diament. It features a volunteer with the National Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association.

    So when Harris retired four years ago from the federal government in Fulton County, Georgia, the idea of working for a child-advocacy program seemed a perfect way to continue healing herself while helping others struggle with traumatic losses. As a volunteer for the National Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) Association, Harris assists abused, abandoned, or neglected children who are in foster care for their protection, then makes recommendations to the court about how to salvage their futures.

    Read the entire article: People Helping People: Profiles of people who volunteer and give back to their communities.

    MN day care

    It is a bigger step to convince people that healthy children become healthy citizens, but it is true.

    COURT APPOINTED SPECIAL ADVOCATES (CASA)

    The CASA program was created by a Seattle Washington judge who was concerned with his decisions about how to handle cases with abused and neglected children without sufficient information.

    This judge began using trained community volunteers to speak for the best interests of these children in court. The program was such a great success in Seattle that very soon judges across the country decided to use citizen advocates.

    Perhaps the hardest decision a judge will ever make is to remove a child from a birth family.

    For people outside the legal system, it is important to recognize the adversarial nature of courts and law in America. Divorce law is a tiny example of how painful our system makes the resolution of family legal matters. Child abuse and neglect are a sad but very real part of life in America and children must be protected against dangerous home environments.

    Today, federal law mandates that children in need of protection will have a CASA voice in the courtroom. After all, a five or six year old has not much more comprehension or ability to testify than a three year old in a courtroom setting.

    Not all CASA members are volunteers. Some CASA are paid staff and some are attorneys.

    As a long time volunteer CASA, I am partial to the volunteer programs mainly because we take fewer cases and by taking fewer cases we can spend more time and have more involvement with the child and family (read my book; http://www.invisiblechildren.org/our-book/ ) — these children really do need all the time, concern, and resources that this community can deliver.

    The following are a few CASA blogs and websites I have discovered that give a snapshot of CASA programs and accomplishments: Continue reading ‘COURT APPOINTED SPECIAL ADVOCATES (CASA)’

    FEATURED GUARDIAN AD LITEM PROGRAM WASHTENAW COUNTY

    If you know of an outstanding guardian ad-litem program please forward it to us at info@invisiblechildren.org

    WASHTENAW COUNTY
    426 children confirmed victims of abuse or neglect.

    252 children in out-of-home care due to abuse or neglect.

    As of October, 2008, 37 CASA volunteers are serving 78 children in Washtenaw County.

    (October, 2007: 30 CASA volunteers serving 54 children in Washtenaw County.)

    http://www.casawashtenaw.org/

    CASA guardian ad-Litem programs provide volunteers that learn the family circumstances in child abuse cases and make impartial recommendations to the court. Judges find the impartial insights of trained volunteers helpful in discerning the true state of the family and the risk of future abuse and neglect to the child.

    Take a moment and read the Washtenaw County Blog to get a feel for how this program works.

    http://www.casawashtenaw.blogspot.com/

    MN day care

    It is a bigger step to convince people that healthy children become healthy citizens, but it is true.